The Heauxliloquy Podcast

In this episode, I invited Life Coach and Kink Educator Wesley Toma onto the podcast to discuss kinks and fetishes. Some of the topics discussed include Wesley's life as a kinkster, foot worship, consent, and aftercare. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   Wesley was born into a fairly religious family and was taught that sex and sexuality are not things you do or talk about until you are...

In this episode, I invited my friend and fellow Sex Coach Nicole onto the podcast to discuss Black fetishization. Some of the topics discussed include not seeing enough Black people in sexual spaces, following the white script, narratives surrounding Black sexuality, and identity politics of Black sexuality. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   What comes to mind when you hear the word “pl...

In this episode, I invited my friend Tyrell onto the podcast to discuss ideal relationships. Some of the topics discussed include our person feelings related to the ideal relationship, our versions of healthy relationships, love languages, and being open to change. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   Languages for Modern Love - https://www.themodernlovelanguages.com/   Follow and Support...

The Heauxliloquy Podcast is a bi-weekly sex-positive podcast that discusses the variability of sexual expression. It provides a safe space for conversations related to sexuality. We dive deep into our individual perspectives and occasionally debate our differences. It is a space for understanding that we all have a different understanding of sexual expression and this is normal. The podcast places...

Get ready to spice up your love life with 3 expert sex coaches who are going live to answer all your burning questions—don't hold back, ask. Join us for an exciting online event where you can get your burning questions answered by three experienced sex coaches. Whether you're looking for tips to spice up your love life or need advice on navigating intimate relationships, our panel of experts is he...

Get ready to indulge in some sexy, sassy, and enlightening conversations as The Heauxliloquy Podcast brings you "Sexual Healing" - Live Join us for an electrifying online event - Sexual Healing w/ the Heauxliloquy Podcast! Get ready to dive deep into the world of intimacy, pleasure, and self-discovery. Our esteemed host, Vernon T. Scott, and his fabulous guests Nicole Waldron and Wesley Toma will...

Many of us have seen the dating competition shows, however, there seems to be limited shows for those within the queer spectrum. Is it possible to have Love is Blind with queer people? How about the Bachelor-X? What would it look like if there were to be a dating competition show for the queer community? In this episode we discuss topics which includes how a queer-facing dating competition show co...

In this episode, we will discuss some of the insecurities we have overcome throughout the years, including those that we are currently facing. Some of the topics included in this episode are overcoming body insecurities, sex-positivity, dealing with and navigating dating with personal insecurities, and how to love oneself more. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   About the Guests Adrian,...

In this episode, we will be doing a deep dive in to the concept of authenticity. Some of what we discussed includes the meaning of being intentional, building authenticity, following our pleasure, and the impact of authenticity and conforming within professional spaces. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   About the Guests Meliza is the Talkative Introvert. As the title suggests, she is ve...

In this episode, we will discuss the Netflix show How to Build a Sex Room. In this discuss we talk about our thoughts on the show, how to make an affordable sex room, making space to be sexual and sexy within our home and relationships, and what do we want in our sex rooms. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   About the Guests Nicole is a Sex Coach and Educator and a Bedroom Kandi Consulta...

In this episode, we will discuss virginity shaming. What fuels this need to shame others? Do you wish that you waited? What was your first experience like? Do you have any advice for any person who is struggling with the decision of whether or not they should take that step and engage in sex? Some of the conversation includes discussions about when did we lose our virginity, being pressure to lose...

In this episode, we will be discussing personal experiences of when our horniness got the best of us. Some of the topics included in this episode includes unplanned sexual encounters, our experiences with one-night stands, seeking validation through sex, and how to engage in hookup culture safely. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   About the Guests Adrian, also known as Daddy or Dre, is...

In this episode, we will be diving into our toy chests, our special drawers, our heaux bags. We discuss the resurgence of sex toys, using toys with your partner, and our current favorite toys. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   About the Guests Nicole is a Sex Coach and Educator and a Bedroom Kandi Consultant. She helps many find what they want, what their partners want, and how to figur...

This episode is a deep dive into the impact that reality TV has had on dating experiences. What trends have you known in your life? Is reality TV beneficial or toxic? Are there any impacts on sexual expression? In this episode we discuss the exploitation that happens in queer reality tv shows, the spreading of toxic behaviors via networks like Zeus, how queer people adhere to heteronormative behav...

In this episode, we will talk about our different love languages and our sex types. Some topics covered includes our conversation about our results from the quizzes, how to approach conversations of eroticism with partners, having the ongoing conversation about love languages and sex types, and the importance of becoming more aware of our inner selves. Subscribe today and join the conversation!  ...

In this episode, we will discuss the sex life of parents, personal stances of who is responsible for teaching children about sex, and what lessons did we learn from our parents. Some topics covered include healthy formulas and resources for parents to help their children, encouraging parents to expose themselves to different understandings of sexuality, sex education's impact on our youth's future...

In this episode, I invited Aunty Kandis onto the podcast to discuss race issues and dating. Some of the topics discussed include Kandis's personal experience with being fetishized, passing versus not passing, walking on thin ice when dating other black people, and hooking up with DL people. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   Follow and Support the Podcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com...

In this episode, I invited my friend Phortise onto the podcast to discuss Black fetishization. Some of the topics discussed include experiences of being approached by white men, conversations about the BBC, and a quick call back to human trafficking. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   Follow and Support the Podcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/heauxliloquy Twitter: @Heauxliloquy ( ht...

In this episode, I invited Anissa Hudak onto the podcast to discuss mental health and relationships. Some of the topics discussed include PTSD, difference between yoga and yoga therapy, and Anissa's Facebook group. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   Annisa Hudak is a Reiki Master and expert Yoga Therapist who has dedicated her career to helping people who have experienced significant tra...

In this episode, I invited my friend and fellow podcaster Demi Wylde onto the podcast to discuss rape culture. Some of the topics discussed include the importance of advocacy, how porn is fantasy and not real sex, comprehensive sex education and the media we consume as children, and the connection between rape culture and the law. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   Demitri (Demi) Wylde i...

In this episode, I invited Ann Bell, Love and Sex Coach, onto the podcast to discuss kinks and fetishes. Some of the topics discussed include myths about kinks and fetishes, how not to yuck someone's yum, and foot fetish the most popular fetish. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   Ann Bell started her wellness journey on the physical side as a massage therapist in 1998 and realized the me...

In this episode, I invited my friend Tyrell onto the podcast to discuss Black fetishization. Some of the topics discussed include boundaries of being fetishized, knowing when you are being fetishized, and POC educating white partners of their experiences. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   Race Play Ain't for Everyone - https://www.ebony.com/talk-like-sex-race-play-aint-for-everyone-911/...

In this episode, I invited Sex Therapist and Sexuality Coach Tara Galeano onto the podcast to discuss race issues and dating. The two of us free styled the conversation and had many laughs. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   Tara is an ASSECT certified Sex Therapist. She has recieved training in tantra, Shambhaya Yoga, and takes a trauma-informed approach to treatment. To learn more abou...

In this episode, I invited my friend Phortise onto the podcast to discuss kinks. Some of the topics discussed include Phortise's BDSM test results, exposure to kinks, kinks expressed with decomposed bodies, and the difference between how people express their sexuality. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   Follow and Support the Podcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/heauxliloquy Twitter:...

Age ranges Title: Bridging the Gap In this episode, I invited my friend Shane onto the podcast to discuss age ranges. Some of the topics discussed include age differences, power and control, having autonomy and growth with age differences, and the messaging in the media. Subscribe today and join the conversation!   Follow and Support the Podcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/heauxliloquy Twitte...