The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast

The male mid-life crisis caricature is a man who drop kicks his wife and family life , buys a sports car, begins living in his local CrossFit gym trying to hang out with cool people and finds the nearest twenty-year-old girl with father issues who wants to f!ck while feeling safely held. In this episode Mark argues the case that society would be infinitely better off if every husband experiences a...

We welcome in our third Marriage Transforming Hero from Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles, the badass masculine heart warrior Ty Humphries from Circle#1.    Lean in to this raw and radically honest heart sharing from a man whose practice of becoming at one with his inner demons has allowed him emerge powerfully into embodied masculine leadership in marriage.    His embodied wisdom from the hard yards...

The most catastrophic capacity modern husbands possess in marriage is the ability to minimise and normalise how bad things really are.  Listen in and wake up to finally noticing the inarguable signs that the house of your marriage may be unwittingly burning down.    All marriage transformation heroics starts with the hero of the story getting radically honest with where he and his marriage are tru...

We welcome in Andrew Grist, our second extraordinary heroic husband in our Marriage Transformation Heroes special series. Andrew takes us on a beautifully articulated journey into the depths of his deep inner work journey from over-coming his inner demons and vices to emerging victorious in the arena of marriage and heart warriorship with his sacred Queen. Don’t miss his impromptu rapping performa...

A Queen with a hurting heart sets a formidable gauntlet before her husband . Everything her nervous system communicates says, “rise into embodied Kingship or you will never gain access to my heart again.” In the majority of such cases, both the husband and the marriage burn up in the fire of her ferocious challenge to his mediocrity in love and connection. Yet, the brave masculine souls who rise t...

We welcome in real-life Marriage Transforming Hero Brendan Savage to share his radically authentic story of doing whatever was necessary to become a better husband and father. From his childhood cultural upbringing where emotions were savagely frowned upon and shamed to his learning how to face and embrace his inner demons and come out victorious in self-love, communication, intimacy and marriage....

Using inspiration from John Gottman, the badass revolutionary of marriage therapy research, Mark digs deep into three essential pillars to unfu!king whatever struggles you are experiencing in your marriage. The sharing went profound and deep into challenging you to reach deeper into your power than ever before as a husband and man . Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Rece...

We welcome in David Peralta to tell his inspiring story of saving his severely struggling marriage by reconnecting with his soul-centered purpose in life. This is a true heart warrior’s perspective of what it takes to battle through destructive inner demons by learning to face and embrace them head on. An inspiring story of what is possible for us as husbands and fathers if we have the courage to...

Resentment is the ultimate corrosive acid in love , which if ignored, relentlessly gnaws away at the foundations of your marriage. This episode will help you recognise signs of resentment and most importantly, provide a systematic conversational platform to reveal and heal this deadly enemy of loving connection.      Let’s begin….   Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Rece...

We welcome in the inspiring Thomas Pfanner and his heroic story of learning leadership in parenting under extreme circumstances . Having to seek legal aid to just hold his son in his arms two weeks after his birth to learning to deal with years of persistent resistance and kickback to his leadership as a father, Thomas would face an uphill battle to overcome all the odds and successfully be a grea...

What kills marriages is poor communication . 99.99% of poor communication involves three classic steps that create nothing but disconnection and mistrust. Conscious communication involves doing these three steps in exactly the opposite order! This episode gives you the complete Heroic Husbands conscious communication approach that husbands inside Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles are using to totally...

A positive mentality is essential to creating success in any arena. In the Octagon of marriage, mentality is crucial. Most husbands mentality in marriage unwittingly sets them up for inevitable and severe loss of love and connection . In this episode Mark reveals the single most effective mentality with which to approach your marriage…..but only if you truly want to become the Marriage Transformin...

Ignore what’s presented in this episode and your marriage is doomed to long-term struggle or ultimate failure. Integrate this episode’s wisdom and she’s guaranteed to open her heart forever more with you. Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOW Want the Quickest & Easiest Pa...

Get ready to enjoy a truly passionate conversation with the legendary Joey Odom from Aro on today’s episode.    Joey tells his heart-breaking stories of missed family memories because of getting stuck scrolling through meaningless stuff on his social media feed. Sound familiar?  This is a much-needed no-BS conversation between family men on what is truly at stake if we don’t wake up to the damage...

Part of a 2-part special series, this episode introduces you to ten epic techniques and strategies to get you out of your head and deeply into your animal body ready for wild sex with your Queen.    Most men struggle to switch their heads off during sex resulting in women being the first to lose interest in sex in long-term relationships most of the time. Stuck in your head, the sex for her is dea...

Tons of men around the planet often have the sexual experience of either being frustratingly too soft or prematurely ejaculating too soon. Unnecessary sexual shame with our inner critic beating the shit out of ourselves ensues, with us forming a love/hate relationship with having sex with our Queens. This episode shares one simple breathwork awareness and practice that will support you mastering y...

Mark reveals his eight personal reasons why marriage therapy is the last thing he would ever advise a man or couple to start doing in the hopes to save their marriage. Blunt, no-BS straight talking on what could be one of the most important potential decisions of your adult life. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Star...

The #MeToo movement awakened global awareness of the extraordinary number of women who have experienced sexual abuse . Yet very little is spoken of the immense struggle this widespread wounding creates in the private lives of married couples around the planet. Husbands doing their best to love but feeling like their best is never enough , while their Queens often never feel seen, heard or safe in...

Four untapped super powers lay dormant within you. Lying dormant, marriage will always be an unending struggle. Reactivated, these four super powers will have you rise to becoming the marriage transforming hero of your relationship. These are your 4 Masculine Archetypes: King, Warrior, Magician, Lover. Do you have the spiritual curiosity to activate them and reveal your greatest expressed power as...

Enjoy this riveting conversation with Wayne Boatwright detailing his profound journey of rehabilitation and healing before, during and after his six-year sentence in the notoriously brutal San Quentin prison.     From the depths of his hellish situation, Wayne tells his heroic tale of finding extraordinary ways to show up and father his children despite the obvious obstacle of being stuck in priso...

The outer hell of a failing marriage invites us men to attain our freedom looking elsewhere.  Some men will look outwardly gazing at all the potential freedom they could enjoy if they just got to fu!k away from their wives; some acting on this impulse, others leaving it in the unspoken fantasy realms.  Others look inside into the true source of all their suffering: their mind.    Great masculine s...

In this episode we welcome in Michael Hegarty. After a successful 20-year banking career, Michael went from career and income ending uncertainty , to find his purpose building his bespoke leadership coaching business around his unique gift to ‘see the greatness in others.’  The challenge of pursuing this massive career change was met whilst leading his family including four kids of school-going ag...

In this episode Mark shares on how a super intense conversation with his Queen would have classically ended in a marriage-ending style face-off if not for the practice of one key strategy: segment intending. This episode let’s you in on how to use this marriage transforming strategy to rejuvenate even the most subdued connection into an inferno of felt love and connection together . Will you do Th...

We welcome back in the amazing Four Arrows, guest speaker at the United Nations General Assembly 2023, to gift us sacred elder wisdom on how to show up more confidently as a man in marriage and life.   Deep wisdom on harnessing the power of your mind to reach levels of performance and courage you never thought were accessible for you before.   His ending story detailing his experience undergoing a...

One of the greatest struggles in marriage for nearly every husband on the planet is trying to figure out how to create deep intimacy . This is especially true when, the further into marriage you go, the more disconnection and stagnation there is in most marriage experiences. So how is the well-intentioned regular guy in marriage meant to suddenly figure this challenge of creating deep intimacy in...