The Hard Or Soft Show

The Hard Or Soft Show

Tahoe and Loon speaks to people in the sex community about things men like and don't like about sex in an effort to learn, educate and broaden mens horizons around exploring themselves and their partners desires, wants, and needs.

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The Hard Or Soft Show

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Education

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www.thehardorsoftshow.com

Latest episode

Oct 21, 2026

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Episodes

Punisher Tells ALL: Cassie, Diddy, Freak Offs & the Truth About His Penile Implant 21.10.2026

Nut Navy ROLLLL CAALLLLL!!!!!!! This week on The Hard or Soft Show , we welcome Punisher , the male exotic dancer and former escort whose involvement with Cassie Ventura and Sean “Diddy” Combs became part of one of the most talked-about scandals in entertainment. Punisher opens up about his relationship with Cassie, how they first connected, Diddy’s alleged involvement, and what unfolded during th...

Why Women Fake it: What Ppl Get Wrong About Sex & Pleasure Feat @Doc_Izzy 14.10.2026

Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAALLLLL!!!!!!!!! Are men really satisfying women in the bedroom, or are they just assuming they are? Why do so many women struggle to climax during sex, and how do you tell your partner they’re not getting the job done? This week on The Hard or Soft Show , we’re joined by special guest @doc_izzy for a hilarious, revealing, and surprisingly educational conversation about sexual p...

When They're Used To Something BIGGER 😳 I Sex, Intimacy and Compatibility 01.10.2026

Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLL!!!!! This week on Hard or Soft , Tahoe, Courtney and Yesssterday are back — and somehow we go from Tahoe finding out his daughter is sexually active to wondering why MEN don’t have their own version of an OB/GYN. 😭 First, we get into love and vulnerability. Have you ever wanted to say “I love you” but stopped yourself? Even worse…have you ever finally said it and got...

How To Ride, Survive a Bad Sex Life And Keep The Spark Alive Feat @FantasyFitnessMD 23.09.2026

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAALLLLLL!!!!! This week on Hard or Soft , we’re joined by Toni (@fantasyfitnessmd) of Fantasy Fitness , and somehow we manage to turn relationship advice, sexual chemistry and riding lessons into one completely unhinged conversation. 😂 We start with something every long-term couple eventually has to deal with: How do you keep conflict from destroying the sexual attraction you...

BDSM, Kink & Open Relationships- The Rules Nobody Teaches You 16.09.2026

Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAALLLLL!!!!!!! This week on Hard or Soft , we’re joined by Dre for a deep dive into BDSM, kink culture, play parties, relationships and the history behind a community that a lot of people participate in — but may not fully understand. And somehow we start with Dre explaining why he’s out here using BOXING GLOVES to massage booty. 😂   From there, Dre takes us into the world of r...

What Makes Someone REALLY Good In Bed? Confidence, Anxiety & Communication Feat @SkipFromBK 09.09.2026

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CALLLLLL!!!!!!!! This week on Hard or Soft , Courtney gets an unexpected business opportunity when a fan propositions her for feet pictures — and somehow that’s only the BEGINNING of where this episode goes.  We get into why American women seem to love British men , which leads Tahoe, Yesssterday and Skip to announce their upcoming trip to London to find out whether English wome...

Our Traumas Can Determine Our Kinks Feat Daddy Doyenne 02.09.2026

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLL!!!!!!!! This week Tahoe and Yesssterday sit with lifestyle domme and kink educator Daddy Doyenne to talk why they dont date straight men, the uncomfortablity Tahoe feels as a straight man being tip toeing around LGBTQIA and Cis womens traumas, should straight ppl and LGBQTIA segregate to maintain the peace, the origin of Daddys "demon" persona, what Daddys experience...

Great Sex vs Sexual Chemistry: What's The Difference? I Cheating, Pleasure & Bedroom Confessions Feat Kelly Moonstone 27.08.2026

Nut Navy ROLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!! This week on Hard or Soft , music artist and producer Kelly Moonstone joins the crew for a completely shameless conversation about pleasure, cheating, sexual chemistry and what men and women REALLY expect from each other in the bedroom. Why do some people feel guilty after pleasuring themselves? And we tackle an even crazier question: Can cheating ever actual...

Does Size Really Matter? Sex Symbols, Bedroom Confidence & Wild Confessions 20.08.2026

Nut Navy ROLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!! This week on Hard or Soft , the crew gets into a wild conversation about attraction, sex appeal and what really makes someone unforgettable in the bedroom. Are Black men too critical of Black women? How many people have probably pleasured themselves while thinking about you—or looking at your pictures? And the question nobody knew we needed answered: Is Taho...

I Have A Freaky Side That I Cant Tell My Wife About 13.08.2026

Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAAALLLLLL!!!!!!!! This week we welcome musician Denhim to the couch as we talk Courtney listening to True Crime pods and of course Tahoe finds a way to relate it to secks, not being able to tell your partner about your kinks, Tahoe being the face of men getting their groceries eaten and being hit on by his ghey fans, whether its going too far for him and why ghey men try straigh...

Why Am I Always Being Judged For Being Secksual?? 06.08.2026

Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLL!!!!! This week Courtney rejoins the cast as we talk people lying on their secks game, advocating for micro peens, Tahoe gifts Yesssterday with his first male secks toy, when should women pull out their secks toy on a guy, the proper way to use anull beads, Tahoes wife surprises him with a game, Courtneys new and improved secks life, how to properly hit the different...

