The Kinky Tavern

This week, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr talk about some Queer History in the Kinky Tavern’s mini-series “Queer History!”  They started their research for this portion at the beginning of the “new world,” America. Of course, so many of the timelines found are very ethnocentric to America and there’s not a wealth of easily found information for other areas of the world, though we do plan to dig them...

This week, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr talk about some Queer History in a new mini-series of The Kinky Tavern!  They started their research for this portion at the beginning of the “new world,” America. Of course, so many of the timelines found are very ethnocentric to America and there’s not a wealth of easily found information for other areas of the world, though we do plan to dig them up to sh...

This week, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr discuss Events, Communities, and Safety - More fun than NetSmartz! Have you ever wondered how to find events? Maybe what etiquette you should be keeping in mind when going? Have you explored kink online? Do you know your internet safety?? Join us to answer all these questions and more! A Big Thank You to our Patrons: lovelauseng Moon_goddess https://linktr.ee/The...

Last week, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr started a discussion on Queer Sex Ed!  This week, we’ll be continuing that with Queer Sex Ed 102! You can’t deny that sex education in schools is lacking and nobody really consistently gets it anywhere else. We’re going to go back to basics today and cover Queer Sex Ed 102. Join us to find out about mental health, consent, sex, healthcare, and more! Thank yo...

This week, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr discuss queer sex!! You can’t deny that sex education in schools is lacking and nobody really consistently gets it anywhere else. We’re going to go back to basics today and cover Queer Sex Ed 101. Join us to find out about gender, sexuality, pronouns, and more! We did have more questions and more content with this subject which we will be putting out as Episode 3...

This week, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr discuss the topic of brats!  With both of us being brats and being partnered with brats, we are just a little familiar with this subject. But what is a brat? Is it a role? A personality? How does consent work for bratting? Are all brats submissive? Are they bad submissives? Listen in on our conversation on bratting to find out the answers to your questions!!...

TW/CW: This episode contains discussion of abuse, neglect, and trauma. If this isn’t something you care to hear about, please go ahead and skip this one and we’ll catch you next time! This week, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr discuss the topic of caregiver/little dynamics. There are so many nuances and intricacies in any kink, but this dynamic is very special to us and we have a lot to say!  Join us...

TW/CW: This episode contains discussion of anal play and anal sex. We don’t shy away from the fact that during anal, shit happens. If this isn’t something you care to hear about, please go ahead and skip this one and we’ll catch you next week when we talk about Caregiver and Little Dynamics! This week, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr discuss the topic of anal! What’s the appeal? What are some options for...

This week, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr discuss the topic of breeding in kink! What is it? Can you be into breeding but not want to get pregnant? Can you enjoy it if you aren’t in a heterosexual relationship or don’t fit into the gender binary? How can we mitigate the risks involved in  the kink? Join us to find out! Thank you for your questions Moon_goddess! Thank you to ALL our listeners, but es...

This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr discuss the topic of Total Power Exchange and Consensual Slavery. Masters and slaves in the kink community are at the butt end of a lot of misconceptions. In this episode, we attempt to quell that by defining the general terms for you and getting down to specifics like protocols and different types of controls. It is definitely not the last episode we’ll have co...

This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr sit down with Jessica Artemis(she/her), our favorite bratty prison girl, and once again, gracing our presence is, Lord Allen Vydra. Jessica is interested in a myriad of kinks such as bondage, restraints, prison/guard play, rope, mummification, and so much more!  Listen in as we lock in the truth with Jessica and Allen. Mentioned in-episode: Sunstone (Comic)...

This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr continue their look into how BDSM is represented in media with the 2017 Drama, Professor Marston and the Wonder Woman . This movie not only portrays BDSM as it was in the 1930s-40s, but also the struggles of having a polyamorous family in those times, being a feminist, and the conflict William encounters when he endeavors into the world of writing comic books. A...

This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr discuss Ethical Non-Monogamy/Polyamory. Both of us have experiences in Polyam and we did some research to explain terms and polyamory in general. Join us for advice, research, and lessons from polyam! A Big Thank You to our Patrons: lovelauseng Moon_goddess https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send i...

