The Hard Or Soft Show

On this weeks episode we talk with @LiquidandLeather about her experience being in kink, are men good at planning dates, @SexWithAshley saying men should hire sex workers instead of dating and then Tahoe gets tickled to submission?? Tune in now and head to our Patreon for bonus content! Socials: Liquid: @LiquidAndLeather on Instagram and Twitter Skip: @SkipFromBK on Instagram and Twitter Loon: @Ki...

OMG!!! This episode!!!!! @XDarlingNicky and @TineeBadass sat with us and ask why we dont like showing the hammer when its soft to a new joint, why its okay for guys to fart around they chicks but its not okay when women do it, are BBLs going out of style, body types women like..and thats just the first 20 minutes!!! There are so many laughs in this episode and then Nicky shows us how to play with...

This Week we welcome DareRule from The Oprah Rose Show and Tahoes Best Friend Traum to discuss if was Tahoe sexually assaulted? Tune in as he tells his story which then leads into a few other stories by the cast and do men desire a "soft Life"? This one got too real. Socials: DD - @DareRule on Twitter and IG Traum - @DJTraumaNYC on Twitter and IG Tune into the @OprahRoseShow on all streaming platf...

Welcome back to Part Two of this weeks episode featuring Kasha Vanessa (@Au_Natural38) and @Lekurokami as we get into the hard, the soft and why Kahxme is attracted to babymommas? Lets Go! Socials Find Kasha Vanessa on IG and Twitter at @Au_Natural38 Find LekuroKami on IG and Twitter at @LekuroKami REXMD - RexMD.com Use code "HardOrSoft" to get a starter pack of viagra Go To RexMD.com/HardOrSoft t...

On this weeks episode Tahoe hands over the reins of the show to Kasha Vanessa (@Au_Natural38) and she takes them through a myriad of super deep topics ranging from parenting as a sexual person with autistic children, clitoral squirting and male vulnerability and thats just the first part! Tune in this Thursday as it really gets nasty when we drop part Two of the episode and talk the hard, the soft...

This week we welcome Tahoe's cohost of So Shameless Podcast @MsDajahBelle and her man Gunna to talk about their relationship, their experience at the play party and Tahoe's hesitance to move forward with certain aspects of his play life with his girlfriend. Loon also sits in to discuss a moment that Tahoe might've went too far and then Gunna has an interesting proposition for his lady. This one fe...

Basking in the aftermath of his first solo play party Tahoe speaks to Sir Marvelous, his sub Syphon and The Naked Trumpeter about the experience, then speaks on his first Topping session with a listener, asks the guys about their technique they use in approaching a person they're interested in without scaring them away and asks Syphon "who bares more of the responsibility in teaching their partner...

On this episode Tahoe finally admits that he does not enjoy eating vagina and asks if its a sexual act that he doesn't like, should he consider not doing it? Then we talk doing anal for your partner, sex on the beach , Maxs journey as a trans man (LOVED THIS STORY) and becoming a porn director. Marley discusses her journey into doing porn, Tahoe is greased up in baby oil while doing a 30 Day pussy...

Weeee'ree baaaccckkkkk! This episode was a whole mess lmao from asking what season is the best to have sex, stopping your nut to please your partner, and... is vabbing really a thing???? Then we talk glory holes, couples tryna bag Tahoe and Tahoe says he is TERRIFIED of what is about to happen at his play party. Listen in to find out why...Enjoy!! Our Next event is a sea side themed Play party cal...

Welcome Back! On this episode we are on location at our play party space @SuciaNYC to talk the culture of play parties, the do's and don'ts, the myths and misconceptions and the thoughts men have regarding swinging and/or performing in spaces like that in front of people. These guys were really good at speaking on the male experience, the anxiety, the jealousy and the thoughts that come along with...

Bruh..This episode has me at home with several ice packs and a tube of icyhot! @Domina_Katarina and her friends jumped ME!!! lmaooo Nah i had a great time, possibly the most fun ive ever had on an episode of any podcast before. Who knew fetish wrestling would be so fun?! This is definitely an episode you want to go watch on Youtube right after you listen to it. All i got to say now is...Who's Next...

This week we are joined by Hope Giselle, The Naked Trumpeter and LekuroKami, to talk how many times a week they would like to have sex, making the sex completely about your partner, what to do when your partner is horny but you aren't, and then we ask what the community wants us to do with black cisgender hetero men that havent done "the work"...this one got really intense but we wanted to represe...

Whew! This episode was alot 😩! We invited pleasure enthusiast Sage The Flame, and podcasters Funsize T and Iamemez from the Empty Thoughts Podcast to talk the most inappropriate places they've had sex, women's fascination with getting head from guys and never actually having intercourse, what foreplay looks like to them and how important it is...or isn't, and what trash sex means to them. This on...

