The Susan Winter Show

They pursued you with texting and online chatting. Why did they cool off? They may have been playing the dating game of ‘window shopping.' Here's how to spot the ‘lookers' from the buyers.

Paying attention to a woman's sexual cues gives you the ‘green light' to advance at her pace. If you move too fast, she'll back peddle and stall. If she moves too fast (to please you) she'll run away. Master the art of knowing how and when to advance for sustained sexuality and romance.

Does your partner make you feel like you're not enough? That you're lacking “something” that's making him not love you, as you'd like? Chances are it has nothing to do with you. He simply hasn't awakened to love (in general). Learn how men evolve into their ability to love.

There's a marked difference between settling in love, and being realistic. Settling acknowledges having options for better choices that we didn't take.  Being realistic takes all existing factors into account and determines the best romantic choice possible.

Here's a complete breakdown of the many forms of jealousy: when it's a warning sign, when it's your insecurity, and when your partner is using jealousy to gain control over you. Learn the hallmarks of each type, and how to best handle your situation.

Mystified why all your self-awareness hasn't produced a mate? Evolved individuals often lament not finding love, especially when they've done everything possible to become a great partner. Not to worry. There's one small adjustment to be made in your partner selection process.

Does your partner whine, complain, and act disagreeable when they don't get their way?  Though immature, this is emotional manipulation. Here's how to establish your boundaries and come to a more agreeable partnership with your mate.

Self-love begins with liking yourself and living your truth. It's a process of coming into agreement with the choices you've made, and standing behind those decisions. Little by little, you'll find yourself stronger and more confident, as unification takes hold.

You've invested everything you have to give in order to make this relationship work. Yet, all of your love, time, and effort have failed to make it better. Like a degenerate gambler, you've lost so much at the gaming table of love that you're ashamed to walk away. Here's how to recover your dignity and move forward toward a better future.

There's a time in every relationship when we'll wonder if what we have is the best choice for us. How do we know when good, is good enough? Here are the questions to ask yourself in order to assess your odds.

There's an overwhelming need to “do something” when your ex is seeing someone new. Learn why ‘waiting' is the action step that works to your favor. Your ex needs to duty date for comparison. You don't have a foothold until the honeymoon phase is over and everyday irritations occur. Catch your ex on the dating descend, while having used this time to become a better version of yourself.

Age-gap couples can encounter negative comments. Stunt your critics by having pre-loaded responses worked out in advance. You'll conquer the ignorant by having these elegant one-liners locked and loaded for a powerful comeback.

Learn the benefit of clear communication in establishing the type relationship you want. Your ‘rules of engagement' are essential information for pulling in the right partner and eliminating the wrong partners.

Becoming the strong version of a nice guy isn't found in acting like a bad guy. Healthy, high value women don't want that type of man. Access your power by being decisive, proactive, and having boundaries. Here's how to win the girl and be the man you both respect.

You've met someone new. They're great. And, newly single. Are they over their ex? Is their ex over them? Here's how to tell if your new flame is ready to move forward with you, or if you're just a temporary fix.

The greatest pain we feel in a breakup comes from the loss of the dream our partner inspired within us. With their entrance to our life, we constructed a vision of our future. Separating the lover from the dream is the quickest way out of heartache and back to emotional freedom. Read more: http://www.susanwinter.net/endings/death-of-a-dream

We've been given horrible dating advice. Playing it cool isn't alluring. Acting disinterested doesn't ignite a new partner's affection. Learn the tactic the players use — attraction and interest. They're masters of this game. Only warmth coaxes a guarded heart to open.

Are you confused by your partner's fluctuating emotions? Are you struggling with your own reactivity (to their reactivity)? Learn the 3 distinct phases of love maturity. Here's how to handle your mate and gain the self-mastery you need for a rewarding relationship.

You know you need to leave your partner. But hesitation, guilt, and fear are stopping you from cutting the cord. Learn the ‘best methods' approach to an artful breakup; one that's kind, clean and definitive. For more information on this topic, read:http://www.susanwinter.net/to-stay-or-leave-for-the-huffington-post/

Bad breakups with cruel behavior can tempt us to thoughts of revenge. The trick to kick-starting Karma lies in non-interference. This is the magical property that levels the playing field and does for you, what you could never achieve with malice. For more information on this topic, read:http://www.susanwinter.net/to-stay-or-leave-for-the-huffington-post/

There are three types of men who can't (or won't) love you. Know which one you're dating and how to handle your next move. You have choices — once you understand the nature of your man's reasons.

Dating confidence is an outgrowth of proper partner selection; choosing those who value you and make you a priority. Yearning for an unresponsive partner destroys your inherent confidence and self-esteem. Here's how to succeed at love and establish a rewarding partnership.

The greatest misconception surrounding this love model is that it's only a sexual fling. Sex is never just about sex. When taunted by critics, prepare your quips in advance. Here's how to manage the false assumptions about your love, and set outsiders straight.

Shift from anxiety to confidence within a matter of minutes by using “The Internal Accountant” technique. This perspective turns the tables on an unresolved breakup fear while putting you back in control of your emotions.

Struggling with the fate of your relationship? Here are the questions you need to ask yourself, and the discussion you need to have with your mate. How to evaluate, negotiate, and determine “willingness” will give you your answer. For more information on this topic, read:http://www.susanwinter.net/to-stay-or-leave-for-the-huffington-post/