The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast

Special return guest, Matilde Crocini (my beautiful Queen!), rocks the socks off us all in her in-depth surgical analysis of narcissistic mother-in-laws. Unchecked, narcissistic mother-in-laws can create havoc and destruction in your marriage. Enjoy Mark and Matilde's ring-side-seat experiences of overcoming the destructive narcissistic traits and behaviours demonstrated in Matilde's mother. Get r...

Raw, real and delivered fresh from the octagon of my marriage today! Enjoy!   Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOW Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship? Coaching - Heroic Husbands Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NE...

It's a fun title that speaks to one of the most transformative healing perspectives any husband can bring into his marriage transformation journey. This little known trick establishes a way of communicating that can burn up years of resentment in a surprisingly playful way leaving you the path of least resistance to creating the marriage of your dreams. Let's begin.... Will you do The Heroic Husba...

Most husbands subconsciously think that exchanging marriage vows was the biggest commitment, yet that moment in the nervous system of our Queens doesn't count for sh1t compared with moment to moment embodied commitment. Deriving deep inspiration from a mountaineer's perspective on the miraculous powers of commitment, welcome to a direct challenge to up-level your commitment levels to a standard yo...

The cultural shaming of desire has created one of the most destructive unspoken forces poisoning marriages in the modern era.   Our primal body loves the radically alive feeling that desire in it’s broadest sense affords us, including but not limited to it’s expression in sexual intimacy.   Yet, the culturally conditioned collective mindset of humanity has been indoctrinated into believing desire...

A sad tragedy of modern living is that 99% of husbands are feeling lonely in marriage and life.  We men are missing the spiritual nourishment of genuine deep connection with other men and often our marriages are unwittingly taking a destructive hit because of this .  The subconscious boy energy patterns of neediness see our wives as the only source of love . This breeds the common catchphrase, “ca...

The great feminine emotional wound is fearing abandonment in love. Unwittingly most husbands trigger this wound in deeply emotional moments with their wives by trying to suggest a fix or solution to the problem . The counter-intuitive trick to fixing a shitty feeling emotional moment your wife is experiencing is by meeting her there fully in that moment. In this episode I share a list of high leve...

This episode comes off the back of an intimate relationship wisdom bomb dropped by Duey Freeman during my recent conversation with him.   In these four simple words, you will have access to a high-leverage means to meet your Queen’s core feminine desire for union in love and sooth the core feminine emotional wound of abandonment.   I’ve played with this four-word phrase with my Queen for weeks to...

In this episode we welcome back in Shea Fairbanks. Emerging from a childhood of immensely traumatising events, for years Shea would use alcohol to help numb the pain. Out of the ashes he would rise up to break free not only from alcoholism, but to create a life of epic freedom and uncommonly high levels of radical health and vitality. Shea is an Alcohol Free Performance Coach and passionate advoca...

I ate humble pie recently when parenting expert Dan Peterson came on the show. Entering the interview with Dan, I felt I had the parenting game in the bag. Dan’s reflections ripped this hood of arrogance off my eyes leaving me staring at major blind spots I had been unable to see.    In today’s episode I share personal experiences in breaking up my arrogant ass parenting style immediately after I...

Few men have lived with such radical masculine inner and outer freedom of expression than Alex McAfee. Enjoy this rip-roaring ride through his inner and outer world adventures as he details his process of navigating life’s chapters while remaining true to his authentic self.    It's the type of radical challenge we need set down to us as husbands to make sure we empty our fullest spiritual music i...

How you look is how you see.   Marriage transformation can only happen when you bring into direct question how your mind looks on at your marriage. From one habitual perspective, it creates a loop of only seeing one possible reality, thus recreating the same reality. This is only an issue if you don’t like the reality that’s showing up for you in marriage. Most guys don’t like their married life r...

Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOW Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship? Coaching - Heroic Husbands Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform: Community Platform - Heroic...

The experience of depression in marriage makes it a brutally painful and connection eroding experience for the couples involved. Yet, like every aspect of modern life, the experience we live out is determined by the social story we've been conditioned to believe . What if the story we've been told about our human experience of profound unrelenting sadness is the source of our cycle of disempowerme...

For fathers everywhere who struggle to get their kids to behave well and show respect, Dan Peterson is the medicine to cure all our parenting woes.   Dan specializes in helping adults who work with or have challenging children, develop strategies for their child to succeed in both the school environment and family setting. Dan wants to provide parenting tips for children with behavioural problems...

Think of attraction like two magnets. Held in one position, it’s almost impossible to get them to stay together without exerting immense force. Yet, within a quick change of position they are glued together when the inherent attractive forces line up correctly.   The Trash Can Metaphor lines the attractive forces between you and your Queen up. Period.   Know and understand this metaphor and you wi...

In this beautiful conversation you get to meet the brilliant James Bravelove.   James details the profound inner journey he had in re-establishing his bond of love with his wife after a brief period of separation. He speaks to the heart of the “boy energy” every single man brings to his marriage, and his initiatory journey to releasing this persona to step into Kingship in love and life. Be ready...

One of the most common issues husbands report is having a lack of confidence in knowing how to lead in marriage. We desire to inspire our women to trust us deeply but unwittingly fall short of what they need from us.    The tragedy is that in the not knowing how to lead, most husbands stop trying. The pain of trying and then failing to gain your Queen’s trust is the greatest pain we can experience...

In this episode we welcome in Justin Sunseri.   Justin is a trauma-informed therapist and the host of the Stuck Not Broken podcast. Justin believes the world needs a new understanding of mental health. One that's simplified, easily accessible for anyone and doesn't rely on abstract psychobabble.    Enjoy a super fun and deceptively profound deep dive conversation into how you can navigate your emo...

You have four tools in the creation of your marriage experience: thinking, talking, taking action and your emotional state that fuels it all. Thinking is arguably the most important of all these four universal creative tools.   Yet, the majority of husbands struggle in marriage because they have no awareness of how their own thinking is what is making a hell out of a potential heaven they could be...

In this amazing episode we welcome in Taylor Johnson. Taylor is an integrative sex coach for men and host of the Sex Upgraded podcast. We do a deep dive into how us husbands can consciously prepare the ground for the most amazing sexual connection and experience to show up in our marriages. Get ready for super potent insights and strategies to bring a blazing bush fire of passion back into your be...

Anxiety rates in women is statistically exceptionally high. Mix this with women living in the octagon of marriage, with overwhelming responsibilities, in a world bombarding us all with fear-inducing stimuli, mixed with the common spice of childhood trauma and you've got the perfect recipe for anxiety being a common place occurrence for husbands to face. Here's how you become a master in the art of...

In this episode we welcome in the brilliant Jeddy Azuma. With a decade of experience in Men’s Leadership and Empowerment, Jeddy is the founder and CEO of The Rising Man Movement. As a Guide, Mentor, and Coach, Jeddy has impacted the lives of thousands of men on a mission to initiate an entire generation of men into power and purpose-driven service. Despite his many roles in men’s work, Jeddy consi...

In this episode, I don't want to be unkind, but I can't afford to be unclear......and ultimately every husband listening in can't afford not to pay full attention to this message. These three statistics will rock the world of the husbands with the spiritual balls and readiness to getting radically honest with themselves with where they truly stand in marriage. Get ready for full flame challenge in...

Why the ultra common habit of husbands, lone-wolfing without support in marriage, makes total sense. Understanding why will change everything for you going forward! Let's begin..... Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOW Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transform...