This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr sit down with LatexBourne(he/him), a rubbery house-cat who is interested in a myriad of kinks including pony play, dronification, hypnosis, bondage, spanking, and tickling. LatexBourne practices monogamy in romance but is polyamorous in kink. He is also an aspiring latex/kink model and has been involved in professional photo shoots! Find LatexBourne Fetlife: htt...

This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr discuss and review the representations of BDSM in Media in this continued series. The representation we chose to review this week is the newly released Korean Rom-Com movie called Love and Leashes. It’s on Netflix and if you’d like to watch the film, I’d suggest doing so before we spoil the entire thing in this episode. Tune in as we pick apart the film and how...

This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr sit down with their partner and friend, Lord Allen Vydra. This chaotic audio experience is filled with laughs, some heavy stuff, and a lot of kink. Join this terrible triad as they attempt to create an entertaining and educational episode for our listeners. CW/TW: Race and culture fetishization, naz*s A Big Thank You to our Patrons: vpandemonium and lovelauseng...

This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr discuss and review the representation of kink in the film Secretary (2002) starring James Spader and Maggie Gyllenhal. Join us as we talk about the different aspects and situations which director, Steven Shainberg chose to depict in this Romantic Dramedy centered around a kinky relationship developing between a lawyer and his secretary. CW/TW: Self harm, mental...

This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr dive into the world of entertainment (for once) to introduce their new mini-series: BDSM in Media!  They discuss how BDSM/kink are shown in media such as tv, books, movies, comics, magazines, etc and how that colors the perception of the general public in regards to BDSM/kink. The mini-series will sometimes pop up as a regular Sunday episode where Miss Dizz...

This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr switch things up and talk about switches in BDSM and kink!  Both Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr are switches and discuss their experiences and the knowledge they’ve gained over the years about switches. A Big Thank You to our Patrons: vpandemonium and lovelauseng Thank you to those who asked questions! Scurry erub Bollax the Fox - Dallas Vpandemonium https://link...

This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr talk about pain play! Pain is a large part, though not all, of kink. Today we are focusing on this foundational piece of BDSM and kink!  Join Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr as they discuss the physical and psychological aspects of pain. A Big Thank You to our Patrons: vpandemonium and lovelauseng Thank you to those who asked questions! Bratty Prison Girl Jessica...

This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr talk about blood play! Both of us love blood play and practice it fairly regularly. We talk about different types of blood play and the motivations toward it, some safety tips, and even vampirism. A Big Thank You to our Patrons: vpandemonium and lovelauseng Thank you to those who asked questions! Bratty Prison Girl Jessica erubescence TheStephyBeast LatexBourne...

This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr talk about Impact play! This type of kink play is near and dear to both of their hearts and they are excited to share with you the beauty and pain that is impact. Learn where you can and can’t hit, how to mark or avoid marks, and just general safety and 101 about impact play! A Big Thank You to our Patrons: vpandemonium Thank you to those who asked questions! Je...

This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr talk about Toys and Pervertables!  Right in the middle of the winter holiday season, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr give us lots of ideas for things we can use around the house or from the dollar store to get our kink on! A Big Thank You to our Patrons: vpandemonium Thank you to those who asked questions! Jessica_Artemis https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern If you ha...

This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr talk about Petplay!  This topic is near and dear to both of their hearts as Pup Rekkr is (believe it or not) a pup; and Miss Dizzy, his handler. They talk about petspace, roleplay, gear, consent in petplay, and so much more! A Big Thank You to our Patron: vpandemonium Thank you to those who asked questions! LatexBourne Vpandemonium Scurry1978 Jessica_Artemi...

This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr discuss Leadership within the kink community. What should that look like? How do leaders achieve that? What do you do if you have a concern about the leadership you see?  Big Thank You to our Patron: vpandemonium Thank you for those who asked questions! JessicaArtemis Scurry1978 Jesterfrankie MistressAimeeKS If  you have any questions about the kink or...