Elaine Denton

The Self Love Podcast

The Self Love Podcast is a place for you to find help, guidance and tools on learning to love yourself more. Hosted by Elaine Denton, certified and accredited Psychotherapist and Life Coach, this is a very honest account of her own journey with finding self love, lessons learned from client sessions, and wisdom on how you can learn more about yourself and create your own unique journey back to ‘you’. Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. Please seek professional guidance if you are impacted by any of the subjects mentioned.

Be sure to visit the podcast's website and support the creator: www.elainedenton.com

Author

Elaine Denton

Category

Education

Podcast website

www.elainedenton.com

Latest episode

Oct 30, 2026

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Episodes

WTF is the 'authentic self'? And how do we find it? 10.10.2025

In this episode, I talk about the concept of 'the authentic self'; what it is and how tf to find it! You can view the email and journal prompts that connect with this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠ here⁠⁠⁠⁠ You can also join me on a LIVE video call for the 'self love unlocked' workshop where we dive more into beliefs and creating real and lasting change and to get closer to your authentic self- ⁠cli...

How to shift the beliefs that shape your reality 05.10.2025

In this episode, I talk about beliefs; how they hold us back from self love, what has created your negative beliefs and how to create little shifts that can take immediate effect! You can view the email and journal prompts that connect with this episode ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠ You can also join me on a LIVE video call for a the 'self love unlocked' workshop where we dive more into beliefs and creating...

Easily triggered? Find out why and how to change it 26.09.2025

In this episode, I talk about emotional triggers, the major reactions to to minor things to life, and how you can create a chang through mindful awareness. For more information on PTSD, cPTSD, OCD, Neurodiversity and for help if you are affected by abuse, go to https://www.mind.org.uk/ If you want to connect with 'you' (or me) on a deeper level, you can be part the weekly 'check in&#39...

Struggling with friendship? How your relationship to Self may hold all the answers.. 19.09.2025

In this episode, I talk about the struggle with friendships and how they can be hard af to maintain, especially if you don't have a solid relationship with YOU. When they feel good, friendships provide us with support, community, social interaction and a stronger sense of self... when they don't feel good? That can be a whole other overthinking anxiety ridden story... Ever felt left out, i...

Who TF am I? Identity, masking and a little life update! 12.09.2025

In this episode I explore the question 'Who am I?', something i've been exploring for nearly 10 years and give a little life update as to what is happening in this new season/chapter! If you want to connect with 'you' (or me) on a deeper level, you can be part the weekly 'check in' by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠joining my email community⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ , which includes jounaling prompts for you to follow. As always, if you...

A boost of reassurance for when life is tough 14.05.2025

In this episode I give a big thank you to all of the listeners as the self love podcast has won a feedspot podcast award! I also offer some words of reassurance for when times, situations and life are hard; to help calibrate your nervous system and to come back to being 'OK'. If you want to connect with 'you' on a deeper level, you can be part the weekly 'check in' by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠joining my email commu...

Repressed childhood emotions and how to identify them as an adult 23.04.2025

In this episode I talk about repressed emotions, why we have them, how they may manifest as an adult and how they may be affecting your life right now. To help you start to connect with 'you' on a deeper level, you can be part the weekly 'check in' by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠joining my email community⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ , which includes a guided self-check in audio for you to follow. As always, if you feel you need further ther...

What is your money story? And how does that relate to self love? 11.04.2025

In this episode I talk about money stories; how our relationship to ourselves has more impact than our upbringing and the level of money available as a child, and things you may not have considered about money before. To help you start to connect with 'you' on. deeper LEVEL, you can be part the weekly 'check in' by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠joining my email community⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ , which includes a guided self...

The trigger of Mothers day, dysfunctional parenting dynamics and 'permission' to feel 30.03.2025

In this episode I talk about dysfunctional parenting dynamics; the trigger of Mothers Day and giving yourself permission to feel however you feel. To help you start to connect with 'you' on. deeper LEVEL, you can be part the weekly 'check in' by ⁠⁠⁠⁠joining my email community⁠⁠⁠⁠ , which includes a guided self-check in audio for you to follow. As always, if you feel you need further therapeutic 1:...

Finding the courage to speak your truth 13.03.2025

In this episode I talk about finding your courageous voice; why you can't speak your truth and how it can benefit you when you learn how. To help you start to connect with 'you' on. deeper LEVEL, you can be part the weekly 'check in' by ⁠⁠⁠joining my email community⁠⁠⁠ , which includes a guided self-check in audio for you to follow. As always, if you feel you need further therapeutic 1:1 support,...

What is self abandonment and why do we do it? 26.02.2025

In this episode I talk about self abandonment, avoidance and why self connection and knowing who we are really are is so hard! You will learn a little about ' Internal Family Systems ' , an approach I use a lot in my therapy sessions, and how 'checking in' pays off whether you connect to yourself or not. You can be part the weekly 'check in' by ⁠⁠joining my email community⁠⁠ , which includes a gui...

