The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast

It's the age old frustration of husbands with wives: Why can't she be more disciplined in her life? We feel frustrated when she doesn't have her shit together, and then feel more disconnected when she gets super disciplined. Today's episode does a deep dive into why this becomes such and issue within us men, and introduces the #1 way to positively influence her behaviour for the better! Let's begi...

In this episode we welcome in Duey Freeman. He deep dives into how to create profound connection when you come into contact with other human beings.  Duey is a sought after teacher, trainer, licensed therapist, and equine professional around the world. He has travelled to teach professionally in over 8 countries, has developed a practical attachment theory and human development theory that is taug...

Broken promises to be a better man tend to plague the landscape of most husband's married lives. We set great intentions, follow through for a couple of weeks, and then fall back into old patterns. This is one of the most corrosive patterns destroying our wives capacity to trust our leadership as husbands. Broken promises hurt our women like hell. Today's episode introduces key steps every husband...

Enjoy a sensational and truly profound conversation about mastering the dragon of sexual desire with Justin Patrick Pierce. Author, intimacy teacher, and founder of the Yoga of Intimacy , Justin offers workshops and private training for men and women around the world to help them overcome challenges in relationship, master the embodiments of sexual polarity, and pursue a life of spiritual depth al...

There is one masculine capacity that fires up our women's trust and sexual attraction for us more than any other capacity. When you learn to master this capacity, she will melt like butter in your hands on the altar of sexual bliss and devotional loving. Curious to know more?!!! Let's begin.... Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improve...

This episode we welcome back my beautiful Queen, Matilde, and her full flame fiery wisdom. This ended up becoming an extraordinary deep dive into empowering us Heroic Husbands to consciously lead our Queens during their sacred moon cycle, especially in their bleeding phase. Armed with a list of conscious and high-leverage strategies and perspectives, you will rapidly become the husband she brags a...

Enjoy this intense deep dive into reconnecting with your masculine unfuckwithable core strength and find a power of positive influence within an abusive relationship. It's a no BS, thought provoking perspective that's put forward that will not sit well with the politically correct mainstream views of such a situation. Yet, high conscious extreme ownership has never been mainstream!!! Let's begin.....

In this episode, we do a deep dive into how to set non-negotiable boundaries with disrespectful in-laws with Darren F Magee. Darren is a grounded, down to earth therapist with many years experience working with individuals, couples and groups providing counselling in Belfast. Practicing an integrative approach, he draws on Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Person Centred, Psychodynamic and Solu...

"Sugar or Shit with your pancakes sir?" asks your waiter. "Why the hell would I put shit on my pancakes?!!!" you respond with outrage. Yet, the great perceptual mistake ALL husbands make, has us serving SHIT (our unconscious emotional reactivity and the resulting verbal vomit) into our relationship space every day. And then we wonder why our wife doesn't love us anymore!!! This episode will go dee...

Enjoy Part 2 of a two-part porn addiction recovery series with Chris White. Chris White helps people who are addicted to, or struggle with their use of, porn and sex. In this episode, Chris explains the essential steps along the road to going beyond porn addiction and it's detrimental effects on self and marriage. After years spent working on his own recovery, in 2021 he began coaching groups and...

This Q&A special episode is a direct response to an amazing question posed by one courageous Heroic Husband listening in each week. His voice message went like this:   “Every time my wife and I argue about things, she has to bring up the last ten to twelve things I disappointed her on.  How do I respond to that, and how do I keep her on point for the disagreement we are having?” Well, this is...

Enjoy Part 1 of a two-part porn addiction recovery series with Chris White. Chris White helps people who are addicted to, or struggle with their use of, porn and sex. After years spent working on his own recovery, in 2021 he began coaching groups and individuals who are looking for a life free from porn or out of control sexual behaviours, and full of confidence, joy, and satisfaction. He has stud...

For millennia, men have come into their fullest masculine power with the support of other men.    Only when you have your core needs as the masculine King of your house met by other men, can you have the full strength needed to how space for the fullest power of your Queen to come through.    Her unboxable, untameable, unpredictable, unapologetic highest self needs your core to be rooted to the ce...

