The Kitchen Sink, ENM and Kink Podcast

In this weeks Episode we have a men and women’s health segment regarding body image and all the things that go with it in the lifestyle. We get candid about our own insecurities and ways you can go about feeling more confident in your body and in the lifestyle.   Then we talk about Humiliation finally to go along with the degradation we talked about a few shows ago. Things get a little tense betwe...

This week we talk about upcoming updates to the kink kitchen, and the changes that will need to be taking place to make sure we can keep the show going.   The swing segment we talk about how to handle the situation when your partner goes for  play partners who may be completely opposite from you, and how to handle those feelings. We talk about our own experiences and how we handle them.   Then we...

In this weeks episode Pedro and Tink talk about what it’s like for women in the lifestyle  to take the leap in taking another  man’s D for the first time. We discuss Tinks struggles over the years and how she made the leap and tripped onto her first D.   In polyamory we talk about changing sheets…that’s right. Do you change the sheets if you play with one of your other partners who doesn’t sleep i...

This week we talk about a fairly odd dynamic but one that is becoming increasingly popular. We talk about the Hot Husband dynamic and why we really enjoy it for ourselves. We also got some feedback from another couple who enjoys he dynamic and we compare out thoughts to theirs.   Then in the Polyam segment we talk about the mess that can occur when your partner is less than honest when starting to...

This week we finish up our recap of our amazing four days in Las Vegas at Podbash. There’s another super sexy retelling of a BDSM threesome and of course the “Podcaster Poly” update so many of you have been waiting for. We hope sharing our experience at this amazing event will help some of you decide to book your tickets for Podbash 2024 so we can party with you as well!   If you want to see all t...

In this weeks episode we talk about PODBASH baby! In part 1 we discuss everything from Wednesday to Friday evening. We even talk about two hot play sessions at the end of the episode. The first one Tink has a Domination session with a fellow podcaster, then Pedro plays with a shy Hotwife.   We also talk about the amazing reconnecting session we have at the end of the evening, you don’t want to mis...

In this weeks episode Pedro and Tink discuss how to navigate being new to the swing lifestyle when one person in a couple is moving slower than the other when warming up to new situations. We recount our beginning in the LS and the challenges we faced and overcame.   Then in the Polyam segment Pedro talks about the possibility of a long distance polyamorous relationship with a fellow podcaster who...

In this weeks swing topics we discuss a listener topic. It was brought to our attention that some people in the lifestyle wait until the last minute to disclose positive or past positive test results. We discuss how this can be especially dangerous for certain individuals  in the LS.   In the poly segment we talk about the potential of your Child growing up to be polyamorous. Listen to find what w...

In this weeks episode we talk about insecurities and mishaps when playing with other partners in a swing setting. What are some major ones for you?   Then Tink talks women’s health, vagina’s, birth control and hormones for women specifically in the ENM lifestyle. Lots of great information for you ladies this week.   If you want to see all the sexy fun make sure to go to the podcasts Fansly page an...

In this weeks episode we discuss “Hall Passes”, what they mean in the Lifestyle. We then discus our thoughts and opinions on the matter, some you may agree with and of course some you may not. Then Tink talks about her work crush in the Polyam segment. Could it turn in to more? What would It mean for our personal relationship? Then in the Kink and BDSM segment we talk about one of Pedro’s favorite...

In this weeks episode Pedro tries not to die as he gets over a sinus infection. In the swing segment we discus the etiquette of letting someones partner know you’d like to play with them. In the Polyamory segment we talk NRE or New Relationship Energy, what it looks like, and how to handle it so it doesn’t ruin other relationships. Then in the Kink and BDSM segment Tink Talks all about Pegging. If...

In this weeks episode Pedro and Tink talk about the most common ENM/Swing dynamics. We explain what the terms and definitions of each are. We also explain why these definitions are important when communicating with other people in the ENM community. Pedro has a bit of rant and explains why he’s a douche.   Then we pick our winner for our Fan Fantasy toy give-a-way. We hear our winners fantasy in h...

In this weeks episode Pedro and Tink talk about what burns them out when it comes to the swing lifestyle. Why it may be happening and possible ways to remedy it. This is border line a rant on Pedro’s part but hey when doesn’t he rant about something?   Then in the Kink and BDSM segment Tink asks Pedro if he can determine what role someone may be based off of first meeting them. And then Tink gets...

