The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast

Father-to-child relating is hard enough . Husband-to-wife relating is even harder . Husband-to-wife-to-challenging-child relating is a family man’s idea of hell! Here, Heroic Husband Men's Circle member Mike gets coached in how to begin mastering the art of becoming a grounded and heart-centred father in one of the toughest married life challenges. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Ma...

GREAT NEWS! Arguably the most powerful communication tool to de-escalate your Queen’s irrationality is the simplest tool in the world for regular guys like you and I to use. It’s called labelling. It's insanely simple yet ridiculously effective in the Octagon of marital conflict.   Let's begin..... Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Imp...

You meet the brilliant Peter Levine in this special guest episode. Mark recognises Peter as one of the most influential teachers on his healing journey to reclaiming his authentic voice and power in marriage and life. Sharing his personal journey to heal his severe childhood trauma, Peter is a river of insights helping you move forward with hope and courage no matter what has happened in your past...

Sexual shame in men is the most underestimated negative influence that kills intimacy in marriage long-term. Here Mark coaches Duane through his issue with sexual shame and getting what he wants in deep intimacy with his Queen. A short episode packed with immensely powerful insights and strategies to set your sexual dance on fire! Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessm...

In this episode we welcome in Tom Crate.   Tom attacked his three-month Heroic Husbands 1-1 coaching deep work with ferocious intentionality . His commitment brought about an immense inner healing and reconnection with his radical aliveness and authenticity …..and of course a beautiful marriage transformation as a bonus! Here's the story of what happens when a regular guy commits to doing irregula...

In this special episode, Heroic Husbands Men’s Circle member Andrew, brings a question every husband on the planet wants the answer of : “How do I bring a consistent energy of aliveness, cutting out the highs and lows , into my life and my family home for those I love the most on a daily basis ?” The answer is the Playbook you need to bring unlimited radical aliveness and freedom loving Wild Man e...

Most husbands on the marriage transformation path are doing their best but struggling to make real change happen . Until you make this one crucial change in approach, your Queen will be repulsed by your best efforts. Making this one simple shift in your approach, you become like two magnets who endlessly struggle to attract, then one magnet turns round and BINGO! Radical attraction naturally happe...

Nothing in marriage is more common than a husband stuck in his head. Nothing in marriage is more repulsive to a wife than a husband stuck in his head. An over-thinking, stuck-in-his-head husband is one of the primary causes of divorces. This ONE simple practice, changes all that in 10 seconds flat! Virtually no other practice has a greater marital Return-On-Investment than this one! Let’s begin…....

Talking about sex with their wives is one of the toughest relationship challenges husbands face.    Passing Hell Week in Navy SEAL training is easy in comparison! If you struggle with this, it’s not your fault and you’re not alone. This episode gifts you the one secret mindset shift every husband needs to enter sex life conversations with natural ease. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self...

96% of the time you can predict the outcome of a conversation based on only the first three minutes of the interaction! Introducing the “Sinking Ship Back to Port” Game. Gamify your arguments to become a master in the art of conflict de-escalation. It’s easy. It works. And it’s available to you NOW if you've 5mins to spare! Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and...

On your road to being a better husband you will have THIS ONE distinctly uncomfortable experience with your Queen many times. If you do not expect it or understand it when it happens, you risk losing all hope in your marriage. If you are expecting it and understand it’s sacred meaning, you can navigate any storm and build an amazing marriage. Thus, expecting and understanding this one experience i...

Our humble eyes can kill or cure our marriage struggles. One attacking or avoidant glance kills intimacy. One loving soft direct eye gaze reconnects and starts rebuilding her trust in you. This super practical 5-minute lesson will help you unleash the connection superpower that lies in your eyes. Let's begin..... Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Person...

For fathers who find parenting difficult and challenging at times , Dan Peterson is the medicine to cure all our parenting woes. In Dan’s first episode on the podcast, he taught us the simple 3 Pillars approach to consciously parenting challenging children . It became one of the most listened episodes ever, so we had to get him back on! In this special episode, Dan coaches members of Heroic Husban...

With no training of your mind and how it works , it’s almost impossible not to have major struggles relating with your Queen in deep intimacy. Thinking, talking and taking action are our universal life creating  tools . The greatest skill you must develop is knowing how to consciously decide which thoughts to follow and which to disregard. This is how you develop Kingship level of mastery in this...

Your mindless scrolling hurts your Queen’s heart. Your “just-a-glance” thinking hurts your Queen’s heart. Both kill your marriage . Marriages fly high with phones on airplane mode . Armed with these 3 easy-to-implement ideas , you will easily become her Hero of Presence again! Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvemen...

This 5-min high flame episode empowers you to become an unstoppable force on your marriage transformation journey. The 3 Pillars of Hope add the nuclear power plant of energy driving you forward to get what you want. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOW Want the Quickest &am...

These 4 relationship sins haunt the background of all struggling marriages. No shame needed . The ancient root of the word “sin” simply means “to miss the mark”.   This episode helps you see where you are missing the mark and how to re-aim so you hit the marriage bullseye! Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Pl...

Introducing Heroic Husband Habits! Short 5min blasts of high leverage habitual ways of thinking, talking and taking action to become the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship. Have you had moments in marriage when no matter what you say, nothing lands? Moments when your best intended words drive your Queen into worse moods? 90% of our messages are communicated through body language. More...

According to ex-Navy SEAL commander Jocko Willink, few leadership principles are as solid as High Ground. In a battlefield, High Ground literally refers to accessing the highest terrain available with view of the battlefield. As most marriages can feel like a battlefield at times , Jocko’s a good guy to seek advice from. This episode unpacks how you can use this simple perspective to become the tr...

Marriage transformation can be a brutal spiritual dog fight requiring of you the deepest levels of resilience ever asked off you as a man. Imagine an emotional engine giving you an infinite supply of forward momentum to transform your marriage and life? Imagine no matter how black the situation feels, you had the constant power to drive forward to a better future. This episode tells you exactly ho...

Sexual fire dies in the majority of marriages. So often that the most people assume loss of sexual desire is an unavoidable part of marriage. Yet in a small percentage of marriages, the fire burns brightly no matter how many years pass. This is their secret revealed. Let's begin.... Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? S...

If there’s one thing you need to know, it’s that journaling is your secret weapon in winning the battle to save your marriage. Regular journaling isn’t worth a damn. This episode introduces you to the World’s 7 Best Marriage Saving journaling exercises proven to bring epic results. Let’s begin…. Access Your FREE “The 7 Most Powerful Journaling Exercises to Transform Your Marriage” PDF NOW! Will yo...

Andrew Briggs came on to speak about his expertise in health and fitness.   What then happened was one of the most inspiring conversations Mark has experienced since beginning the podcast. Andrew tells his captivating story of heroically overcoming the childhood experiences of not having his father present, having his face savagely mauled by a neighbours dog and experiencing repeated sexual abuse....

Setting up a Sacred Space is the highest leverage action you can take to help you transform your marriage and entire life. CEOs, billionaires, social reformers, world leaders, military commanders rise before those in their world awake to set their mind and body up to win . Success leaves signs behind. 60mins every morning over 365 days gives you 9.5 WORK WEEKS OF TIME in one year to train your min...

Get ready to listen to an early legend in the Heroic Husbands Movement , Chris Williams. Chris has faced and addressed issues of mental, emotional, and physical abuse, recognizing the harm caused by his actions . Through introspection and a commitment to change, Chris has embarked on a journey of personal growth and redemption. Despite his past shortcomings, Chris’s dedication to becoming a better...