The Messy Inbetween

We love women. A lot. But sometimes we really do some yucky things. Some of these are just our own icks but others are almost universal. From having a victim mentality to having that 'pick me' attitude. There are some things we just don't like that other women do.  Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3...

We love women and there’s plenty other women do that we love. In business, In friendships and even strangers. From how they approach us to how they are in their bag…there’s plenty to love. What are some things that women do that you love? Let’s chat in the comments.  Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDR...

Another dilemma episode! Big sisters are here to help the best way we can. This is a sisterhood so we want you guys to also share your view on these dilemmas. Let’s chat in the comments.  Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_me...

All turns off are valid. We said it. To be honest, you can help what gives you the ick! The yuck! The immediately no! We each shared our very specific and personal turn offs. From mama’s boy tendencies, smoking shisha 😅 and showing off… when you see what turns you off, you just know it.  Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/...

Finally! You guys have really been asking for this collabo and we finally did it. We had the ladies from Over 25 to chat about Girl code!  We say there is a girl code but how does it play out in real life situations? Which ones are universal and which ones aren't? From keeping secrets from your man to dating each others siblings... what is your girl code? Enjoy the listen and follow us for mo...

Not everyday “leave sis!”, sometimes we stop and just drool over the sexy things men do.  The way they drive, the way they dress, the way they pay that bill 😍😅 We all have what gets us going in our partners, what’s yours ? Not what makes is feel good but what gets yoi horny! Let’s chat in the comments.  Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - ht...

We love that you guys trust us with what’s going on with your lives. this episode is all about that. We get quite a lot of dilemmas so we wanted to do an episode so we can help some Queenbetweeneers together.  From dilemmas about boundaries to dating… we can all use a little advice in the messy inbetween. Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https:/...

From childhood to adulthood, we have both been in nearly the same body sizes we are now and that has definitely affected how we go through life. From relationships, to confidence to our relationship with food and health. To the daily things that maybe none of us ever considered about the other. It was an enlightening conversation for both us. We may not represent the extreme of either size but we...

Sometimes for many reasons the passion in any relationship can deplete. You love each other but you’ve become a little disconnected. If that’s something you’re experiencing, we are here to help and so is Beducated! Beducated is an online course platform with easy-to-follow video, audio, and written guides which provide techniques and information to level-up your love life. http://beducate.me/bg221...

One of the most requested episodes! Dating is already ghetto hood but having a child in the process adds another complexity. Murugi was a single mum for a while and Lydia was raised by a single mum. We each shared our views from those perspectives. How long should you wait to date? When is it okay to introduce someone to your kids? What are the great parts about dating as a single mum? Single mums...

Deal breakers in relationships! I think it’s always very easy to say what would make you walk away until you’re faced with it. However, it’s good to have some sure limits in mind to safe guard you. Cheating? Substance abuse? Intentionally leaking your nudes ? Tell me when it’s the one.😄 Everyone has their own and we are not judging. Most people proclaim their deal breakers publicly but kwa ground...

The hype of the new year is over and maybe the year so isn’t as life changing as you hoped it would be. But it’s not over. it’s only just beginning. If you’re in a rut, the idea is to hit refresh instead of giving up. We can all get a little run down but to ace the whole year, you need to pause, breathe and try again. Are you in rut? how’s your year so far? Let’s chat in the comments. Enjoy the li...

This episode is sponsored by Netflix. Watch Bridgerton season 2 out now! Bridgeton has the teaaaaa! Although it’s set hundreds of years ago we can see so many themes that still exist today which we definitely have an opinion about. From how there is still a double standard on hoeing - men are almost encouraged but woman are forbidden… have you seen that anywhere else!👀 Or how women have an e...

Let’s chat about it sis!  Men being vulnerable with us and the world is not the norm. Partly because of their own struggles but also we might play a part. If your man cries to you, how do you feel ? How do you react ? Do you hold space for him ? When he shows anger, how do you respond?  The same way we say that we love it when our men hold space for us, men just might want the same hun....

Relationships are made a lot harder by the amount of misconceptions we are fed. Every relationship is different so how are all the rules the same ?👀 We have probably left whole relationships because they didn’t match these “lies”. So let’s unpack.. is there “the one?”, it real love easy? Is fighting wrong?? Sis, Issa lot. What we choose to believe definitely shape how you’re showing up to your re...

It’s you we are talking to. Come back here!😂 Sex should be free and exactly how you want it to be but we can all agree that that there are some things that no partner is really enjoying. Eg - just laying there inactive. We wanted to share some DON’Ts during sex to remind us that we are active participants. We admit that we are guilty of some of these things ourselves but we are striving to do bet...

It’s our birthday week! Murugi turns 32 today and Lydia turns 31 tomorrow. As we celebrate our birthdays with excitement and positive anticipation, we know that’s not always the case when you’re turning a year older. Sometimes birthdays can be a loud reminder of your shortcomings, they can reflect your loneliness or lack of fulfillment. Other times it’s just pure dread. We wanted to unpack age anx...

This episode is inspired by a video we came across on Instagram.  There are so many of these “facts“ that are shared about women or relationships that usually go without comment but this one really inspired conversation. These facts are designed to be some guide for women to understand men while dealing with them but are they actually true, let alone “facts“? Will men do anything for the woma...

Our first Q&A episode!🥳 We arr always chatting on DMs but we wnates do so an episode answering all your questions. We loved  them all! Are we dating? Do we fight? What is the age difference between us and our partners? We also loved the personal dilemmas. We hope this helped you get to know us a little better.  Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube:  TMI Podc...

Ladies! 🗣Single is the default. Our society is so obsessed with relationships to the point that you are made to feel weird when you're single. Although we are both in partnerships, we had a fantastic time single. We enjoyed our season of single and lived it to the fullest. We always say that if you're not happy single, that's the you you’re taking into a relationship. So here are some things we di...

The Alpha female. Who is she? What defines her? There’s so much conversation around what it means to be an alpha female and we wanted to sit down and unpack it all. We both fit the definition of the alpha female and we invited Kitt Kiarie who is also an alpha to share our experiences walking in these shoes. Do we like it? What are the challenges? What are the misconception? It was an enlightening...

The self love trend is here. But what does it even mean to love yourself? Do I love myself because I love the soft life? There’s just so many narratives around self love so we wanted to have a conversation about what it really means to love yourself, how we can practice self love and the things that hold us back from truly loving ourselves.  Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Yo...

New year, new things, new journeys!  As long as you’re willing to try new things you are likely to stumble on rejection. A new relationship, a new job, a new friendship - they can all come with a “NO!” Naturally, rejection feels awful but we can’t allow it to determine our forever. On today’s episode we share our experiences with rejection, how we navigated through it and tips on how you can...

We are starting a new year and if you listened to us and left that dusty man in 2021, then you may just be ready for your first date!😁  If we are honest, a lot of our ghetto relationships were probably giving us signs from the first date. So this episode is all about the etiquette to make sure you are putting your best foot forward but also making sure you’re not being sold short!  From...

Hey inbetweeners! Happy New Year! Welcome to our first episode of the year! We're chatting about things we want for the new year and our resolutions to help us get there! Most resolutions are broken before February but that has never stopped us. Starting the year with intention can be very powerful in helping you clarify how you want to direct your year. We shared our love, self, health, wealth, c...