The Intimacy Playground with EJ Love

This is the conversation that changed my sex life! I believe everyone should be going through this communication framework before any intimate, sensual, sexual, tantric or kinky experience. I go into depth with: ~ The DFBSCTA framework: Desires, Fears, Boundaries, Sexual Health, Communication, Triggers/Trauma and Aftercare ~ How these conversations create the “fence of the playground” so you can p...

This is the episode where I share one of the most memorable and transformational erotic experiences of my life - my Tantric Queen Worship Experience Fantasy with four men completely in service to me and my pleasure! I talk about: Why I created this experience and what led me here (burnout, people-pleasing, and wanting to fully claim my desires) How I found these four men willing to worship me - ye...

In this episode, I have the pleasure of speaking with three male escorts who have all attended our Conscious Sexuality Experience training. I asked them all the most curious questions that people wanted to know about what it’s like being a male escort:  How did you get into the industry? Why do you do what you do?  What types of women book your services? What are they looking for?  How do you do t...

In this episode Anna Morrigan and I go deep on:  1. How to know when watching porn has actually become an addiction  2. The real reason men can become so easily dependent on porn  3. The massive impacts porn dependency has on men’s brains, their sexual intimacy, performance and their relationships 4. How men can be re-traumatising themselves every time they watch porn Join my 4 Week Men’s Sex Mast...

In this episode EJ covers:  1. The Unconscious Unhealed Mother Wound Behaviours and How they Impact Men’s Relationships with Women  2. The 6 Different Mother-Son Dynamics that are Playing out Repeated Patterns in Relationships 3. How this Unhealed Wound Impacts Men’s Intimacy and can be a cause of ED, PE and how it can also Create Kinks and Fantasies that lead to Addictions 4. The Unconscious Loya...

In this episode I share the amazing conscious experience I had with a male escort and answer so many of the questions that you had for me about this including: 1. Why I decided to Hire a Male Escort 2. How I found Him and Why I chose this Escort 3. What I wanted to get out of the experience 4. The juicy details of what happened and my reflections and learnings. 5. My personal recommendations of Co...

In the sex industry you will hear the acronyms 'PSE' and 'GFE' which stand for Pornstar Experience and Girlfriend Experience respectively. 'CSE' is the new kind of experience - a Conscious Sexuality Experience - that is about to revolutionise not only the sex industry but the world and we are here to stand at the forefront of this revolution! In this very in depth episode w...

In this episode Anna and I share about: What Conscious Sexuality is NOT The importance of listening to our bodies and being aware of our sexual conditioning and trauma responses Establishing boundaries and consent and knowing what we want and how to ask for it Sex as a pathway for healing, growth and discovering and expressing more parts of ourselves Sex reflection conversations to deepen intimacy...

In this episode we share about:  Powerful Stories of Healing through Conscious Kink How Kink can be used to Somatically Move Energy through the Body and Brings our Focus to the Felt Sense in the Body Importance of Regulating the Nervous System in a Kink Experience Exploring the Fear of Humiliation and Working with it Somatically Exploring your Dominatrix Energy and Dominating Yourself Knowing What...

Mmm yes please!! In this episode I guide you through the Art of Tantric Cock Worship which I believe is one of the most beautiful intimacy practices and the most powerful way to initiate a man and open his heart. You will learn: Why offer a Tantric Cock Worship Ritual How deeply healing it can be How I got into it and developed my sessions A full guide to what happens in a worship session How you...

Join me for our very first interview podcast episode with Anna Morrigan!  Anna has been involved in the adult industry for over 40 years starting out as sex worker, she became a highly successful escort and dominatrix and then went on to brothel management and ownership. She now owns a venue and club that is devoted to the exploration of conscious sexuality and has a huge vision to revolutionise t...

This is going to be one of those episodes that is going to make you see your sex life in a whole new light! Even though I’m sharing about this from having done sex work, this will actually resonate for anyone who has ever been a pleaser and performer in the bedroom. In this episode I share about: - The reality of how sex work and having sex out of obligation or to please can actually be disempower...

So what does it mean to be Tantric and how do you bring sacred sexuality to sex work? In this much requested episode I talk about my life as a tantric escort! I share about how I transitioned from the girlfriend experience escort to being a tantric escort and how I brought my spiritual side to sex work in a way that was more honouring for my body and more fulfilling for my soul. You will first hea...

In this episode I share about my journey from escort to tantra practitioner to intimacy and relationship coach. I talk about how I was able to leave the sex industry and securely move into a full-time online coaching business that has made me more money than escorting! I share the mistakes I made along the way and how I would have done things differently knowing what I know now. I also drop some o...

Have you ever had sex to get love? To feel worthy? To be accepted? In this episode I explore how women come to believe their self-worth and love becomes associated with sex. Most women receive confusing messages growing up which say things like ‘be sexual’, but don’t be ‘too sexual’, don’t be ‘frigid’, but don’t be a ‘slut’ either.  I share how these messages can play out in relationships and work...

Hi I’m EJ Love. Welcome to the first episode of my Uncensored podcast!  In this episode I dive into what it means to her to be a S.L.U.T. which to me is being “Sexually Liberated in her Unapologetic Truth”. This is the episode that gives you the lowdown on my journey from my good girl conditioning to reclaiming my S.L.U.T. through working as an escort & running swinger's parties to journey...