The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

In episode 203 - Why Keeping Porn Out Of Your Marriage Matters, we talked about the impact porn has on marriages, shared some important statistics and ways to keep it out of your life. We also discussed why you should keep porn out of your marriage at all costs. In this episode, Nick has the pleasure of interviewing Jason, a good Christian husband and family man who started looking at porn at an e...

In today's digital age, it's hard to escape the allure of social media. We're constantly bombarded with carefully curated snapshots of others' lives, and it's easy to fall into the trap of comparison. But have you ever considered how this seemingly harmless habit can have a profound impact on your marriage? Join us on this episode as we explore the perilous consequences of...

How do your parenting boundaries impact your sexual intimacy? In this episode we dive in and expose the reasons why you need to have boundaries with your kids to keep your sexual intimacy strong in your marriage. Some of the boundaries we discuss are: Why you shouldn't allow your young kids to sleep in your bed (and you shouldn't let your older kids as well). Why you need to prioritize ...

What if the key to a fulfilling marriage was right at your fingertips?  We're talking about emotional intimacy, the foundation of a vibrant and satisfying relationship. In our recent poll, an overwhelming 94% of you agreed that a strong emotional bond should be the cornerstone of a thriving marriage and that you emotionally have to be connected before the desire for the sexual connection. In...

Being extremely vulnerable in marriage involves sharing your deepest thoughts, feelings, fears, and desires with your spouse in a way that creates a deep and intimate connection. The more you are vulnerable with each other, the more trust and connection you will have as a couple. In this podcast episode Nick and Amy share the ways you can be more vulnerable and open up together as a couple.  If yo...

We get asked a lot of common questions on our social media and through email about sexual intimacy, so for this podcast we thought it would be great to answer the common questions people have. Some of these questions include: How can I get my spouse to want more sexual intimacy? What are the best ways to talk about sex as a couple without having it cause an argument? Sex is not a priority and we c...

We love the saying "actions speak louder than words" because it is so true! We can say "I love you" to our spouse all the time but that really means nothing unless it's backed up by actions. Love is a verb which requires action on our part. Yes, it is important too to express love verbally as well, but words without actions mean nothing. In this episode we talk about how y...

In this episode we discuss why you should keep porn out of your marriage, and life. We share some shocking statistics, share experiences and talk about how to know if you have a porn addiction. Pornography is like a plague that can (and will) destroy marriages and families and we believe this is one of the things that will destroy our society. Pornography is everywhere! It shows up on social media...

We did a fun video on our social media sharing a wife's needs list compared to a husbands needs list and of course it went viral and we got a ton of great comments and feedback on the video. Most the people who saw the video did agree with what we stated, but shared the reason why they believe it was like that. In this episode we share many of the comments from the video and discuss why a wom...

When a couples priorities, values and goals are not aligned in marriage, it can throw everything off and cause a lot of disconnect. And let's get real.. there are a lot of couples that deal with this in their relationship.  These things could include: Different financial goals. Maybe one spouse is a saver while the other is a spender. Different religious beliefs and expectations. Health and l...

In most marriages, there are a few key and essential things couples need to do to have a happy and long lasting marriage, and the couples that do these things (or most of them) find enjoyment and fulfillment in their relationships. In this episode Nick and Amy talk about the keys to a long lasting and happy marriage. Yes, we understand we have only been married over 21 years and still have a long...

Over 2 years ago, we did a podcast episode with sex and health expert Cindy Scharkey titled: It's all about the clitoris, the key to unlocking female pleasure which you can listen to HERE. That has been one of the most downloaded episodes to date and has helped a lot of women learn to enjoy sexual intimacy. The statistics are crazy about how hard it is for many women to have an orgasm, largel...

This is one of the most commonly asked questions: How often should married couples be having sex and what is ideal to achieve the greatest happiness? In this episode Nick and Amy share the poll results from their audience asking this question, and also share what MANY experts and studies have shown to back it up. We think this episode can be a great help to finding a balance in your relationship t...

There are so many things that keeps couples from "connecting" in their marriages. To find that connection, we often need to "disconnect" from the things in our marriage that are causing the disconnections. In this podcast, we delve into the intricate web of factors that can hinder couples from truly connecting within their marriages. To uncover that elusive connection, we often...

A while back, we did a poll and podcast on how a lot of husbands have at sometime in their marriage felt like their wife just wanted them for a paycheck. As we talk to couples all the time, we often hear how some women feel like their husband just wants them for sexual intimacy.  So of course we had to do a poll and podcast on this subject because if many women feel that way, we need to talk about...

Too often, we view sex as a mere physical act, overlooking the emotional intensity and connection it offers for both spouses. If you follow our polls we do, MANY men state that sex is so much more than just sex! It is the way they feel loved.. and show love, and many more reasons which we share. Many women (or lower desire spouses) complain about the high sex drive. In this podcast episode we dive...

Have you ever felt like you're the only one seeking emotional connection in your relationship? You're not alone. We, Nick and Amy, get real about the dynamics of pursuers—the ones actively seeking intimacy—and withdrawers—those who prefer a bit more distance in relationships. Drawing from our own experiences, we're  looking at how personality types and situational factors can switch...

In this episode we will guide you through avoiding and addressing toxic behaviors that can seep into even the happiest of relationships. From our personal experiences to our insightful discussion on important issues like gaslighting and financial control, we lay the groundwork for fostering healthier relationships. We also tackle issues like jealousy, silent treatment and constant criticism. Our c...

DISCLAIMER - We are not responsible for your actions, or any arrests due to your actions, so use wise discretion when applying these naked date ideas to your date nights :) Please do them in a private place because no one wants to see that. Ready to ignite sparks of intimacy in your relationship? We guarantee you will find that flame in this episode as we venture together through the favorite nake...

We have been watching a show called “Married At First Sight” where 3 relationship and marriage experts/therapists match up couples who then  get married without ever seeing each other prior to getting married. One of the reasons we wanted to watch the show is a couple of the couples from previous seasons in the show, who actually stayed married, have been proponents of our app and have promoted it...

There are many types of sexual intimacy within a marriage and a time and place for each of them. Many couples only experience sex when the time is right, they are both in the mood (or the lower desire spouse approves of it) and the experience is typically the same each time. But sexual intimacy in a relationship doesn't have to be that way! There are MANY ways to experience sex in a relations...

Are you a wife that gets frustrated because your husband can't read your mind, doesn't know your thoughts, how you are feeling, or even what you expect of him? Are you a husband that lacks mind reading abilities and doesn't always know what your spouse is thinking, feeling or wanting? It's normal to hear comments from women like "my husband should know how I feel.. I shoul...

In this insightful podcast episode, Nick and Amy dive into the intricate relationship between parenting older kids and teens, and intimacy within a marriage. We hear from many couples who are struggling with kids and express how their marriage is negatively affected in so many ways because of it. As parents, we invest tremendous effort in guiding our kids toward success and happiness. However, the...

It's time for Sexy September YAY! Are you ready to join us and dive headfirst into a month of intense romance, fiery love-making, and unbreakable connection?  We have all tried a new diet or set a new goal, and have laid out a plan and agenda for this goal right?  It helps to have structure and plans... and this is exactly what we have created for your marriage! It is an entire month plan and...

We have had many couples we know personally, as well as others from our app and content messaging us, stating that they are losing physical attraction to their spouse or that they no longer feel physically attracted to their spouse for various reasons. The common questions are, "What can I do to regain physical attraction to my spouse again?" or "What can I do to make my spouse feel...