Are you DESPERATE for love? 12.02.2025

In this episode I talk about inner 'desperation' as a motivation for finding love; how that becomes problematic in our relationships (including who we date) and how self love fills the 'hole' that desperation seeks to fill. You can be part the weekly 'check in' by ⁠joining my email community⁠ , which includes a guided check in audio for you to follow. As always, if you feel you need further therap...

The power of self connection.. 30.01.2025

The power of self connection is THE most important part of your self love journey.... and in this podcast you will find out why. We can disconnect from ourselves due to unhealed trauma, our beliefs about who we are; the shame of being 'you' and because you don't like yourself so intensely you don't want to experience the shame of being 'you' (more on this next episode) You can be part the weekly '...

Self compassion: how can I be kinder to myself? 15.01.2025

Self compassion is said to be at the root of our life satisfaction, contentment and happiness and in this episode, I talk about self compassion- what it is, and way you may find it difficult to offer yourself the same kindness to yourself as you do to others! As always, if you feel you need further therapeutic 1:1 support, you can complete this 'therapy enquiry form' and receive all the info about...

The truth about manifesting and how to make 2025 YOUR year 05.01.2025

In this episode, I talk about what holds you back from change, my changed relationship to manifesting and a couple of tips to help you reframe your NY (or anytime) intentions. As always, if you feel you need further 1:1 support, or feel that anything mentioned in this episode needs a conversation, you can drop me an ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠email here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and we can chat a little more about...

Festive f*ckery: surviving and learning to thrive! 17.12.2024

*warning* this is a sweary episode! The word f*ckery means BS or nonsense and in this episode I talk about my own journey, what might trigger you, how to make this Christmas more manageable and getting to place that you desire to be in 2025. As always, if you feel you need further 1:1 support, or feel that anything mentioned in this episode needs a conversation, you can drop me an ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...

Overwhelm, self worth and how it might be self sabotage 11.12.2024

In this episode, I talk about overwhelm and how lack of self worth can create a link to 'busy-ness' as self sabotage! As always, if you feel you need further 1:1 support, or feel that anything mentioned in this episode needs a conversation, you can drop me an ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠email here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and we can chat a little more about how I can help you. If you want to receive my weekly 'self...

Black friday bullsh*t and your self worth 27.11.2024

In this short episode, I talk about how black friday exploits your lack of self worth and why As always, if you feel you need further 1:1 support, or feel that anything mentioned in this episode needs a conversation, you can drop me an ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠email here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and we can chat a little more about how I can help you. If you want to receive my weekly 'self love notes' emails, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...

The fear of saying no and creating boundaries 22.10.2024

In this podcast I talk about the fears around saying no and creating boundaries, and how this connects into our self worth. My blog is a good addition to helping you with your relationship to self worth... ⁠⁠you can read it here ⁠⁠. As always, if you feel you need further 1:1 support, or feel that anything mentioned in this episode needs a conversation, you can drop me an ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠email here...

The self worth hustle and our need for validation 03.10.2024

In this podcast I talk about our self worth, the way we hustle for it and our need for validation. My blog is a good addition to helping you with your relationship to self worth... ⁠you can read it here⁠ . As always, if you feel you need further 1:1 support, or feel that anything mentioned in this episode needs a conversation, you can drop me an ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠email here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and we can ch...

Why can't I rest? And how can I change that? 26.09.2024

In this podcast I talk about our relationship to rest being a refection of the relationship to ourselves, and what your 'resistance' type is (so you can discover how to change it, and get more of the good stuff). My blog goes into epic detail about the connection to childhood, trauma, self worth and self compassion and in my humble opinion, is a good addition to helping you wiht your relat...

Reparenting your inner child through therapy and beyond 12.09.2024

In this podcast I will talk about reparenting- how through therapy, coaching and eventually yourself, you can find your inner nurturing parent for your insecure or 'wounded' inner child, and how cultivating that part of you will help you not only rebuild your relationship to you, but can support you for your whole life. As always, if you feel you need further 1:1 support, or feel that anyt...

Welcome to the Self Love Podcast! 09.09.2024

A short intro so you know what to expect from the podcast and me, your host! My name is Elaine Denton, a certified and accredited Psychotherapist and Life Coach, bringing snippets of my own journey, client stories and some helpful advice on creating more self worth, self esteem and self confidence. To connect more with me, and to find out more about self love therapy and free resources, you can us...

Attachment styles, attachment trauma and love 27.08.2024

In this podcast I will talk about attachment styles, attachment trauma and how they relate to our sense of self and loving others (and ourselves). In this podcast, I mentioned a book called 'Attached', you can check it out here and as always, if you feel you need further 1:1 support, or feel that anything mentioned in this episode needs a conversation, you can drop me an ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠email he...

Guilt, selfishness and self love... 06.08.2024

In this podcast I will talk about the guilt often associated with 'self love' and the belief we often hold that it is selfish to put ourselves first. There is an abrupt ending to this podcast episode, as it stopped recording, but please like, share and subscribe! In this podcast, I mentioned an email that I shared recently .... you can read that here , and if you want to receive my emails,...

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