The Messy Inbetween

And just like that, 2021 is coming to an end. As we start a new one we wanted to share what we are leaving in 2021. From songs, to habits to trends. We want 2022 to be fresh and new so some of things just can't come with us. Some people and places can't come with you either sis. Maybe your man can't either hun. Only you know what kind of 2022 you want so check in and see what needs to be dropped.&...

What a year it’s been? The year we started TMI, first and foremost!😄  It’s also been a year of many highs but also some lows. We wanted to have a sit down to have a frank conversation of how the year went. From family to health to relationships. Sometimes our minds only remembers the extremes, so sitting down to review each area of life to see what was great and what wasn’t allows you to act...

It’s not break up season we swear!! But since we talked about how to know when it’s over, we thought we offer some support on what to do if you do break up. We have all been through a break up. They suck. Nothing will change that! But there are some things you can do to make the ghetto a little less ghetto!  Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - http...

Before accepting that your relationship is over…it takes time. But whether you like it or not, eventually there comes a point of no return and you are left with no option. We thought we share our personal non negotiables. The things that we believe are obvious signs that the relationship is over or at least it needs to be. What are some things that let you know that it’s time to break up? Let us k...

One of the most overused word in 2021 but a necessary one. We have touched on boundaries before we wanted to do a full episode so we ca share our personal experiences with boundaries and the long ghetto road to learning how to enforce them. Boundaries also have a very bad reputation as most people see them as barriers. We wanted to change that narrative into a positive one. Boundaries are for you...

Money money moooneeyyyy! We are always talking about securing the bag but what happens after the you secure it? What are our money habits and are they they helping us get and stay rich? On this week's episode we share how we are TRYING to have better money habits and the things that have helped. Major disclaimer... we are also very much students in this game so we are also learning. From learning...

We are always complaining about how our partners are... what our exes did...how hard done by we have been... what about us? Are we present in our relationships? Are we putting in effort to to be the best partners we can be? This episode is an honest conversation about how we have learnt to be better partners. We also share the ways we weren't at some point. Being unkind, not taking accountability...

After last week's very triggering episode (check out "Episode 16 - How to know your partner is cheating" if you haven't), we are on the other side of the spectrum this week. How to know you have found or you are with 'the one'. We appreciate that 'the one' means different things to everyone. We also know that the one may not be this 'soul mate' but it is the one who aligns with you in a healthy wa...

Disclaimer - Each of these things separately aren't necessarily red flags but a couple of them together probably are.   Cheating is a constant conversation and a lot of the times the person who is being cheated on is the last to know. We have both been cheated on and we have both cheated so we know what it's like from both sides. It is obviously devastating to be cheated on but better to know...

Sexual confidence!!! Knowing you deserve pleasure, owing your right to have it and freely enjoying that right. We know that women especially are conditioned to dim this part of their identity and it's rarely talked about. On this episode we shared out journey, our obstacles and ultimately the defining factors that helped us build our sexual confidence. Where you do you feel you fall on the spectru...

It’s here guys! Our first collaboration! And it’s with the best in the biz 🤩 If you don’t know , get out from under your rock and go check their channel out. But first watch this video so you know what to expect 😂 In this testosterone + oestrogen balanced episode, we ask each other why women/men do what they do… and the responses are.. memorable.  Enjoy the listen and follow us for more con...

Hey guys! Today we decided to do something different! You guys are constantly sending us questions about our lives, the podcast, content creation and careers, our friendships and relationships and so much more and in this video, we answer them ALL! Even the uncomfortable ones :) We hope you enjoy listening to this as much as we enjoyed shooting it!  For daily updates or to connect with us, fo...

The body of a woman!  It goes through so many changes but we hardly ever see them coming. There are so many myths around our bodies that are simply not true. On this episode we each share our journey with our bodies and talk about some of the things we wish we knew as we transitioned into womanhood. Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content!  Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https:/...

Work work work!  One thing we both stand for is the importance of hard work! We have both worked in the corporate world and in the self employment world and along the way we have picked up a lot of lessons from office politics to knowing your value!!! All workplaces are different but the principles are the same. Here as some of the things we wish we knew.  Enjoy the listen and follow us...

Episode 10!!!  Moving in with a partner whether a boyfriend or a husband comes with a lot! From making that decision, to the planning, to actually moving in... A lot!! Then there are the expectations vs reality when it comes to the day to day issues. From petty fights to getting used to their weird habits, it takes a lot of getting used to. On this episode we discuss our why we chose o move i...

We are officially in season 2! Thank you guys for sticking with us this long.. we promise bigger and better as we grow!   Today we start a new series... What We Wish We Knew... and today it's about our 20's. The ghettoest decade of them all. The season of life where we were trying to figure out careers, love, parenting (for Murugi). and everything in the messy in-between! Not to say that we h...

We are sorry there was no episode last week. Murugi wasn't well but she is great now. Thank you for the well wishes.   Episode 8 - end of Season 1! - The last of the "unspoken rules of.." series and we are ending with 'unspoken rules of dating!!!' Dating in this age has been said to be an extreme sport. Extreme!!! So we share some of the rules we believe can ease the process. From managing se...

Episode 7!!🥳🥳🥳   Disclaimer - Sex should be as free and uninhibited as possible and by all means, you are not weird if you are not following ours. These are the unspoken rules that create a safe environment for us!  Because even with freedom... surely we cannot just run riot! 😄 From no farting to 'slap me but not too hard'... we all have some!  Enjoy the listen and follow u...

Situationships!!   The gherro we all know!!!! He is not your man but you are in it like he is. You are not just friends but you're not in a relationship! Why do we even do this to ourselves?!!! We discussed the unspoken rules of this entanglements just in case you're thinking about getting into one or you are in one. Hopefully these save one of two babes from entering the RED ZONE aka catchin...

Episode 5!!! We feel like we are truly initiated in the podcast game now! Thank you for being here from the beginning!  This week we talk about a part of our lives that can be so complex… friendships! We share the unspoken rules of healthy adult friendships according to us! We all go through the ghetto… poor boundaries, back stabbing, lack of communication but as we grow, so must our friendsh...

Rules of successful adulting!! We are yet to find the blessed child who is doing all of them but these are some of the rules we think make for successful adulting. From making sure you are stocked up on your household items to learning to say no. We tick some boxes but still figuring out the rest. Let us know if there are some which we missed out on and if you agree with ours! Thank you for tuning...

Back with another episode and this week we are sharing things we know for sure!  From what love is, to who is cheating in Nairobi! Here are a few things we know for sure. Let us know what you know for sure in the comments! We love reading your responses.  Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content!  Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW...

In this thing called life, we think there are more things we don’t know for sure than things we do actually know. This week’s episode is all about that! Do you know for sure if your best sex is in your future or past? Do you know for sure if you’re as secure as you think? … Do you reaallyyy?😄 And those things that we are not sure of are what make life amazing as well as Messy!!! Tell us some of y...

Our first episode! Aaaaaaah! Could we be any more excited?! In this episode, we are answering some intimate and some not-so-intimate questions to help you get to know us better. This is the beginning of our journey with you. It's messy, but we're here.  Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube:  TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Ins...

Hosts - Murugi Munyi & Lydia K.M.  The Messy Inbetween podcast episode 1 promo. Welcome to our space!  This is a podcast about life as it is. Messy. In love, work, money, relationships, friendships and everything in between. But we’re figuring it out and we’d love you to come along on the journey ❤️ New episodes out every Wednesday at 12pm!!!!! Produced by SEMA BOX.