Kirstin Sarfde

The Stop Binge Eating Podcast

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If you're ready to end your struggle with binge eating and create your ideal eating life then this is the podcast for you. You'll learn how to find and use your self-control, how to trust yourself around food, and change your relationship with food. You'll learn simple tools that you can apply in your own life right away and gain insights into why you keep self-sabotaging yourself and what you can do about it. Your host, Kirstin Sarfde, is a certified life and weight loss coach who has gone through her own struggle with binge eating. She combines what she's learned in her extensive training al...

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Kirstin Sarfde

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Health

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www.coachkir.com

Latest episode

Mar 31, 2026

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Episodes

Ep #125: Forgiving Your Past Self 22.12.2020

When you think about your past self who started binge eating and who continued to binge eat even though it caused a lot of misery, how do you feel? Angry? Resentful? I used to too. I was mad at her for getting me to where I was when I was in the deepest depth of struggle. But being mad at her doesn't change the past nor does it feel good. What feels a lot better is forgiving and having compassion...

Ep #124: Relaxing with Food 15.12.2020

When you get home after a busy or stressful day, is the first thing you go to food? It's your way of relaxing – just sitting down and eating. Now, this may not be a problem and doing this may be relaxing but, if you take it too far, you will run into a problem. In this episode, I'm talking about the ways using eating as a way to relax can result is the opposite outcome you were hoping for. I share...

Ep #123: Thought Judgement 08.12.2020

Do you ever think about food and eating and then get mad that you're thinking about food and eating? It's bad enough that the desire to eat is that but when you get mad at your thoughts it just makes the whole situation worse. Now you have both the urge and anger to deal with. In this episode, I'm talking about judging your thoughts, getting frustrated by them, and getting mad at them. If you want...

Ep #122: Levels of Pleasure 01.12.2020

"Nothing is a pleasurable as eating a lot of food." Have you ever had a thought like that? Let's not deny that eating is pleasurable. But, when you think thoughts like that it can stop you from enjoying all the lovely, less pleasurable things in life that will still bring you joy. In this episode, I'm discussing the different levels of pleasure that things in our lives bring us. Also, the levels o...

Ep #121: What You Want and Don't Want 24.11.2020

Too often we look at our lives and think about what we have that we don't want. You don't want to binge, you don't want to have this body, you don't want to feel so crappy. When you focus on what you don't want that you have in your life, it doesn't feel good. But what does feel good is thinking about what you want...but only if you believe you can get it and keep it. In this episode, I'm talking...

Ep #120: Indecision Discomfort 17.11.2020

Are you going to eat or not? What are you going to eat? When are you going to eat? Do you ever drive yourself crazy by having thoughts like these swirling around in your head? If so, it's all happening because you're being indecisive. When you're stuck in indecision it's very uncomfortable. It doesn't feel good to not know what you're going to do. So in this episode, I'm addressing why you don't j...

Ep #119: Success Expectancy 10.11.2020

Do you ever look to other people to determine how long it will take for you to stop binge eating? Or do you just make up an amount of time you think it will take based on, well, zero data? What if you're completely wrong, it takes longer, and then you get discouraged. That's not going to be good. In this episode, I'm talking about what determines how long it will take for you to stop binge eating...

Ep #118: Little Quits 03.11.2020

Do you ever quit on your goal, just for a moment? Maybe you stop putting in effort for the rest of the day, or the rest of the week, and you just say it's not big deal, you'll start again tomorrow or Monday. It may not seem like a big deal at the time, but it might turn into one. In this episode, I'm exploring the concept of little quits. These are momentary quits where you just stop trying for a...

Ep #117: Working With Your Brain 27.10.2020

In last week's episode, I talked about working against your brain to make habit changes. This week, it's about working with it. I show you how to be a team with your brain and have an adult relationship so you can achieve goals together with the least amount of resistance. Communication, compromise, and asking questions are the core of this. List in to learn why and how you can incorporate them in...

Ep #116: Working Against Your Brain 20.10.2020

Changing habits can be challenging. Your brain urges you to do one thing but you want to do another. When this happens, it's not so easy to say no and do what you want to do. In this episode, I'm talking about working against your brain to change habits. If you just go with what your brain tells you to do, you will stay in the same habits you've formed over time. So you and your brain need to make...

Ep #115: Coaching Session with Jennifer – Giving Up 13.10.2020

I'm so excited to share a portion of one of my group coaching calls on the podcast today! In this episode, you'll meet Jennifer. She keeps giving up on herself she's overwhelmed by all the things going on in her life, and t's all making it harder for her to be more successful with stopping binge eating. So if you find yourself in those situations too, then you must listen to this episode. You'll l...

Ep #114: What You Have to and Need to Do 06.10.2020

Do you feel like your life is full of obligation and you get so exhausted by it all that when you get a free moment to yourself, you binge? There's just so much you have to do and need to do and eating becomes your break from it all. In this episode, I'm going to help you move away from a life of obligation and start doing more things that you want to do. I'm going to help you make empowered choic...