This week Pedro and Tink discuss all of the dynamics they have tried in the swing lifestyle. What they liked and didn’t like about each. And what dynamic they intend to try next.   In the Polyamory segment Tink asks Pedro what happens when it comes to using protection if he is in a V relationship with another woman. Then we discuss Tinks opinion when it comes to her and men.   In the Kink and BDSM...

In this weeks episode we are home from Pennsylvania. We talk about our trip to The Private Affair in port deposit MD. Then in the swing segment we discuss partnered women and consent violations. Why these women may feel like their actions are acceptable and how some of us men feel about it.   Then in the Polyamory segment we discuss an issue that can arise when a throuple ends and everyone lives t...

In this episode we are recording from the beautiful SunnyRest Resort in Palmerton, PA. In the swing segment we ask the question, does age really matter in the swing lifesyle? Hear our opinions on young and old and if we care.   Then in the Polyam segment we give a small update on our potential situation with the amazing woman we met while on vacation.   In the BDSM and Kink segment Pedro and Tink...

In this weeks episode we celebrate ONE YEAR of the podcast. That’s 52 episodes of pure shitshow goodness. And for this show we have our friends and Number 1 ride or die Jeff and his wife on the show as we record from a beautiful Mountain View deck at SunnyRest Resort in Palmerton, PA.   Listen in as we discuss newbies in the lifestyle, and transitioning from newbies to seasoned pro’s. How letting...

This week we recap our five days at Naughty N’awlins. We are exhausted from a week full of seminars, drinking, late nights and amazing friends. We apologize if you can hear the exhaustion in our voices, but listen in and get our take on this massive event. Make sure to check out two of the podcasts we linked below in the notes. These two shows are great and hosted by amazing people.   If you want...

In this weeks episode, Pedro and Tink record from Naughty N’awlins. In swinging we discuss how important it is to be true to yourself and being authentic in the lifestyle.   In the Polyamory segment we talk about poly people not understanding what Polyamory is and means because they won’t let their partners have other partners.   In the Kink and BDSM segment Pedro and Tink talk about how they navi...

In this weeks episode Tink and Pedro talk about a new trend they have been seeing on social media where women are poosie blocking their male partners for various reasons. This segment gets a little heated when Pedro goes off the rails a bit, if you enjoy the rants then stick around for this one.   Then in Polyamory we talk about starting a triad from scratch with three single people. The pro’s and...

This week we have a doozy of a swing segment. Something we have seen over and over again. We discuss the members of the lifestyle who feel they can lay claim or call dibs on another person or couples when it comes to play. Pedro has some strong feelings on this topic so if you get your feelings hurt easily you may want to skip this one.   For Polyamory we discuss some of the issues and internal st...

In this weeks episode Pedro and Tink retell some hot details bout their play time over the weekend. Tink plays with someone for the first time after a year in the making. Pedro turns into a pornstar after a lengthy session. Then in the Swing segment Pedro gets vulnerable as he discusses boundaries with Tink in order to save their BDSM dynamic and potentially their relationship. It’s a difficult di...

In this weeks episode Pedro and Tink record live from the Pandor’s Resort Playroom with special guests Tom and Jill. They are fairly new to the swing lifestyle and we get their take on what they look for when they go to a swinger resort or party. What makes it a great time and what they look for in other couples and singles. Then in the Polyamory segment we discuss the negative stigma that Polyamo...

In this weeks episode we talk about single males or men who can play solo. Tips from Tink to help your chances making connections with women in the lifestyle as well as a list of do’s and Don’ts. Pedro weighs in from time to time to give his perspective from the husbands viewpoint. Then we talk about the differences in being a Unicorn and being a girlfriend and how some people get things twisted!...

In this episode Pedro and Tink head to the newly reopened Pandora’s Resort in Crossvile, TN. We discuss expectations when visiting a swing resort and how to make the most of your trip. Then we have an exclusive interview with the new Owners John and Gwen. In the Kink and BDSM segment Pedro retells how he had some play time with two women looking for a sensual flogging. How did that go you ask, lis...