The Sex Wrap

Threesomes are one of the top sexual fantasies... today we talk about what you should consider before having one, and what to expect for your first time. Related episodes, for more threesome content: Episode 78 (for when your partner wants one and you aren't sure), Episode 103 (all about "unicorns"), and Episode 143 (Threesomes 101, all about best practices for threesomes)! Learn more about your a...

This month we are talking FIRSTS!  We start off the series with today’s episode, all about your first time for sex–either with ANYone, or with a new partner. We talk about assumptions, scenarios, and considerations. And, remember, you aren’t losing anything, you’re gaining experience.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The bill referred to as "The Don't Say Gay Bill" has passed and it is terrifying. Today we talk about why. Links of orgs that are doing the work: https://pflag.org/, https://www.aclu.org/, https://www.glaad.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We know you know that social media is a polished/chosen view of people's lives. But knowing this may not be enough; repeated exposure is linked to so many unhealthy attitudes and behaviors - depression, anxiety, eating disorders, cyberbullying, isolation, loneliness, alcohol and drug use and misuse, suicidal ideation, and risky sexual behaviors. Sure, we also find positives in social media use, bu...

March Madness focus on Media continues for a look into LGBTQ stereotypes on tv (including streaming) and movies. Are you LGBTQ and frustrated with representations? We got you. Are you an ally and wondering what you can do? We got you. Are you just curious why the heck this is a problem? We got you. Extra credit reading: https://scholar.utc.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1133&context=honors-theses...

In our continuation of MARCH MADNESS, our focus on critiquing the media's outlook on sex, relationships, sexuality, and sexual health, today our episode is about the medicalization of our bodies and our sexualities. There is so much the media tries to sell us related to our bodies and sexual functioning, and we are here to break it down. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoic...

This episode is the start of our sexual media literacy month, where we explore how sex is portrayed in all types of media. We highlight the ways we need to be more critical, and offer tips for how to minimize the impact on your own values and life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You have got to listen to this episode--it will leave you will chills down your spine! (Either now, or later!) We are all over your erogenous zones--and we have links you're going to love today! Spring singing about erogenous zones: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JpMchxpkxSI, a labeled list to explore: https://www.glamour.com/story/hottest-erogenous-zones-women, and the classic Friends scene on h...

Did you know that in one survey, 95% of college age men were dissatisfied with their bodies on some level (https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2012-20854-001)? Body image affects male identifying and non-binary people too. And so, we have to break the stigma and talk about it. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Disordered eating, which includes things like having lots of rules about food, obsessions with eating patterns, and eating disorders, can seriously affect your sexuality and relationships. This episode is not about how to cure disordered eating (though we recommend reaching out to (800) 931-2237, by voice or text, for help). We talk about strategies to help you enjoy your sex and relationships whe...

We are back from the biggest break we've ever taken--Spring's grief kept us from a few weeks of podcasting. But today we jump back in with a question sent to us by a young sex ed professional in Australia. They wanted us to talk about all the emotions that come up before, during, and after sex. So here we are! A lot can come up, and identifying what emotions are coming from where can be a tricky p...

This is the episode you've been waiting for! All your text etiquette (textiquette) is outlined and your hardest text replies drafted for you. Spring's got your back on this one; you can even text your mom about it! *** This show is a part of the Podglomerate network, a company that produces, distributes, and monetizes podcasts. We encourage you to visit the website and sign up for our newsletter f...

Today we go DEEP with vaginas! We tackle three vagina questions: one from a female about her own body's looks and smells, and two from heterosexual men. One of them is interested in learning more and one is only interested in vaginas as sexual objects. And shoutout to Awkwafina for our favorite vag song!  *** This show is a part of the Podglomerate network, a company that produces, distributes, an...

Today we are talking about awkward erections: ones that you or your partner get at the most inappropriate times, whether it is a non-sexual time, or in the locker room. We have answers for your HARDEST questions!  *** This show is a part of the Podglomerate network, a company that produces, distributes, and monetizes podcasts. We encourage you to visit the website and sign up for our newsletter fo...

The title says it all. Today we cover a few of the questions that we just can't believe... but, you know what they say, "there's no such thing as a stupid question!" ...or is there? You be the judge. *** This show is a part of the Podglomerate network, a company that produces, distributes, and monetizes podcasts. We encourage you to visit the website and sign up for our newsletter for more informa...

It can be really hard to express your feelings. BUT ESPECIALLY THOSE THREE LITTLE WORDS!! On today's episode, we talk about how to figure out the right timing! Aaaaand, use code SEXWRAP at the Sudio website for your headphone discount!  *** This show is a part of the Podglomerate network, a company that produces, distributes, and monetizes podcasts. We encourage you to visit the website and sign u...

This episode is a long one--because healthy relationships are a lot of work! Whether you are in a romantic relationship or not, there are a lot of tips here to keep all of your relationships thriving! *** This show is a part of the Podglomerate network, a company that produces, distributes, and monetizes podcasts. We encourage you to visit the website and sign up for our newsletter for more inform...

Today we talk about your options if you are really sure you don't want to have a child for like, years (or more!). Long-term birth control options exist, and they're great! Long-acting reversible contraception (LARCs) and permanent options (surgeries) are here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ok so maybe using a condom seems simple. But there are SO MANY COMMON ERRORS that actually make condoms less effective. So today we go through how you should be using condoms. Practice makes perfect! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Some people are resistant to getting their COVID vaccination, and families and friends can really be divided on this. This can cause a lot of negative feelings and stall conversations. Today, we go through how to have these tough conversations. Because these tough conversations are the only way we will actually be able to move people toward vaccination. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit mega...

Today we tackle a big question: was it rape? We talk about what happens when someone realizes an interaction in their past was sexual assault. We talk about how that can happen and the implications. This is one everyone needs to listen to. Believe survivors. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Consent is simple, but that doesn't mean there's only one definition! Today we talk about different conceptualizations of consent and why the evolution of these definitions is important. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Consent is easy, until we involve alcohol. In today's episode we talk about how alcohol affects our ability to give and understand and communicate consent. We talk about measures you can put in place and things you might want to think about when drinking. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Happy Halloween! No tricks; only treats here! Today we talk about how to intervene when you see someone who is being harassed. We talk safety, and 5 options for getting involved. And make sure to check out Hollaback and learn about all of their (online, free!) bystrander trainings at: https://www.ihollaback.org/! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In the last episode in the sexual honesty series, we address birth control: how do you go about getting birth control when you don't want your parents to know? Or when there aren't places around you to access reproductive health? Who all deserves to be involved in this decision anyway? To find a clinic in your state: https://sexetc.org/action-center/clinic-finder/ Find condoms: https://www.cdc.gov...