A raw and vulnerable opening up to recent intense marriage shifts I've been experiencing inside myself and then in conversation with my Queen. Tons of fears and backlash being embraced as I have doubled down my practice of relentlessly expressing my authentic truth in marriage. The underlying topic that emerges is the radical response-ability we always have as husbands for accepting we are the lea...

In today's episode, we welcome in Taylor Cantril. Taylor is a men’s group facilitator, dedicated athlete, fiancé, and has a day job managing pre-veterinary international travel programs for mostly American university students across eight countries. He grew up in the American Midwest and has been living in Chiang Mai, Thailand, for the last ten years. We go to the depths of importance for men of h...

This is a wonderfully raw and real conversation with Nic Gregoriades.   Nic is a men’s coach, 4th Degree Brazilian Jiu Jitsu Black Belt, author and podcast host at The Nic Gregoriades Show . Born and raised in Cape Town, South Africa, during the turbulent collapse of apartheid, Nic recognized at a young age that there was more to life than promised by the backward, small ideas of his country's cul...

Most marital online communications reek of same-sh!t-different-day mediocrity leaving wives feeling drained of any sense of true passion and aliveness.    As husbands, we unwittingly miss the enormous potential of messaging technology and then scorn the sexless and dead marriages we have created around us!    This episode aims to help you unleash the fullest potential connection and sexual passion...

In today's episode we welcome in Shea Fairbanks. Shea is a passionate advocate for men's health and wellness. He is a functional health coach specializing in a 4 pillared approach to health. He coaches clients to create strong habits, bodies, mindsets, and to consistently access the flow state.   With a background in CrossFit, nutrition coaching and performance breathwork, Shea uses his knowledge...

The standard nightly norm for most husbands is reaching bed time fit to collapse into the peace of unconsciousness. We’ve given our all during the day, so surely we’re allowed switch off the effort making needs of marriage and life!   Conscious Kings and Heroic Husbands think differently. They come to realise that this sacred moment is the most powerful moment of the whole day because it sets the...

Most husbands wake up sleepily and mindlessly enter the chaotic world of their wives, their kids, social media hearing bad news and checking emails. Everyone else’s agenda gets shoved at them before they have any chance of grounding themselves.  Any wonder overwhelm grows throughout the day, leaving most men exhausted by the evening, only fit for mindless scrolling, a few beers and bed.    Enter t...

This is exciting!!! In a brand new expansion of our podcast, we invite my beautiful Queen and Goddess Matilde in to be our sacred guest today! Matilde will intermittently guest and give us her high flame ideas and perspectives from a divine feminine point of view on diverse relationship topics.    In today’s episode, we speak about the process of saving our marriage from a serious cliff edge risk...

99% of husbands have a totally dysfunctional relationship with their anger. When they think they are expressing their anger with their wife, they are actually expressing unsafe aggression from pent up frustration. Consciously expressed anger is the most beautiful and trust-building emotions to master, yet it remains the most misunderstood in all of society with ruinous effects. If you want your wo...

In this episode you’ll meet Jeremy Cline. Jeremy Cline, is a career coach and the host of the Change Work Life podcast. He’s a property investor, and a lawyer who helps some of the wealthiest families on the planet. Deep soul searching witnessing how his long daily commute was eating up family time and his weekends being booked up doing the admin, he started asking was this enough for him as a man...

Three simple yet profound steps exist that have the power to transform your marriage in an insanely short period of time.  Vision multiplied by Identity multiplied by Decision create miraculous results when harnessed fully.   But what mysterious power do these three simple concepts possess? And more importantly, how do they transform the married lives of husbands with the balls to implement their...

In this episode we welcome Traver Boehm. Traver’s bio includes travelling around the globe protecting billionaires as a bodyguard in his 20’s — drinking shitty wine to ring in the New Year with Indian porters in Delhi, surfing waves the size of apartment buildings in Nicaragua, and dazzling Thai gamblers with how many punches to the face he could take fighting Muay Thai in Chang Mai. He has held t...