On This episode @MouseJones, @DomMeSteph, and @IamPapafrfrtho talk a little skat play, why Mouse and Steph arent into 3sums, comparing toxic masculinity to racism, fisting bootyholes, and then we ask the question...can polyamory kill the main relationship? This episode was absolutely NUTS. Enjoy!!

On This Episode Tahoe welcomes @PvssyPoet__TheGoddess @TheOGBlackman and @iAmPopula to discuss what exactly a good sex life entails to them, ppl making too much noise in the bedroom, trying to get too freaky with a massage therapist, and we get some amazing poetry from The goddess herself...Enjoy!

What an Episode!! This week Tahoe welcomes @SkipFromBK, @DontCallMeMargee and @TheComedian._ to talk feeling sexually violated by a woman as a man, the first time a woman took it to the nether region, what to do in a 3sum if you climax too fast and then Tahoe reads some submissions from the guys former lovers in a new segment called Dick Yelp. @DontCallMeMargee demonstrates how to slap a man sexua...

Aw Man! This episode @KingLoonThe1st joins Tahoe to welcome back @TheNakedTrumpeter, and Courtney of @TheSpicyStudios to talk about the most fun times they've had during sex, circle jerking, bukkakees and how to bag a girl at the next pool party. Courtney tells us a few stories from her show and then we ask what can we all do to make our sex lives better. Enjoy!! Follow the show on Twitter and Ins...

Welcome Back! On this weeks episode we welcome @LamaBean @LekuroKami and sexpert Michelle Hope (@Mhsexpert) to talk common misconceptions men and women have about each other regarding sex, the wildest porn categories we've never told anybody we have watched, sex being mental and the impact of the Roe Vs Wade decision on the country. This one felt like home! We are back baby!! Follow the show on Tw...

This week we have our first live studio audience join us with @BondageQueenTana, Tahoe and Tane to talk masturbation month, bondage, race and slave play, Male contraception, code switching, and wait a minute...is tahoe becoming a closet cuck? Tune in and make sure to watch the youtube for the full episode and behind the scenes footage!!! Enjoy! Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir touchingbodymindands...

Whew! What an episode! This week we welcome sex-pert @DirtyLola and sex creative @OmariTheRebel and ask about their most unexpected sexual experiences, having too many partners at a play party, dating app etiquette for couples, and then Tahoe challenges Omari to a game for the Sex God crown. So many gems in this, so many laughs..we hope you enjoy what we are doing on this one...Enjoy! Find DirtyLo...

This Week we welcome Bear and Fifi (@Bear. N.Fifi) a polyamorous couple that does intimacy coaching to talk about their experience being poly with Tahoe and Tané (Tahoes Girlfriend). Tahoe voices many frustrations going on in his relationship and the two reveal some differences they are having that could prove to be relationship ending for them.. Find Bear and Fifi on instagram at @Bear. N.Fifi or...

This week we welcome back @KingLoonThe1st and Marley Moore (@MarleyDaBootyy) to talk Tahoe's new app idea Uber-Beats, our most embarrassing sexual moments, our sex languages, being denied sex and Marley wants to know if men are ready to accept the fact that women like sex too. It's been a long couple of weeks I hope you guys are ready to laugh! Enjoy! Find Loon on Instagram at @KingLoonThe1st Twit...

Welcome back you guys...this episode is a deep one as Tahoe speaks about the future of the pod and then talks to a relationship coach for men (@AskMsCassandra) about his feelings revolving a breakup he is going thru with his cohost. Then he and his girlfriend sit with intimacy coach @WickedSirNik/@Lusty. Boi. Sir to discuss how to bring the fire back into the bedroom after such a traumatic experie...

The legend herself Miss B Nasty joins the guys for an awesome episode of laughs after laughs. Tahoe presents a brand new sex god game & somebody tries on a brand new face toy. Hearing the life & stories of Miss B Nasty really makes this episode one of the best. Enjoy!! Miss B Nasty - @Themissbnasty Tahoe - @Tahoe_tv ADs: Native - Nativedeo.com/hardorsoft (Use Code Hardorsoft) Dipsea Stories - www....

Well what can we say. The wonderful Niema Cream brought us some great entertainment this episode. Pregnancy sex mixed with some anal play, and Tahoe being shocked watching Niema in Miami. Enjoy!! Niema Cream - @Missniemacream Tahoe - @Tahoe_tv ADs: Native - Nativedeo.com/hardorsoft (Use Code Hardorsoft) Dipsea Stories - www.dipseastories.com/hardorsoft (Use Code Hardorsoft) Like A Kitten - www. Li...