The Hard Or Soft Show

The Hard Or Soft Show

Tahoe and Loon speaks to people in the sex community about things men like and don't like about sex in an effort to learn, educate and broaden mens horizons around exploring themselves and their partners desires, wants, and needs.

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The Hard Or Soft Show

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Education

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www.thehardorsoftshow.com

Latest episode

Jul 8, 2026

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Episodes

139. 12 Ways To Orgasm Ft. @BothSidesOfTheBed 16.02.2023

Whew!! This week was INTENSE!! Joining us to speak polyamory, men squirting, things men do that women like, not being able to love someone the way they want to be loved, and 12 ways to orgasm are Ahmir and Basirah from the Both Sides Of The Bed Podcast!! This was such an amazing adventure! Hope You Enjoy! and Listen to their show!!! Socials: Both Sides of The Bed Podcast on Instagram : @BothSidesO...

138. Pretty And Nasty Feat @StephG 08.02.2023

This week we welcome Brooklyn native and popular rap artist Steph G to talk being a booty sniper and a pretty girl with an insatiable appetite for affection. Lots of laughs in this one sit back and enjoy! Socials: Steph - @StephG on Instagram and @StephG_X on TikTok Loon @KingLoonNYC Twitter @KingLoonThe1st Instagram Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Ads: The Butters Hygienics family of lube....

137. You Thought I Was Feeling You??? Feat @SuckerFreeWes 01.02.2023

Nut Navy ROLLLLL CALLLLLL!!!!!!! Whats UP YALL!!! I hope youre ready for the hilarity thats about to ensue because this episode is WILD!! Suckerfreewes came and sat with us and turned this show ALLL the way up!! Sit back relax and enjoy!!! WAIT!!! Wait wait waiiiittt...Did i tell yall that the next play party is on my BIRTHDAYYY????? YOOOO!!!! FEBRUARY 25TH IT IS GOING DOWWN!!!! LINK WILL BE ADDED...

136. N*ggas Really The New B!tches 25.01.2023

All I can say is wait for it.. 😂😂 Loon has GOT to be stopped!!!!! I'll fill in the rest of the bio later i gotta pick up an outfit for todays episode lol.. yeh..yall might wanna tune into the youtube for that..🤫 Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir touchingbodymindandsoul.com(Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at Patreon.com/hardorsoftpod YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCecvwF2Wd8...

135. Park In The Pu$$y 17.01.2023

Welcome back to another year of Hard or soft!! Hope every listener is starting off 2023 right just like this week's episode. Here we have a triple threat, our guest are Enchantress, Sue, and also Mr. Playtime. Speaking of playtime Loon and Enchantress gives us a demostration on the spot for Mr. Playtime to give us a little insight on his workshop. Other than loon learning new moves and doing a spl...

134c. End Game Feat Skip, Kami, The Comedian, Papa, and Lama 10.01.2023

Oh no!!! Did Tahoe Just Disassemble The Avengers with this story!!!??? Find out in this exclusive issue of HOS!!!!! Socials: @lamabean @lekurokami @iampolypapa @kingloonthe1st @skipfrombk @thecomedian._ @Tahoe_Tv Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir touchingbodymindandsoul.com(Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at Patreon.com/hardorsoftpod YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCecvwF2Wd88x...

134b. Infinity War Feat Skip, Kami, The Comedian, Papa, and Lama 03.01.2023

In this edition of HOS Earth's Mightiest Podcasters have been brought together for the final episode of 2022!!! We are packed today citizens of HOS;Skipfrombk,The Comedian, PaPa, Kami, Lama, Loon and of course Tahoe have all gathered at the podtower, to give us the funniest issue of HOS we have gotten yet. This portion of the show is so lit that we had to split part two into two parts you might fi...

134a. The End Of An Era Feat @AskMsCassandra 28.12.2022

In this first part of HOS we are in a one on one session with @AskMsCassandra & Tahoe. Trigger warning for you might get hit in the feels with this one, Ms. Cassandra teaches how to face our emotions and be one with yourself instead of leaving yourself behind. Tahoe expresses his emotions and mentions that he recognize how he can affect other people and what he is doing to work on it. There so...

