The Susan Winter Show

Learn the art of mastering the perfect response to any form of bad behavior when dating. Here's how to find your unique style to effectively correct and reroute your partner.

Frustrated by the lack of thoughtful behavior in dating? Wondering how to make “no rules” dating work for you? Here's one rule that must be honored for you to succeed in finding and keeping love.

The “text message” breakup is a cowardly escape plan that avoids the emotional fallout of having a proper ending. The partner who does this lacks character and kindness. Though you're hurting now, you're lucky to be free. Here's why you're better off in the long run.

How far apart can the power differences be between you and your mate and still result in a happy, functional relationship? Here are the red flags to look for when entering a partnership, and the adjustments that need to be made in an established relationship.

New relationships can experience fits and starts. There's much happening behind the scenes that you won't know (and your new partner may not be telling you). When something feels off, how can you know if it's you, or it's the truth? Here's how to gauge your instincts and also allow room for human error.

When you know yourself, any decision on dating, sex, or relationships results in an effortless answer. Don't preoccupy your mind with, “What do they want?” Reverse the order. Trust yourself to be your best advocate and guide to knowing how to achieve love.

Too short, but just right? Older than you wanted but the perfect fit? Too thin, too full, too dark, too light… what happens when we find our perfect match in an unexpected package? Here's how to get past preconceived ideas as to your “perfect” physical package and embrace the love you've found.

Anyone who's been on the losing end of a breakup fantasizes about gaining the upper hand over their ex. This can only happen when you've taken the time to reinvest in yourself.  Newfound confidence is sexy and enticing, especially to your ex. When you're no longer under their thumb, you've gained the upper hand.

Learning to love is like learning how to drive a car. We need formal instruction and behind-the-wheel training. Here's how to understand your “manual” and prepare yourself for any type of terrain.

Power differences between partners can set the stage for ongoing relationship issues. From insecurity, jealousy and feeling devalued, to feeling a false sense of safety and superiority — trading up too high or down too low in a mate will create internal chaos. Here's how to get the power structure re-stabilized, and to your favor.

The loss of a partner is difficult under normal circumstances. When it's due to death, the devastation is amplified exponentially.  Guilt and fear can keep us frozen in time, afraid to move forward with our lives for fear we're betraying their memory. Here's how to mentally justify wanting to date again, and how to be open to the experience of love.

You've got shared attraction and ongoing communication. You're definitely in the game. But, you're not getting a solid green light for romance. Here's how to pivot to a hard YES with your date, or tally up your odds and adjust accordingly.

You've patched up your relationship. Things are going well. But you're wondering if the issues of the past are really gone. Here's how to make the necessary changes you need to make your love last.

Deal breakers are fluid in new relationships. When we're really into someone, we'll overlook things we said we didn't want in a partner. Yet, when we're not fully connecting to our mate, a minor infraction becomes a “reason” to exit. Here's the difference between a valid deal breaker and the perfect excuse to leave a new relationship.

Your new mate's just given you an excuse that feels lame. Before you spin out of control, pause. Here's the best way to handle suspecting a lie, while hoping to preserve a new relationship and get to the truth.

We're living in a time period of evolutionary disruption — which including dating. Here's how to create a better structure for a love that works for you. ‘A La Carte Love' allows you to be the designer of the type of romantic format that resonates for you

Breakups are crushing no matter when they occur. But holiday breakups have a different meaning. It's a time of reassessment, and a time of honesty. Sometimes that's the most noble intention your ex is able to offer you.  Here's how to see the holiday breakup in a different light.

There are times when outer conditions affect our inner sense of dating worthiness. If you've experienced a limitation you ‘think' is an issue, this video holds your prescription for feeling better about yourself in the world of romance and attraction.

Imagined jealousies, irrational fears and trust issues place a heavy burden on the partner whose mate has insecurity issues. Here's how to manage your participation in your partner's fears while maintaining peace in your relationship.

You're in a relationship, but your partner won't admit it to you, or the outside world. Nagging, pushing and pleading won't help. Going in the opposite direction will. Learn the amazing advantage of putting your ego in your back pocket to gain the relationship status you know you already have.

Learning how women think will help you know how to retain a woman's love and affection. Here's where some men are making the mistake of forcing nature against itself and creating an unsafe journey for a woman's heart.

Wondering how to progress to the next step of your mutual attraction? Worried anything you do or say will look desperate and needy? Here's a perfect solution that's both confident and alluring.

Why do some people find love easily and for others it's a struggle? Before you make a snap judgment remember there's more to the story than meets the eye. Here's the antidote to feeling blue when you see others partnered.

You sense incredible mutual attraction. You're certain they're into you. Yet, they resist making a move, and avoid every opportunity for engagement. Here's how to bypass their defection and move forward into a meaningful romance.

Though online dating has become ‘the norm' for meeting prospective mates, it's frustrating and fueled with problems. Here's how to benefit from your time spent searching and narrow in on quality partners.