Ep #113: Determining Your Progress 29.09.2020

What do you think about the progress you're making? When you binge eat while working on not binge eating, you might start thinking you're not making progress or even that you're taking steps backward. This can be discouraging and that is not a useful way to feel when you're working toward a big goal. You are making more progress than you think you are. Binge eating or not binge eating is not the o...

Ep #112: The Food Pleasure Cap 22.09.2020

When you binge, do you experience pleasure from the food from start to finish? Most likely you don't. There usually comes a point where the pleasure ends and this is what I call The Pleasure Cap. In this episode, I'm exploring the concept of The Pleasure Cap and how it may cause you to eat more and even binge. Pleasure is something we all want and if you stop experiencing it, you might go on a mis...

Ep #111: Being Too Busy to Binge 15.09.2020

Sometimes it can be easy to not binge when you're really busy. It's just not even a thought in your mind and there's just no time for it. But is striving for constant busyness the solution to stopping forever? In this episode, I'm exploring the option of being busier in your life so you can stop binge eating. It may work, but it also may backfire. You also may not want your life to look that way....

Ep #110: Binge Eating Success Story – Sara 08.09.2020

I'm having another one of my former client on the podcast! In this episode, you're going to meet Sara. She's a mom, and actually recently gave birth to a baby girl! So she talks about how she handles teaching good eating habits to her older daughter, how she's been dealing with her weight in postpartum, what has been the most helpful thing that has kept her from bingeing since we stopped working t...

Ep #109: Investing in Yourself 01.09.2020

Are you investing anything into your mental health and well-being? I'm not just talking about money, there's also time, energy, and effort that you can invest. Too many people want to get something for nothing but, if you want to stop binge eating, it's probably not going to work out that way. You gotta give to get. In this episode, I'm talking about the importance of investing in yourself to stop...

Ep #108: Changing Circumstances to Stop Binge Eating 25.08.2020

Do you ever think that if things in your life were different then you wouldn't binge like you do? We tend to blame the people in our lives, our jobs, our financial situation, the food, and so many other things. But what if what's going on around you didn't matter at all? In this episode, I'm showing you how you can stop binge eating without changing anything in your life. If you can change your ci...

Ep #107: The Easy Way to Get Pleasure 18.08.2020

I can't tell you how many times I've asked people why they made the decision to eat instead of allowing their urge to pass and they tell me, "It's just easier." I'm not going to argue this statement. Eating is easier. So why wouldn't you just choose the easy way every time? The easy way isn't always the bad way. Sometimes easy is good. But sometimes it's not. In this episode, I'm deciphering betwe...

Ep #106: Being Vulnerable 11.08.2020

How often are you vulnerable with other people? How about with yourself? If it's not often, I totally get it. It can be scary and it can also feel really uncomfortable. In this episode, I'm talking about vulnerability, why you might not be willing to be vulnerable, and why it might greatly benefit you if you do it. This just might be something that's holding you back from having so many of the thi...

Ep #105: Binge Eating Success Story – Sadie 04.08.2020

In this episode, I'm bringing on one of my former clients and she's going to share her binge eating story. She talks about trusting herself, some of the surprising things that contributed to her eating, and gives some great insights into how you can also stop binge eating. She's awesome, she's inspiring, and I have no doubt you will relate to her and feel more hopeful after hearing her story. Inte...

Ep #104: Demotivating Compelling Reasons 28.07.2020

You have great reasons for why you want to stop binge eating. But are they motivating you or demotivating you? Having a compelling reason to reach a big goal is super important. But it's also important to make sure it's a reason that is going to drive you forward, not hold you back. If you're not moving forward, your compelling reasons might be demotivating. So listen in to find out if they are an...

Ep #103: Accepting Where You Are 21.07.2020

There's probably some things in your life that you wish were different. You might feel angry about them, resentful, embarrassed, ashamed, or dissatisfied. You might also think it's useful to feel these feelings because you think they're what will push you into changing what you don't like. But they won't. In this episode, I'm talking about why it's not useful to hate on where you are and why accep...

Ep #102: Creating Space Between an Urge and a Binge 14.07.2020

Do you ever feel like a binge happens so fast that you don't even realize it? If you don't even realize it's happening, then you're not going to be able to do anything about it. You have to see it in order to top it. In this episode, I'm showing you how to create that space between an urge and a binge. When you have that space, that's when you'll be able to manage your thinking, question what you'...

Ep #101: Belief in Continued Success 07.07.2020

Do you ever worry about your ability to stay binge-free long-term? I see this fear come up in people both when they're doing well for awhile and when they've just started seeing success. Their past failed attempts keep coming to mind and the self-doubt comes along with it. In this episode, I'm helping you build your belief in your ability to have long-term success. There's honestly no reason why y...

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