The Susan Winter Show

Learn the benefit of clear communication in establishing the type relationship you want. Your ‘rules of engagement' are essential information for pulling in the right partner and eliminating the wrong partners.

Becoming the strong version of a nice guy isn't found in acting like a bad guy. Healthy, high value women don't want that type of man. Access your power by being decisive, proactive, and having boundaries. Here's how to win the girl and be the man you both respect.

You've met someone new. They're great. And, newly single. Are they over their ex? Is their ex over them? Here's how to tell if your new flame is ready to move forward with you, or if you're just a temporary fix.

The greatest pain we feel in a breakup comes from the loss of the dream our partner inspired within us. With their entrance to our life, we constructed a vision of our future. Separating the lover from the dream is the quickest way out of heartache and back to emotional freedom. Read more: http://www.susanwinter.net/endings/death-of-a-dream

We've been given horrible dating advice. Playing it cool isn't alluring. Acting disinterested doesn't ignite a new partner's affection. Learn the tactic the players use — attraction and interest. They're masters of this game. Only warmth coaxes a guarded heart to open.

Are you confused by your partner's fluctuating emotions? Are you struggling with your own reactivity (to their reactivity)? Learn the 3 distinct phases of love maturity. Here's how to handle your mate and gain the self-mastery you need for a rewarding relationship.

You know you need to leave your partner. But hesitation, guilt, and fear are stopping you from cutting the cord. Learn the ‘best methods' approach to an artful breakup; one that's kind, clean and definitive. For more information on this topic, read:http://www.susanwinter.net/to-stay-or-leave-for-the-huffington-post/

Bad breakups with cruel behavior can tempt us to thoughts of revenge. The trick to kick-starting Karma lies in non-interference. This is the magical property that levels the playing field and does for you, what you could never achieve with malice. For more information on this topic, read:http://www.susanwinter.net/to-stay-or-leave-for-the-huffington-post/

There are three types of men who can't (or won't) love you. Know which one you're dating and how to handle your next move. You have choices — once you understand the nature of your man's reasons.

Dating confidence is an outgrowth of proper partner selection; choosing those who value you and make you a priority. Yearning for an unresponsive partner destroys your inherent confidence and self-esteem. Here's how to succeed at love and establish a rewarding partnership.

The greatest misconception surrounding this love model is that it's only a sexual fling. Sex is never just about sex. When taunted by critics, prepare your quips in advance. Here's how to manage the false assumptions about your love, and set outsiders straight.

Shift from anxiety to confidence within a matter of minutes by using “The Internal Accountant” technique. This perspective turns the tables on an unresolved breakup fear while putting you back in control of your emotions.

Struggling with the fate of your relationship? Here are the questions you need to ask yourself, and the discussion you need to have with your mate. How to evaluate, negotiate, and determine “willingness” will give you your answer. For more information on this topic, read:http://www.susanwinter.net/to-stay-or-leave-for-the-huffington-post/

The guy you're dating hasn't clarified his end-goals and you're afraid to ask. This dating game keeps you stuck in a loop of auditioning for the role of girlfriend. There's a better way to find love that bypasses the 3-month test drive phase and retains your confidence.

Being too “busy” is a classic brush-off line. Don't bite the bait. When a partner really cares for you, he or she will make the time to see you. Here's how to handle this dating game with tact and confidence.

Want your ex back, but hate the pain of waiting and hoping? Wish you could find someone else? This technique shifts the focus and puts you back in control, while keeping the door open to new love.

When you suddenly feel the need to defend or justify yourself, it's a sign that you've been lured into a dating game for control. Though originated by the Pick Up Artist (PUA) community, these techniques have made their way to mainstream dating behavior. Decoding these games reinstates your power and confidence.

The greatest misconception surrounding this love model is that it's only a sexual fling. Sex is never just about sex. When taunted by critics, prepare your quips in advance. Here's how to manage the false assumptions about your love, and set outsiders straight.

When a relationship ends we're left with the pain of our loss. But we often fail to find our gains. Here's how to come away with a gift that no one can take from us.

Happy couples can easily become moody and irritated when they've spent too much time together. Learn the delicate balance between sharing time together and spending time apart.

Are you desperately trying to get over someone you can't have? Here's how you locked them into place, and the remedy for moving out of pain and into true freedom.

Why your partner's shutting down, and what you can do to open them up again.

Feeling like you just can't win in the world of dating? Maybe it's NOT you. Maybe it's your choice of partner. Here's how to know if you're looking at your worth through the distorted mirror of the wrong partner.

Countless smart, savvy professionals struggle with dating. Why would these confident and competent people ignore the wealth of information they use on a day-to-day basis. Master your dating life by incorporating your professional skills.

We worry that being ‘nice' is our downfall in romance. Not so. In love, being nice is one of our greatest assets. Learn how to make your disposition work for you, not against you.