The Sex Wrap

Prostate play is something a lot of people are curious about! Today we have a question from a heterosexual couple where the male was interested in trying some "butt stuff" with his female partner. We talk you down Anal Road, giving you all the info about the sights you need/want to see on the way! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Monkeypox--is it a STD/STI? Should I be worried about it? Can I prevent it? HELP! This episode has all your questions answered. And for more info, check out the CDC's info page at: https://www.cdc.gov/poxvirus/monkeypox/index.html. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

"Hooking up" is maybe the most over-used phrase to describe, well, so many sexual behaviors. Today we talk about the "rules" of hooking-up, and how to do it better. (Hint: it definitely involves communication!) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

So many people ask us this question in moments of turmoil--like after that night where you were on a boat and there just wasn't a condom, or when the condom broke, or when you suspect someone has not be honest about their past... WHEN SHOULD I GET TESTED?? Today we talk about the when, the how, the why, the what, ... a little bit of every aspect of the question. Learn more about your ad choices. V...

Ever have like the best best best sex with someone, and then break up with them, and then think "OH NO I HAVE TO HAVE BAD SEX AGAIN"?? Well you're not alone, and we're here to help. We talk about how you can prevent the bad-sex-again blues! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're on break for the month of August, so we are replaying some of our favorite episodes! This is originally episode #156. Today we talk all things bisexual. Think you know what it is to be bi? Think you know what outcomes bisexual people experience differently? You might not know as much as you think! Tune in to today's episode to learn a little more about what it means to be bi bi bi! *** This...

Is it really harder to make friends as you get older? Today we talk about how to develop friendships. And, our tip of the day: Sometimes reconnecting to existing friends is the fastest path! And, check out some scholarly articles on the topic: https://scholar.harvard.edu/files/sampson/files/1988_asr_0.pdf; https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0140197112000334; and https://link.spring...

We're on break for the month of August, so we are replaying some of our favorite episodes! This is originally episode #143. So you want to have a threesome? Here's your homework: listen to this episode! We talk about all the communication that needs to happen before, during, and afterward. Impress your lovers with your threesome skillzzzzz!! And, if you want to participate in research about our po...

We're on break for the month of August, so we are replaying some of our favorite episodes! This is originally episode #147. So we talk about explicit enthusiastic YES consent a lot. But we also know that a lot of people don't actively engage in that type of consent for sex. Is that ok? What about vibes? Are vibes enough for consent to sex? What about in a relationship when you've been having sex f...

What is it? How can I do it? What if my partner wants it/what if my partner doesn't want it? All of your answers about pegging are HERE! We're on break for the month of August, so we are replaying some of our favorite episodes! This is originally episode #147. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

"You guys" is an American colloquialism that has come under fire in recent years, and we are here to illuminate why... and why and how you might want to change your speech patterns. Because decolonizing our language serves us all! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we focus on abortion as health care. Listen in to learn how to talk to others in your life about abortion. Continued reading: https://slate.com/technology/2022/05/abortion-access-health-care-pregnancy.html All the ways you can donate to support abortion access: https://www.guttmacher.org/article/2022/05/heres-how-philanthropy-can-protect-access-abortion-post-roe-v-wade-world  Infographic...

Ok, today is a LANGUAGE day! We get into the definition of fag hag, but also the societal and cultural implications of the usage of the word. And we talk reclamation and so much more! Extra credit study we mentioned on women's body esteem is here: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19447691/ ... check in with us @thesexwrap on any social media platform to engage in the conversation! Learn more about...

Today we talk about slapping--is it ok to slap during sex? What do you need to talk about before hand? What do you need to talk about after? How do you go about incorporating slapping into your repertoire? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We are discussing all things love bites today--why people like them, why people don't like them, where to put them, where not to put them, how to minimize or maximize your hickey experience (depending on your desires!) and how to incorporate them with consent. We talk about what you might want to consider and how to approach them with your partners. Join the conversation on our social media pages...

Today's question comes from a listener who is in a loving relationship but feels a little stuck in the way her partner is seeing her. The Madonna/Whore complex is a phenomenon that our culture perpetuates as a script for how women are sometimes viewed by their partners. We talk about what it is, how it shows up culturally and in relationships, and what you can do about it if it is present in your...

In this episode, we talk about specifics--how can you show up for people in your life MORE FULLY? How can you show up for people that don't have as much privilege as you do? And we give a special shoutout to the Daybreaker dance community! *** This show is a part of the Podglomerate network, a company that produces, distributes, and monetizes podcasts. We encourage you to visit the website and sig...

Ok, so sure, shower sex sounds hot. But it also sounds, well, like a lot of work! And kinda dangerous? Today we talk about all the barriers to enjoyable shower sex, and then how to wash those barriers away! We give all our hot, wet tips to you to keep your bathroom a-rockin'! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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We have had so many questions about sex and disabilities, most of which fall under two categories: How do I broach the topic of sex with someone I’m dating who has a disability? and How do I talk about my disability with a potential partner? Today we invite expert Shelly Baer from The University of Miami and The Bold Beauty Project to answer these questions and more. WAY more. We talk about a rang...

In Episode 24, we talk about what toxic masculinity is, why it is a problem, and what we can do to combat it. Along with a call to action!!! *** This show is a part of the Podglomerate network, a company that produces, distributes, and monetizes podcasts. We encourage you to visit the website and sign up for our newsletter for more information about our shows, launches, and events. For more inform...

Today we are revisiting our bonus episode talking about why it is important to vote in the Midterm elections! We mention a few registration websites in the podcast: Rock the Vote, and Vote.org. We also talk about I side with to find out how candidates' stances on issues align with yours. Also, check out MTV's voting strategy of bringing a friend!  *** This show is a part of the Podglomerate networ...

Today we talk about #couplegoals or #relationshipgoals... who are your relationship icons? What type of relationships do you want to emulate? The alternate title that Andrew suggested for this episode was "OK, Boomer," because we talk a bit about NOT wanting to create relationships like a lot of our parents and their friends modeled for us. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adch...

To conclude our month of "firsts," today we talk about what to think about, what to talk about, and what to expect in your first open relationship. Why do people want open relationships? What are some healthy and not-so-healthy reasons for being in one? We get into it all today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In our month of firsts, we are finally back to everyone's favorite topic: butt stuff! Our fav sex therapist Cyndi Darnell guest hosts this week to talk about all the things you need to think about and talk about and TOUCH about to get ready to do anything anal with a partner. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices