The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss the 10 things couples need to start normalizing in their marriages.  We tend to think that certain things are not normal such as setting boundaries, having conflict in the relationship and many other things so we try to stay away from doing them. This can be very unhealthy for our relationships. Normalizing these 10 things in your marriage will greatly enhance...

There have been many times in our marriage where we have been doing something just because we do it, that we later recognize it has had a profound positive impact on our relationship. We weren't doing it because we were trying to fix or improve anything, but just doing it because we enjoyed it, and then realize the benefits have been amazing! For example, we take a lot of showers together at...

For most couples, it is the little things that they stop doing that cause the big things to snowball in their marriage.. and often times even lead to divorce. We ran across a great news article that talked about the 2-2-2 rule that couples say is the key to a happy marriage. After reading the article.. we agree. If couples can do these  3 simple things in their relationship, they will most likely...

We men drive ourselves crazy wondering why our wives don't crave sexual intimacy as much as we do! After all, most of us are good-looking, romantic, great fathers, and awesome husbands! It's baffling how they can keep their hands off of us! In one of our recent conversations, Amy dropped a truth bomb about one of the reasons she doesn't crave intimacy as much as I (Nick) do. Her exp...

In this episode, Nick and Amy cover a lot of subjects from many of the polls they have done over the past few years and discuss the various subjects and thoughts they have on the polls. This podcast was recorded at 12am so they might be all over the place... Sometimes they have to work the night shift. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ult...

Husbands, if you want to know where and how your wife wants to be touched to get turned on, then you have found the right episode. In this episode, we share the poll questions and answers we asked the wives... and we also touch on other fun questions as well relating to women and sexual arousal. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores or at ultimateint...

Most men are afraid to tell their wife where and how they want to be touched, but we got all the low down from the husbands in our social media poll. So ladies, if you want to know where and how your husband wants to be touched intimately, and what drives him crazy... and have some good laughs as well, then you should listen to this episode. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate I...

After engaging in conversations with a lot divorced couples, many whom are relatives and friends, a common theme emerges: Many of them now have a deeper understanding of what went wrong in their relationship and what they could have done differently. They gained clarity on the factors that contributed to their divorce. Interestingly, some of these individuals acknowledge that by making certain cha...

The longing for perfection, both in ourselves and in our spouses, is a common theme that arises in couples and marriages. It's natural to desire perfection, thinking that if we achieve it, it will lead to bliss in the relationship. The truth is, longing for perfection will destroy intimacy in your relationship. Experience has shown that the more people chase perfection in life and marriage, t...

In this podcast episode, Nick and Amy share how these certain products can literally change your marriage. They also share the reason behind each product they have designed or sell in their online store, and why they believe it can help your marriage.  Whether your a couple that struggles with communication, emotional intimacy, sexual intimacy, or have barriers that keep you from having the marria...

Do you wish your husband was more romantic and affectionate in your marriage? Find out what other women just like you said in the poll we did and in the questions we asked our audience! Nick and Amy discuss what women wish their husbands would do to be more romantic. They also talk about how couples can navigate these differences instead of letting them cause conflict in the marriage. Husbands, th...

Oh, the complexity of the female body. It is enough to drive a sane man crazy! For many husbands, trying to understand the female body is like trying to understand quantum physics, or someone speaking a different language. What works for her one night, doesn't work another night.  What feels good one time doesn't feel good the next. In this episode, we put a poll on instagram and asked t...

Are you (or your spouse) an introvert or extrovert? Are one of you a thinker vs feeler? Do you plan things out or are you spontaneous? Do you have an assertive or accommodating personality? Imagine the frustration if one spouse is an introvert and wants to stay at home all the time and the other spouse wants to get out of the house and be around friends and family, or one spouse is spontaneous whi...

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into "The things your wife wants you to know when it comes to sex. Husbands often tell us they have no idea what their wife wants (and sometime the wife doesn't even know what she wants).  For the men feeling this way, this podcast episode will help you understand what your wives want when it comes to sex as we share man...

Sex is an area where many couples struggle to find balance, often with one spouse having a higher desire for sex and the other having a lower desire. This struggle can contribute to problems and even divorce among married couples. It's important to recognize that men often feel loved through sexual intimacy, while women often feel loved through emotional intimacy. Finding the balance between...

There are SO many reasons couples stop having sex. The problem is when sexual intimacy stops happening for whatever reason (or is less frequent), then couples start disconnecting both sexually and emotionally, and growing apart, because sexual intimacy and emotional intimacy go hand in hand. If you listen to our podcast regularly, you know the importance of sexual intimacy in marriage that we cont...

In most relationships and marriages (whether done intentionally or unintentionally), women have complete control and say so when it comes to sex. They typically determine "if" a couple is going to have sex, "when" they are going to have sex, and everything related to sex in the relationship. Many husbands are scared to initiate sex with their spouse for fear of rejection, havin...

We talk about communication often, but there is a reason why. When couples contact us about issues they are dealing with in their relationship, or how they want to improve something, the first question we ask is "have to talked to your spouse?"   Almost every response the answer is "well no, I haven't." It is amazing how many couples can't and don't communicate h...

Fear in marriage, and in life can have severe consequences. Fear can also keep us from progressing as it paralyzes us from taking risks that can better our marriage, future and life. In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss how fear can impact your marriage, the different aspects that people fear, and the things couples can do to overcome their fear. Here are just a couple of  the things couples (or...

Ok, we know we are Ultimate Intimacy and our niche is helping couples that have a good marriage that want to make it even better... so why are we talking about infidelity? How is this going to benefit a couple that has a good marriage and why would you want to listen to a podcast about why couples have affairs? Well the truth is even couples that have strong marriages can end up destroying their l...

We feel all of our podcast episodes are very important, but we wanted to list the top 10 episodes that we think can be the most influential for many couples. These are also the topics that we get the most feedback and/or downloads on, and also see that most couples struggle with or want areas of improvement. In this episode, Nick and Amy share the podcasts that they think can be the most influenti...

Why do so many couples fall "out" of love in marriage? We know the divorce rate is near 50% so chances are many couples that are listening to this podcast and feel they have a happy marriage could unfortunately end up in divorce.  But that doesn't need to happen if you understand the reasons this happens and what you can do in your relationship to not let it happen to you. In this e...

Do you ever feel like your conversations are always taking about the same things and they are never fun and exciting like when you were dating, or first got married? Do you want to have those fun and exciting conversations again like you had early on in your relationship? This is the episode that will change the way you have your conversations and bring back the excitement and fun into them! Nick...

Welcome to the "Ultimate Intimacy Podcast" where we help couples find "Ultimate Intimacy" in their relationship.  Join Nick and Amy, as they discuss the various ways you can express your love and gratitude for your husband, and make him feel special. Drawing from a combination of personal experiences, expert insights, and real-life stories, each tip presented in this episode is...

We get SO many messages from couples saying “when I try to talk to my spouse about sex, or other intimate things it always causes and argument” What can I do? In this episode Nick and Amy talk to Dr. Wyatt Fischer about how couples can learn to communicate about intimacy and other tough topics as well as tips on what couples can do to avoid conflict when having these conversations. Every couple on...