The Susan Winter Show

Ever wondered why the partner who took you for granted suddenly becomes interested the moment you walk away? Learning the psychological basis for the dating game of hot cold frees you to make your own moves, independent of reactivity or false hope.

The issue of children is the single greatest handicap facing an older women and her younger partner. This decision needs to be addressed before moving into a serious partnership. Learn the ‘3 types of men' that have strong opinions on this issue, and determine which one you're dating (or which man you are).

If you've found online dating frustrating (and wonder if you're doing something wrong) — it's not you. The design of this format creates the ‘blind purchase effect.' Here's how to work around that flaw, and find dating success.

Age gap courtship is a modern design, but establishing a balanced powerbase begins early.  Many older women feel they “should” pay for initial dates, yet fail to realize the long-term repercussions of this otherwise generous act. Here's how to keep the balance and allow the partnership to flourish.

Wondering if the intimacy you share online can translate into a real-world relationship? What does it mean if your partner's hesitating to meet face-to-face? Here's how to navigate the connection you have with your virtual lover.

You could understand being left for an ‘upgrade.' But why did your ex choose a downgrade? Learn the odd twist on why being too good is intimidating, and causes certain mates to seek comfort in the arms of a lesser partner.

Dating can feel like a blur of bad experiences and frustrating outcomes. But the revolving door of romance holds far greater gifts that you'd imagine. This learning curve holds great riches you get to keep, and the promise of love.

Long distance relationships are indeed workable, if both partners are working toward a common goal. Here's the essential element that you both need to have in place in order to make your love affair last.

For those of you courageous enough to love, I applaud you. Never let anyone diminish this worthy feat of bravery and confidence. Don't listen to the fearful bystanders and those safely seated in the bleachers. Here's why you're a winner of the highest magnitude.

Personal transformation may initially make us feel separate, but ultimately leads us to greater connection with those around us. Here's how to incorporate the ‘new you' into your new dating goals, and flourish in your newfound options and opportunities.

The only successful approach to dating a player is to honor the rules of the game. Learn the art of   compartmentalization, and remain grounded in the reality of “what is.” Here's the mindset you need to enjoy your guilty pleasure, and thrive within the construct of this type of liaison.

Women have been programmed to believe their desirability is based on youth and beauty. Dating a younger man will test the limits of your confidence. Here's a more accurate analysis of your worth, as seen through the eyes of your younger man.

If you're exhausted from bad dates, crazy daters, and you're losing faith in finding love — it's time for a timeout. Here's my cure for dating burnout. And,check out my two esteemed colleagues specializing in this life-changing process: Iulia Calota — http://www.iuliacalota.com Aska Kolton — http://www.getreadyforlove.uk

They pursued you with texting and online chatting. Why did they cool off? They may have been playing the dating game of ‘window shopping.' Here's how to spot the ‘lookers' from the buyers.

Paying attention to a woman's sexual cues gives you the ‘green light' to advance at her pace. If you move too fast, she'll back peddle and stall. If she moves too fast (to please you) she'll run away. Master the art of knowing how and when to advance for sustained sexuality and romance.

Does your partner make you feel like you're not enough? That you're lacking “something” that's making him not love you, as you'd like? Chances are it has nothing to do with you. He simply hasn't awakened to love (in general). Learn how men evolve into their ability to love.

There's a marked difference between settling in love, and being realistic. Settling acknowledges having options for better choices that we didn't take.  Being realistic takes all existing factors into account and determines the best romantic choice possible.

Here's a complete breakdown of the many forms of jealousy: when it's a warning sign, when it's your insecurity, and when your partner is using jealousy to gain control over you. Learn the hallmarks of each type, and how to best handle your situation.

Mystified why all your self-awareness hasn't produced a mate? Evolved individuals often lament not finding love, especially when they've done everything possible to become a great partner. Not to worry. There's one small adjustment to be made in your partner selection process.

Does your partner whine, complain, and act disagreeable when they don't get their way?  Though immature, this is emotional manipulation. Here's how to establish your boundaries and come to a more agreeable partnership with your mate.

Self-love begins with liking yourself and living your truth. It's a process of coming into agreement with the choices you've made, and standing behind those decisions. Little by little, you'll find yourself stronger and more confident, as unification takes hold.

You've invested everything you have to give in order to make this relationship work. Yet, all of your love, time, and effort have failed to make it better. Like a degenerate gambler, you've lost so much at the gaming table of love that you're ashamed to walk away. Here's how to recover your dignity and move forward toward a better future.

There's a time in every relationship when we'll wonder if what we have is the best choice for us. How do we know when good, is good enough? Here are the questions to ask yourself in order to assess your odds.

There's an overwhelming need to “do something” when your ex is seeing someone new. Learn why ‘waiting' is the action step that works to your favor. Your ex needs to duty date for comparison. You don't have a foothold until the honeymoon phase is over and everyday irritations occur. Catch your ex on the dating descend, while having used this time to become a better version of yourself.

Age-gap couples can encounter negative comments. Stunt your critics by having pre-loaded responses worked out in advance. You'll conquer the ignorant by having these elegant one-liners locked and loaded for a powerful comeback.