The Susan Winter Show

Deal breakers are fluid in new relationships. When we're really into someone, we'll overlook things we said we didn't want in a partner. Yet, when we're not fully connecting to our mate, a minor infraction becomes a “reason” to exit. Here's the difference between a valid deal breaker and the perfect excuse to leave a new relationship.

Your new mate's just given you an excuse that feels lame. Before you spin out of control, pause. Here's the best way to handle suspecting a lie, while hoping to preserve a new relationship and get to the truth.

We're living in a time period of evolutionary disruption — which including dating. Here's how to create a better structure for a love that works for you. ‘A La Carte Love' allows you to be the designer of the type of romantic format that resonates for you

Breakups are crushing no matter when they occur. But holiday breakups have a different meaning. It's a time of reassessment, and a time of honesty. Sometimes that's the most noble intention your ex is able to offer you.  Here's how to see the holiday breakup in a different light.

There are times when outer conditions affect our inner sense of dating worthiness. If you've experienced a limitation you ‘think' is an issue, this video holds your prescription for feeling better about yourself in the world of romance and attraction.

Imagined jealousies, irrational fears and trust issues place a heavy burden on the partner whose mate has insecurity issues. Here's how to manage your participation in your partner's fears while maintaining peace in your relationship.

You're in a relationship, but your partner won't admit it to you, or the outside world. Nagging, pushing and pleading won't help. Going in the opposite direction will. Learn the amazing advantage of putting your ego in your back pocket to gain the relationship status you know you already have.

Learning how women think will help you know how to retain a woman's love and affection. Here's where some men are making the mistake of forcing nature against itself and creating an unsafe journey for a woman's heart.

Wondering how to progress to the next step of your mutual attraction? Worried anything you do or say will look desperate and needy? Here's a perfect solution that's both confident and alluring.

Why do some people find love easily and for others it's a struggle? Before you make a snap judgment remember there's more to the story than meets the eye. Here's the antidote to feeling blue when you see others partnered.

You sense incredible mutual attraction. You're certain they're into you. Yet, they resist making a move, and avoid every opportunity for engagement. Here's how to bypass their defection and move forward into a meaningful romance.

Though online dating has become ‘the norm' for meeting prospective mates, it's frustrating and fueled with problems. Here's how to benefit from your time spent searching and narrow in on quality partners.

Ever wondered why the partner who took you for granted suddenly becomes interested the moment you walk away? Learning the psychological basis for the dating game of hot cold frees you to make your own moves, independent of reactivity or false hope.

The issue of children is the single greatest handicap facing an older women and her younger partner. This decision needs to be addressed before moving into a serious partnership. Learn the ‘3 types of men' that have strong opinions on this issue, and determine which one you're dating (or which man you are).

If you've found online dating frustrating (and wonder if you're doing something wrong) — it's not you. The design of this format creates the ‘blind purchase effect.' Here's how to work around that flaw, and find dating success.

Age gap courtship is a modern design, but establishing a balanced powerbase begins early.  Many older women feel they “should” pay for initial dates, yet fail to realize the long-term repercussions of this otherwise generous act. Here's how to keep the balance and allow the partnership to flourish.

Wondering if the intimacy you share online can translate into a real-world relationship? What does it mean if your partner's hesitating to meet face-to-face? Here's how to navigate the connection you have with your virtual lover.

You could understand being left for an ‘upgrade.' But why did your ex choose a downgrade? Learn the odd twist on why being too good is intimidating, and causes certain mates to seek comfort in the arms of a lesser partner.

Dating can feel like a blur of bad experiences and frustrating outcomes. But the revolving door of romance holds far greater gifts that you'd imagine. This learning curve holds great riches you get to keep, and the promise of love.

Long distance relationships are indeed workable, if both partners are working toward a common goal. Here's the essential element that you both need to have in place in order to make your love affair last.

For those of you courageous enough to love, I applaud you. Never let anyone diminish this worthy feat of bravery and confidence. Don't listen to the fearful bystanders and those safely seated in the bleachers. Here's why you're a winner of the highest magnitude.

Personal transformation may initially make us feel separate, but ultimately leads us to greater connection with those around us. Here's how to incorporate the ‘new you' into your new dating goals, and flourish in your newfound options and opportunities.

The only successful approach to dating a player is to honor the rules of the game. Learn the art of   compartmentalization, and remain grounded in the reality of “what is.” Here's the mindset you need to enjoy your guilty pleasure, and thrive within the construct of this type of liaison.

Women have been programmed to believe their desirability is based on youth and beauty. Dating a younger man will test the limits of your confidence. Here's a more accurate analysis of your worth, as seen through the eyes of your younger man.

If you're exhausted from bad dates, crazy daters, and you're losing faith in finding love — it's time for a timeout. Here's my cure for dating burnout. And,check out my two esteemed colleagues specializing in this life-changing process: Iulia Calota — http://www.iuliacalota.com Aska Kolton — http://www.getreadyforlove.uk