The Heauxliloquy Podcast

I invited my friend Nancey, who is also the host of Dreaming In Color, onto the podcast to discuss planned parenthood. Some of the topics discussed include personal journeys regarding whether or not to have kids, the impact of this decision on family members, and being the external parent and setting boundaries. Don't forget to subscribe to Dreaming In Color. Dreaming In Color is a podcast about B...

In this episode, I invited my friend and fellow Sex Coach Nicole onto the podcast to discuss one night stands. Some of the topics discussed include our personal stories and how to set boundaries with casual sexual partners. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   What comes to mind when you hear the word “pleasure”? Looking to expand your toy knowledge beyond that bullet vibrator collecting d...

In this episode, I invited 7-times-award-winning creative Dr. Deonté Bolden onto the podcast to discuss online versus traditional dating. Some of the topics discussed include testing the waters early within the dating process, finding your scene for dating, and healing from a bad dating experience. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   Dr. Deonté Bolden is an actor, writer, filmmaker, direc...

In this episode, I invited my friend KP onto the podcast to discuss sending nudes. Some of the topics discussed include people feeling entitled to nudes, empowerment through nudes, and using nudes to gain attention. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   Follow and Support the Podcast Website: https://www.heauxliloquy.com Vernon's book: https://amzn.to/3vsZDm5 Vernon's IG: UrFavHeauxst ( htt...

In this episode, I invited my friend Shane onto the podcast to have a conversation about our personal experiences related to drinking in a segment we call Blame it on the Alcohol. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   Follow and Support the Podcast Website: https://www.heauxliloquy.com Vernon's book: https://amzn.to/3vsZDm5 Vernon's IG: UrFavHeauxst ( https://www.instagram.com/UrFavHeauxst/...

In this episode, I invited my friend and fellow podcaster Tyrell onto the podcast to discuss rape culture. Some of the topics discussed include sexual assault of men, negative sexual experience that impacts sexual expression, and rape culture in porn. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   Follow and Support the Podcast Website: https://www.heauxliloquy.com Vernon's book: https://amzn.to/3vs...

The Heauxliloquy Podcast is a bi-weekly sex-positive podcast that discusses the variability of sexual expression. It provides a safe space for conversations related to sexuality. We dive deep into our individual perspectives and occasionally debate our differences. It is a space for understanding that we all have a different understanding of sexual expression and this is normal. The podcast places...

Election Aftercare is all about coming together post-election to support each other, process our feelings, and heal as a community!   Election Aftercare   Welcome to our online event, Election Aftercare! Feeling stressed or overwhelmed after the recent election? Need a space to laugh and/or complain?   Join us for a relaxing session where we will discuss the impact of the 2024 election. Whether yo...

In this episode, I invited the Trans Deity Manny onto the podcast to discuss one night stands and sending nudes. Some of the topics discussed include setting clear boundaries for a one nighter, attending sex parties, body dysmorphia and nudes, and the sexualization of the body without consent. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   Manny is your universal Trans Deity. He is a sex coach, work...

In this episode, I invited my friend Sharita onto the podcast to participate in a segment I call "Releasing the Load". The topic of this discussion is surrounding Reality TV love finding shows. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   Sharita is here to help support you along your journey of self discovery and assist you with addressing past traumas while helping you with creating positive con...

In this episode, I invited the divine podcaster De'Vannon onto the podcast to have a love song dissection. De'Vannon's choices are "Different Kind of Love Song" by Cher and "It's Like That" by Mariah Carey and I chose "DFMU" by Ella Mai. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   De’Vannon Hubert is the author of Sex, Drugs, and Jesus, a memoir about his struggles with drug dealing, drug addicti...

In this episode, I invited my friend Sin onto the podcast to discuss preferences and gender. Some of the topics discussed include why do we, as a collective, care about what others do or say, using labels as identifiers, and gender expression. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   Sin is a very talented person. They are a creative that is making space for themselves in the realm of acting,...

