The Messy Inbetween

TMI is FIVE 🥹🤩❤️ 5 years of The Messy Inbetween, honest conversations, and a community that's become home. Our Inbetweeners, we appreciate you so much, thank you for loving and supporting this thing we built. Singles, come to the front right now 😭 you know those things people say that sound supportive but are actually so annoying? "Maybe you should smile more." "It'll hap...

Happy New Month, Inbetweeners! You made it to July 🎉 May this new month bring you peace, love, comfort and so much happiness. Today's episode is all about opposite gender friendships, how to navigate them, and the do's and don'ts. We had very differing views on this one and honestly the discussion got interesting. We get into the boundaries that need to be in place for a platonic rela...

Happy Friday Inbetweeners! 🎙️ We promised you guys a dilemma episode every so often and we're keeping that promise. This one had everything: getting bored of your partner after a month, deadbeat partners, guns, betrayal etc. Thank you to everyone who sent in a dilemma, we see you and we'll be covering more in the next one. Keep them coming (you can share a dilemma by sending us a DM on Ins...

It's Episode Friday Inbetweeners🖤 We're back with one of your most loved episodes — An Inbetweener Once Said. This time we went through your comments from our previous episodes and... yeah, you guys do not hold back 😭 Would we still be friends if TMI never happened? Being too available for your man. Decentering men. We got into ALL of it. Enjoy the episode! Shop the galaxy collection: ht...

Unlock your personalized roadmap to sexual fulfillment: https://beduc.at/bg2618-tmipodcast Happy Friday! How are you all doing? We hope you're doing great wherever you're tuning in from. We're back with another one, and this episode is really everything TMI stands for. Honest, unfiltered, a little messy. Today we're talking about the things people secretly google about masturbation and sex. Is it...

Happy TMI Friday Inbetweeners! 🎉 Before we get into it, we have some EXCITING news. We just launched the TMI x Enkata Galaxy Collection and we are so obsessed with how the watches turned out. They are absolutely beautiful and we could not be more excited about this partnership. You can shop the full collection using the link below 🔗 Ok now let's get into it because this episode is a FUNNY on...

Hey Inbetweeners, happy Friday! Long time no see. Life really comes at you fast. Murugi recently lost her close uncle and we had to take some time off, which is why we have been away for a bit. Thank you for being patient with us. But we’re back and today’s episode is one you’ll probably want to listen to twice! We’re talking about internet advice that might actually be ruining relationships. Thin...

It's Friyay!! 🤩🥳 Happy episode day Inbetweeners! Thank you for all your comments on our last episode...Some of y'all are STRICTTTT! but that's very okay, we get it. Today's episode is a fun one. We're talking about all the reasons you'd actually want to be our friend. And trust us, by the end of this you will be sliding into our DMs asking how to get on our roster 💅😌 Th...

Happy Labor Day, Inbetweeners 😊✨ How’s your Friday going so far? Ours at TMI is already off to a great start, because we’ve got a hot new episode: Reasons You Wouldn’t Want to Be My Friend. “I like to be invited to places but I will not go.” Guess who said it👀? “Everything is trauma?” Who dropped that line👀? Grab a snack and settle in, this one is a wild ride, you might actually never want to...

Long time no dilemma episode… but we’re back🤩. And this one? It’s one of those episodes that stays with you🫂. We love doing dilemma episodes because one story is rarely just one story. What one person is going through is often something so many others are quietly dealing with too. So every time we talk through one, we’re holding space for more people than you think. Today’s episode is a heavy on...

Unlock your personalized roadmap to sexual fulfillment: https://beduc.at/bg2624-tmipodcast Happy Friday🤩🤩!Eeeey Inbetweeners😌...Who are you guys dating though? We asked you on Instagram to finish the sentence “My sexual partner once told me…” and wow… the submissions? Wild 😭. But also, small reminder: talk back. If he says “today you’re dry” … ask him, “so what are YOU going to do about that?”...

Happy Episode Day! 🤩 Last week’s episode had y’all triggered but we’re not getting into that today👀. Women, what don’t we get enough credit for? EVERYTHINGGGGGGG. The PMS, the period itself, the cramps, pregnancy and the pressure to “bounce back.” The list is never ending for sure. What did we miss? Feel free to drop it in the comments below 👇🏽 Dusit Princess Nairobi is becoming a regular at t...

