The Messy Inbetween

Although conversations around pleasure are moving into the mainstream space, there's no denying that it is, more often than not, daunting to explore. In this episode, we weigh in on the different types of kinks that exist, shouting out those that we love and, hopefully, encouraging you to tap into your inner freak! This episode is proudly sponsored by Beducated., an online platform that helps you...

The holidays are coming up and we know this is a joyous season for so many. However, there are many unspoken truths about this season that we wanted to talk about. Working on holidays, mismatches expectations, divorced home dynamics or grieving loss is part of the holidays for some this season. It can also be a triggering and sad time for many. If that’s you, do what you can to take it easy and do...

Social media can easily make you feel like ‘the other’ for what you don’t like but we all have things we don’t like that other people love. Even our national dish avocado has haters like Murugi!😅 Lydia doesn’t like coffee, the internationally beloved beverage. There are also more intimate things like mixing friends groups or watching people be embarrassed… despite what social media says, you can...

What comes in mind when you hear the word ‘BreakUp?’ Another sad story for most of us, right? The truth is, in most cases breakups are the darkest pits but also the lessons learnt thereafter can magically change your life and lead to a mindblowing self discovery. On this episode we sat with the amazing Jules as we unpacked some of our personal lessons we have learned through our breakups. We shed...

With constant information surrounding us on Sex/Intimacy from Porn, hype by friends, ratchet music, movies, magazines etc, it’s easy to get muddled up on what’s right or not for you! On this episode we tackled some of the dilemma questions you asked us. As the Big sisters we are, we shared an open and honest conversation. We shared the DOs, DONT’S, HOWs, WHENs and a lot more!😉 This episode is pro...

We all had a picture of how our adulthood would turn out to be while growing up. We couldn’t wait to embrace the word ‘I am an Adult’ so bad to enjoy the rightful privilege denied to us when we were kids.. Mom/dad would tell us “wait until you become an adult “ and that sentence lived rent free in our heads as we eagerly built fascinating stories about the hood! On the reals, now that we are adult...

We did an episode on what our mothers told us a while ago and immediately there were a lot of requests for us to do this episode. Despite not having great relationships with our fathers we see how much we’ve learned from them. This episode was actually very therapeutic so thank you inbetweeners for suggesting it. Let us know in the comments some things that you’ve learned from your father. If this...

Q&A episode!🤩 We asked you to shoot some questions on our Instagram page and as usual, we spilled the tea. From the break up to splitting bills and our goals for TMI! Thank you for the questions. Let’s chat in the comments 🤗 Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram:  TMI Podcast KE...

A highly requested topic! Many of us are dealing with at least one toxic family member. It can be incredibly tough to navigate because of all the meaning we place on family. Should you draw boundaries, black tax…where’s the line ? So many questions so we are sharing how we’ve been able to deal with some of our toxic family members. Tell us in the comments how you’ve been able to deal with toxic fa...

Before we were the queens of the sex podcast 😄, we knew nothing at all. Nada! We thought orgasms came every two minutes, we thought porn could teach us about sex in real life and we thought that sexuality was black and white. Wrong! We have learned many things about sex on the years so we wanted to share as we debunk some of these misconceptions! This episode is proudly sponsored by Beducated. Th...

We both have close relationships with our mums. We listen to them very intently so you may have heard us drop little gems here and there that our mums have taught us over the years. From relationship advice to money and life in general so we thought to share them all here.    Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! YouTube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/...

We’ve heard of wife duties but what are girlfriend duties?👀  Is it her job to make her man happy, stay looking good for him and give him the best sex? 😭Also, are these duties or they’re optional? Girlfriends of TMI…Let us know.   Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content!  YouTube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA  Instagra...

We see pretty much every comment the inbetweeners post but we can’t always respond directly. We are going through some of your comments in this episode and sharing our remarks. Whether you disagree with us, you’re giving us feedback or you sharing a supportive comment, we appreciate every single one.   Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content!   Youtube:  TMI Podcas...

From body size to gender based double standards, there are too many out here that we are simply tired of. Newsflash, women can own their successes, men can express their emotions and anyone can be foodie and it’s totally cute! Let us know in the comments the double standards that you’re sick of. Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.co...

We've dragged the whole town but what about US? What are some of the things that are really not a 10 in us? This one was tough to do but self introspection is key.😄  Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia...

We are back with another dilemma episode. We know it’s a fave.  Every dilemma no matter how simple the answer may look can be very complicated for the person going through it. As per usual, help us advise the inbetweeners in the comments below with support and encouragement.  Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/...

3 weeks ago we had the time of our lives at the TMI Live experience to celebrate one year of TMI! We know so many of you couldn’t make it and we hope sharing this here allows you to feel like you were part of it, even if it’s only a little bit. We shared our life lessons and so did some inbetweeners. Lots of chat, lots of hugs, lots and fun. Thank you for the inbetweeners who made it. You made our...

Another one for the laughs!😂 You guys requested this one so who are we to not give it!! Whomst?! Have fun with it and let us know yours in the comments. 😁 Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://in...

Ooo conflict resolution?!😭 Pull up a seat honey, we are learning! Conflict is normal but there are practices that can make it healthy or unhealthy. Do you shout, insult, dismiss, walk away..👀 Or are you calm, intently listening and empathetic? 🥰 We can all have a moment but making some bad habits a practice in conflict resolution can harbour long term resentment. What are your tips on healthy c...

Back again with another one! We are glad you’re loving this series.  As mentioned in the previous episode in the series, this is is just for laughs. That’s it hun. Everyone is a 10 to someone okay?😄 Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodc...

We love sex. Goes without saying 😅 but there are some truths we all need to get into! Not to make sex bad but to make it an honest experience.   This episode is proudly sponsored by Beducated! The number 1 resource for sexual health and happiness. A platform designed to help you level up your love life by accessing online courses from the world’s top experts!  You can access our landing...

We have really been shaking tables in the last few episodes 😅 so today we are having some laughs!  What are those things that can take a guy from a 10 to a 4. He lives with his mum, he cries every time you argue…😭 We came up with as many weird ones as possible. Let us know yours. Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel...

We really did mean “uncomfortable truths“ but here we are. 😄 This episode is sponsored by beGirlKE. Their new website has officially launched. You can purchase the FitCup standard size and mini. You can also find so much helpful information on how to use your menstrual cup and FAQs.  https://www.begirl.ke The female body is sooo scrutinized. But what are the truths around it? How much do we...

Deep breaths. This may be triggering but the truth is the truth.  It’s safer and far more hopeful to go through life ignoring some of these uncomfortable truths and we definitely suggest you do but they has to be said. Will your partner cheat on you? Probably. Will we all be ‘successful’? No. Are all our parents good? No. But si ni life 😩 Do you agree with these uncomfortable truths and what...

We are always shouting about family planning but we know there are still some uncomfortable truths out there that we are still not ready to accept! This episode is in partnership with Marie Stopes! They are a network of caring professionals across Kenya delivering women’s wellness services. From pregnancy and maternity care to contraceptive and family planning.  Uncomfortable truths are a maj...