In this episode, I invited my friend and fellow Sex Coach Nicole onto the podcast to discuss mental health and relationships. Some of the topics discussed include how did we come into our sexuality, the mental health blocks we had to overcome to be sexually free, and whether we are overcoming something. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   What comes to mind when you hear the word “pleasur...

In this episode, I invited Edward Miskie onto the podcast to discuss preferences. Some of the topics discussed include preferences vs value vs fetish or kink, race play, and consensual non-consent and kink play. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   Edward Miskie is a man of many talents. He is the author of "Cancer, Musical Theatre, & Other Chronic Illnesses", which you can purchase us...

In this episode, I invited my friend Shane onto the podcast to have a love song dissection. Shane's choice is "It's All Coming Back to Me Now" by Celine Dion and I chose "Too Good at Goodbyes" by Sam Smith. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   Follow and Support the Podcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/heauxliloquy Twitter: @Heauxliloquy ( https://www.twitter.com/heauxliloquy ) Website...

In this episode, I invited Life Coach and Kink Educator Wesley Toma onto the podcast to discuss mental health and relationships. Some of the topics discussed include the impact of trauma on a relationship, using kink as trauma therapy, and understanding triggers. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   Wesley was born into a fairly religious family and was taught that sex and sexuality are no...

In this episode, I invited my friend Tyrell onto the podcast to discuss age ranges. Some of the topics discussed include the disconnect between younger and older men, mentoring vs being sexual, and how all age differences are not always based in predatory behavior. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   Follow and Support the Podcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/heauxliloquy Twitter: @He...

In this episode, I invited Michelle Shehkinah onto the podcast to discuss rape culture. Some of the topics discussed include consent, sexual violence within relationships and the queer community, toxic masculinity, and proposal culture. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   Michelle Shekhinah is a mother and a survivor of familial sex trafficking that stemmed from her marriage. From her exp...

In this episode, I invited the Trans Deity Manny onto the podcast to discuss the concept of no fats, no fems, no old people. Some of the topics discussed include their experience with body neutrality and dissociating from the body, fatphobia in fashion and society's hatred of femininity and women. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   Manny is your universal Trans Deity. He is a sex coach,...

In this episode, I invited the divine podcaster De'Vannon onto the podcast to discuss Black fetishization. Some of the topics discussed include mental health within the Black community, hypnotherapy, and trauma and negative energy. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   De’Vannon Hubert is the author of Sex, Drugs, and Jesus, a memoir about his struggles with drug dealing, drug addiction, ho...

In this episode, I invited Michelle Shehkinah onto the podcast to discuss sex work. Some of the topics discussed include Michelle's experience with her ex-husband, emotional manipulation used for grooming into sex work, finding courage to escape bad situations, and celebrating ourselves. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   Michelle Shekhinah is a mother and a survivor of familial sex traf...

In this episode, I invited Edward Miskie onto the podcast to discuss online versus traditional dating. Some of the topics discussed include generational differences in dating options, how dating apps ruined dating, and the impact of social media and dating apps on community. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   Edward Miskie is a man of many talents. He is the author of "Cancer, Musical Th...

In this episode, I invited my friend Sharita onto the podcast to discuss her celebrity crushes. The crushes that we discussed are Jonelle Monae, LaKeith Stanfield, Anthony Mackie, Zendaya, and Dominic Fike. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   Sharita is here to help support you along your journey of self discovery and assist you with addressing past traumas while helping you with creating...

In this episode, I invited my friend Sin onto the podcast to discuss online versus traditional dating. Some of the topics discussed include how online dating is becoming the norm, our experiences of joining dating apps at a young age, instant gratification from online dating, and how we met. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   Sin is a very talented person. They are a creative that is mak...

In this episode, I invited my friend Shane onto the podcast to discuss dating requirements. Some of the topics discussed include our requirements for dating, accountability, and being authentic self within relationships. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   Follow and Support the Podcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/heauxliloquy Twitter: @Heauxliloquy ( https://www.twitter.com/heauxlil...