Happy Easter Weekend, Inbetweeners🐰🤩🎉. Your weekend is already sorted because we have a brand new episode out today🥳. We filmed this one at the beautiful Dusit Princess Nairobi in Westlands. The hotel is stunning, the rooms are spacious, and they have a heated pool, a well-equipped gym, and restaurants with really great food. Now, onto today’s episode…You might be wondering: What don’t men get...

Unlock your personalized roadmap to sexual fulfillment: https://beducate.me/bg2612-tmipodcast Let's get out of the ordinary and into the unexplored path ways to pleasure... Staying naked more often! That does some magic on unlocking your relationship with your body and your self in general. Another one, incorporating sex toys that you can use with your partner, the gym...you all know what they...

Happy Friday, Eid Mubarak to all our Muslim Ibetweeners🥳🌙We hope you’re having a really soft, beautiful day. Let’s get into today’s conversation… There are still things we’re figuring out in our 30s. It might not always look like it, but trust us… there’s a lot we haven’t quite cracked yet. Even our moms, despite their age and experience, are still figuring some things out too, the journey doesn...

Happy Friday Inbetweeners🤩. Let’s talk about the toy drawer💦👀... Where do you actually draw the line? In this episode we share our sex toy stories, how we first discovered them, what the experience has been like for us, and the boundaries we have had to set so that pleasure does not turn into dependency. We had this conversation with the one and only Bev Munga, thee Vibrating Lawyer and founder...

Good afternoonnn, It’s lunchtimeee and TMIII just dropped a new oneeee🎶🎵 Flow with u💃💃 Anyway, Happy International Women’s Day, Queenbetweeners. Our true ride-or-dies, thank you for being such an integral part of our movement… The Messy Inbetween. We appreciate and love you so much❤️.In line with this year’s IWD theme, Give to Gain, it truly melts our hearts when you DM or comment about how yo...

It’s definitely… TMI Fridaysssss 🤩🤩 New episode. New montage. And yes...we finally delivered the new montage we’ve been promising 💃💃(For the audio gang, its on our YouTube) On today’s episode, we’re answering some of the questions you sent us on Instagram. Also… can we talk about Messy Mondays for a second? First of all, thank you to everyone who participates. Some of your submissions are wild...

Your daily dose of happiness is here! TMI FRIDAYSSS🤩🤩.Today’s agenda? Unhinged Feminine Beauty Hacks. And listen… some of them are wild. For example...Speaking affirmations to your water before you drink it, marrying the right person(apparently stress = wrinkles 😭), good sleep, eating your vegetables and adding a perfume oil to your Nivea Nourishing Cocoa - you skin will smell absolutely delici...

Unlock your personalized roadmap to sexual fulfillment. Take the quiz: https://beducate.me/bg2608-tmipodcast Happy Valentine’s❤️. How are you spending yours? Date night with your manz? Galentines? Or you and your popcorn catching feelings over strangers on the internet🤭? In case you missed it, Friday is the new Wednesday. We’ve officially moved our episode drops to Fridays. Today’s episode is abo...

Surpriseeeee🤩🎉 No, you're not dreaming , it’s actually a new episode, dropping on a Friday! Hey Inbetweeners! Happy New Year 🥂 How have you been? We missed you so much during our two-month break, so we decided to come back quietly with a likkle sumn’. This is our first episode of the year and we’re talking 2026 ins and outs — paced productivity, dating 👀, gatekeeping, delusion (girls, get...

The last episode of 2025! We did it, Inbetweeners! Happy Wednesday and welcome to our final episode of the year. What. A. Year. We’ve both had our fair share of lows including losing loved ones and some really beautiful highs. Jo launched her lip product business (The Lip Tribe!) and stepped into such a gorgeous era. Lyd ran a whole 10km, celebrated life, and held onto friendships that truly showe...

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Get your annual Beducated subscription for just $69 this November! LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: https://beducate.me/bg2542-tmipodcast Coupon Code: tmipodcast69 Happy Wednesday Inbetweeners! Less penetration, more everything else — spanking, choking, toys 👀 In the spirit of Black November, we’re getting real about the things we’re doing less of and what we’re doing more of in relationships, friendships,...

200 episodes in the bag💼🤩✨We did that!🥰
The giveaway post goes up on our Instagram this week, so keep an eye out and make sure you participate. This week, we’re continuing the conversation on canon events that shape you as a woman, from the boyfriend who was secretly your biggest hater, to the friendship that ended and took a chunk of you with it, to landing your first big girl job. We hope yo...