The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast

You have only one enemy to defeat in marriage. When you defeat this one enemy you will have access to the infinite game of limitless freedom and fulfilment in all areas of marriage, parenting and life. With resentment and regret festering in the background of most marriages, no husband can afford to ignore this message . Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and R...

Our unconscious cognitive distortions ruin our marriages. They drive our Right-vs-Wrong righteousness in arguments where we might win the fight, but lose the marriage . The masculine practice is knowing not every thought is created equally. Some thoughts are helpful to follow. The majority, our cognitive distorted thoughts, are destructive to follow. This episode will put you in full mental contro...

Attachment theory rocks!   Knowing which attachment style your nervous system has empowers you to know how to move forward in marriage with clarity, confidence and above all, compassion for both yourself and your wife.   Listening will help you learn which attachment style you and your Queen are. This episode will become one of the most empowering 60min investments in self-growth of your adult lif...

Most well intentioned husbands struggle to make progress because they unwittingly do the same habitual things MORE OFTEN, hoping this will improve their marriage. This doesn't work. Ever. This one simple mindset hack will cut through all your confusion of what works and what doesn’t, leaving you in the driving seat to marital success. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-As...

Generative Questions help snap your marriage conversations out of Same-Sh1t-Different-Day mode into passionate soulful connection where both of you feel on fire together. These simple questions will be amongst your highest leverage tools to transform your marriage with ease. No husbands should be without them!!! Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A...

Jason DiFulvio joined Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles under a year ago. Just after quitting a dysfunctional relationship with alcohol and with his marriage hanging by a thread, Jason aggressively attacked his deep men’s work path. His obsessive focus on finding growth opportunities to become a happier man and more emotionally integrated husband for his Queen, makes Jason’s marriage transformation th...

Testosterone is the most beautiful juice driving masculine confidence and clarity. Without sufficient levels of it, we go limp in and out of the bedroom. Here is the simplest natural way to increase your testosterone levels helping you lead your Queen with masculine fire and passion . Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Im...

Dave Nelson is one of the regular guys of Heroic Husbands Men’s Circle #3 committed to doing irregularly deep inner work to become a better man and husband . Listen in to Dave’s inspirational story taking his marriage from the cliff edge desperation of his Queen wanting to end it all after years of his failed promises, to Dave taking extreme ownership to win his sacred Queen’s trust and heart back...

Marilyn Monroe was unapologetically feminine: untameable, unboxable, unpredictable and at home with her sexual fire and passion. Hence, she was so damn attractive to powerful, strong, masculine men. Women embodying unapologetic feminine energy challenge men to find their masculine core….or die trying! For husbands who want to be strong in their masculine core, sit back and enjoy this epic episode!...

There exists a magical question that if asked often enough and the wisdom of it’s answer acted upon, will transform everything in your marriage and life. Warning: It takes giant masculine spiritual balls to answer this simple question and have the courage to act on it’s answer, again and again.    If you think you have what it takes , let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Ass...

A major frustration for most husbands is his wife’s lack of trust in his leadership.     Your masculine core clearly sees the problem at Point A, you establish a path to a better future at Point B, but she gives you irrational kickback refusing to budge from Point A.  Or if she follows your lead to Point B, she does so grudgingly with an omnipresent readiness to hit you with “I told you so!” if yo...

A ton of husbands are suffering the pain of not knowing how to hold space for their wives sadness and depression. Not knowing how to do so effectively is unnecessarily killing happiness in a massive number of marriages.  This episode details your path to becoming the single most healing presence in your wife’s life journey as a human being. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage S...

No-BS, Zen-like statements that cut to the point are potent tools. They bring you from the outer chaos of the battlefield of married life to instantaneous inner clarity knowing what to do next. ​ In Heroic Husbands Men's Circles we call these statement our Masculine Mantras. Enjoy 10 of the most powerful Masculine Mantras to unlock your infinite potential as a masculine leader. Will you do The Her...

We welcome in Eivind Skjellum to introduce his brilliant 5D Man Lifestyle approach which helps men to awaken their heroic impulse within.   Best known for his work in masculine archetypes, Eivind’s new exciting 5-Dimensions framework is at the leading edge of masculine thought leadership. Get ready for a revelatory ride learning how to embody Clarity, Courage, Creation, Connection with their catal...

Husbands are meant to be solid oak trees. Husbands need to treat their wives as sublimely beautiful flowers. Your understanding of this energetic distinction is tested every time your wife seeks your praise and validation. Get it right, marriage is easy . Get it wrong, marriage is hard . Don’t skip this episode! Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A...

The main reason us husbands are unnecessarily suffering in marriage is that nobody taught us the most important rule of the game of masculine-feminine attraction. Without Knowing the #1 Most Important Masculine Rule in Marriage, you will never enjoy the experience of marriage.   If you're ready to become a legendary player in the game of marriage, this episode's for you. Let's begin.... Will you d...

As humans, we have a deep psychological need to feel validation. Husbands subconsciously try to get this need met by their wives in ways that unwittingly repulses their feminine core . This episode simplifies the battle-field with the one strategy every husband needs to know. Let's begin. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement P...

There is a secret code to becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship.    It involves embodying three simple to understand and integrate leadership characteristics. If you want to eliminate stress, struggle and stagnation and start winning BIG in married life, then buckle up and enjoy! Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Pe...

Your Queen can only trust you when you are an embodied Mountain in the Storm. Shadow Work is where boys become men, and men become Kings. If you are in the octagon of marriage and desire to live and die without regret, this episode is a must. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment...

A wife cheating can be a brutal blow for any man. The fog of hurt, blame and shame blinds the path forward. This episode brings radical no-BS clarity as to how you must approach this challenge if you desire to rebuild an awesome marriage built on rock solid trust and unshakeable respect. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast...

Us magnificent men have been wrongly conditioned into believing marriage is a finite game. This leads to men relating to their wife as a ball on chain and marriage becomes Same-Sh1t-Different-Day. Yet, when men realise the rules of transforming marriage into an infinite game, everything changes for the better…forever! Married life becomes a blank canvass where life just keeps getting better with b...

Being authentic and real is the heart essence of mans search in life. But WTF does being authentic actually mean? Until you have radical clarity on what a term means, your brain has no idea how to bring it to life. This episode simplifies authenticity in a way that will become the master key to creating the most amazing marriage and life you ever dreamed of. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic H...

Jak Houghton is our latest Marriage Transformation Hero from Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles. Jak leads with radical transparency on overcoming his initial intense emotional struggles to surfacing as a masculine force to be reckoned with in marriage and parenting. He drops practical wisdom bombs throughout that will inspire you to your next level. Enjoy a humorous and emotional rollercoaster convers...

These ten high leverage romantic gestures are made to give the maximum Return-On-Investment for the least amount of time input. No more excuses. These simple romantic gestures take on average 1-2mins each, and are tried and tested in the arena of marriage. If you want a roaring bushfire of love in your marriage , starting using these is a great place to start.  Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroi...

100% of men entering this work are conflict avoidant.  Thus, 100% of men entering this work are not getting what they want in life and marriage.  These three simple steps will help you unlock the doors to experiencing a married life of infinite expansion, connection and joy for you and your Queen forever more. A big, BOLD promise that’s backed up by the extraordinary results every husband who uses...