Are White Men Easier For Black Women To Date? 30.07.2026

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLL!!!!!!! This week we welcome Zeema of the Honestly Tho podcast to talk her getting favors and offerings from white men, dating white men and why she thinks it is easier to date them than black men, being turned off by a man after pegging him and why she feels that being pegged isnt for "straight' men, the difference in beauty standards for white women vs black wome...

343. Damn My P*ssy Grew Alot!! Feat Goddess Jessi 22.07.2026

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLL!!!! This week we sit with The Sweet Love Sanctuary's own Goddess Jessi to talk balancing your energy, where Goddess Jessi originally met Tahoe and Loon, the definition of the word "Goddess", defining the Sweet Love Sanctuary, living a polyamorous lifestyle and Goddess Jessi's liberation, the reaction that Goddess Jessi receives when she lets potential partners know...

342. You Can Fk Her But NO CUDDLING! Feat @NYCThickums 16.07.2026

Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLL!!! This week we welcome @NYCThickums to talk women loving boyfriend d*ck, trying to be with someone with a smaller member and the adjustments she tried to make to make it work, testing the bewtyhole to see if men were with bewty play, the connection between mens ego and secks, what pp get from swapping partners or letting them have secks with other ppl, being open t...

341. Is A Little Delulu Necessary? Feat @TheRealMarkel 08.07.2026

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!! This week we welcome Markel Logan Coleman (@TheRealMarkel) to talk not telling the truth in the bedroom, how the miltary shaped some of Markels personality traits, having an affair on his then boyfriend with his now husband, understanding why some ppl cheat, allowing your partner to step out for freaky tithings, and Markel takes over the show to ask Loon a...

340. Being Gay is Actually Mad Lit Feat Mr Dominus 01.07.2026

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CALLLLLLLL!!! Strap yourselves in TIGHT because this episode is a DOOZY!! Mr Dominus steps in and takes Tahoe and Loon for the ride of their lives as we talk poly and hierarchical relationships and whether gay men suffer from the same ego/control and jealousy that staright men go through in their relationships. Trying to explain to your partner that you needing other ppl has noth...

339. Why Cant More Women Be Like Daphne Joy Feat Marley Moore 24.06.2026

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!! This week we welcome an old friend of the show, content creator and corn star Marley Moore, to talk Tahoes lil man not being present, Daphne Joys effect on men since shes been doing interviews, why women dont like Daphne Joy, Marleys early retirement and getting back into the corn game, how corn has changed, Being a sensual Domme and what that entails, Do...

338. Are We Identifying Ourselves or Are We Being Branded? Feat Lamark and Chelsea 17.06.2026

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!! This week we welcome Lamark and Chelsea of Lamark After Dark as we ask whats TOO horny, who is hornier straight ppl or the lgbt community, sharing locations with your partner, straight guys that like ssa play and the women who wont date them, water sports and the people who like it, why women hate guys that ask them to get it hard for them, why straight me...

337. Is There A Part Of The Spectrum Called Being Dicktistic?? 10.06.2026

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!! This week the guys talk women who actually love sucking, Madame Se calls in to discuss the guys perspective about Daphne Joy, why some men dont want to "slut their wives out", Tahoe being open to his partner being with other people, men liking women that have a scent to their private parts vs guys that dont, and Young MA says she "targets" straight women...

336. Secks Explained with Krystal Tantric Yogi 03.06.2026

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CALLLLLLL!!!!!!!! This week we welcome tantic yogi instructor @KrystalTantricYogi to talk experiencing secks through your real feelings instead of just trying to get to a goal, discovering a new relationship with secks and her body after getting into tantra and yogi, men not being ready to experiencing true feelings because of a fear of vulnerability, entering into the psychic wo...

335. I'ma Need You To Come Catch this Gooch 28.05.2026

Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!! This week the guys talk aggressive women talking their pants off, switching personalities in the bedroom, do men reveal how freaky they are first or do we wait to see where women are at with it, how men get women to eat the bussy, who was more into discovering booty play men or women, the best position to try anal for the first time, do we share the corn we lik...

334. Courtneys Farewell 20.05.2026

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CALLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!! After almost two years on the show Courtney bows out and wishes the guys farewell as she decides to move on from being a host of the show. We discuss the reasons she decided to leave and recap our time together on the show. We also talk flirting just to flirt, screaming someones name while you masturbate, spiritual handjobs??, and Tahoe asks what happened to t...

333b. I'm A Professional Side Dude (Part Two) 16.05.2026

Its a Saturday ROLLLLL CALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!! The episode continues with Marcus and Imani.  Full Description might get uploaded later. Sponsored by Load Boost Visit LoadBoost.com and use code HARDORSOFT for 10% off. 

333a. I'm A Professional Side Dude Feat Marcus and Imani (Part One) 14.05.2026

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAALLLLLLLLL!!!!!!! This week we welcome Marcus, a self proclaimed Side Dude and Imani, a working actress and producer to talk not wanting to have secks with your partner all the time, not being able to perform when you want to, Marcus side dude adventures and relationships, needing to feel exclusive in the way your married bae cheats with you, getting a women that cheats not bei...

332. Theres A Facebook For Farting??? Feat @MistressMysThick 07.05.2026

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAALLLLLLLLL!!!!!!! This week we welcome Dominatrix and Milk Maiden Mys Thick as we talk the fart store and why she thinks Tahoe needs to create an acount, women feeling like they are not getting violated enough in the bedroom, not being able to watch TV while having secks, Tahoe suffering a bedroom loss with one of Mys Thicks old friends that he has yet to heal from, trying to d...

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