133. She Put It In Her Butt!! 21.12.2022

Whats up family. First ep back after the play party so you know we got into it with Lola our special guest this week. Loon talkd about why he took the rexmd at the play party( probably for that threesome he had). We talk about affirmations during sex, people who do crack, men and women with high sex drives, does a person political choice turn you off and having sex during the peak of covid. Come h...

132. They Really Like That Sh!t 14.12.2022

Ah man we most definitely have a wild one for you today; Tahoe and Loon share their sex bloopers and most dope sexual moments, expectations for the play party {by the time you read this those who know, know how playful we got ;) }. HOS had to ask the great aged question we must come to ask ourselves one day; Am I a t!tty man or an ass man. Also do you remember when eating pussy was not normal what...

131. Gangsta Cl!t Feat @Chef.Cream 06.12.2022

Welcome back! Come check out what we cooked up in this week's episode with guest Chef Cream who is not the one to play with hence the tittle of today's show. We dove deep in conversation so much we have to issue a Trigger Warning, for parts of this episode we get real personal and discuss the harsh mistreatment of love and sexual misconduct. Loon also shares a personal story that will be uploaded...

130. I Put My P*ssy In the SINK (1st half) 30.11.2022

This week we are accompanied by Cheyenne (@CheyMoDee) as we talk about weird moments while masturbating, where you are mentally when watching porn, Loon gets emotional as he tells a story and then..deeming another man unfuckable? The cast also talks about being in your head while performing, having to talk yourself back in the moment and Cheyenne gives insight on properly using pronouns and then b...

129. If I Like it I'ma NEED It Feat @YaboyZach17 23.11.2022

This week we welcomed one of our homies from the hood Zach and he spoke about wanting to attend our upcoming play party, loving to cook for women and eating the box for his own pleasure. Then he hit us with some wild kinks we never expected to hear, liking older women, being scared to try something new out of fear of liking it, the definition of a f-ckBoy, and why Tahoe hates when women are right....

128. You Got a Fat D*ck?? 15.11.2022

This week was so much fun! Loon came in a thxgiving sweater and Tahoe grills him about whether he has a girlfriend or not. Then Loon discusses a moment where he listened to Tahoe annnd it probably wasn't the best idea. Letting a woman see you on gummy and then we go over things men should know about their penises and things women should know about men. Enjoy! Socials: Loon: @KingLoonNYC on Twitter...

127. Slap The P*ssy to The Right 08.11.2022

Welcome Back! This week the guys talk drinking breast milk from the queen of royal fetish, recapping Kinks and Drinks, Loons 1st experience domme topping, and why don't men know how much women like sex? Such a dope episode! Enjoy! Socials: Loon: @KingLoonNYC on Twitter @KingLoonthe1st on Instagram Tahoe: @Tahoe_TV on twitter and Instagram Get the Convo and Chill Card Game on Amazon at https://www....

126. Love, Porn And Therapy Feat @JetSetJasmine 02.11.2022

This week we welcome the Queen of the Royal Fetish Family, Jet Setting Jasmine, to talk being a porn actress and creator as well as a clinical therapist, Tahoe standing her up on an offer and his lackluster communication skills, does porn and masturbation adversely effect ppls intimacy with others, living poly and how to be with ppl that really only want your partner, and so much more!! This episo...

125. Knife Talk Feat @Phoenix_Noir 25.10.2022

This week we welcome Phoenix Noir as she explains what it is to be a "Sadistic Mommy Domme", how she got into kink and how she uses knives and pain to produce pleasure from her subjects, understanding the womans body, the battle between men and women regarding pleasing each other, and how to properly choke someone in the bedroom. There is soooo much more happening in this episode, we hope you enjo...

124b. Dickolas Cage (Part Two) Feat @QueenGlitter4 21.10.2022

The Hard, The Soft and Convo and Chill.. Enjoy! Email us at Hardorsoftpod@gmail.com to come to the Halloween Kinks And Drinks on October 29th here in Brooklyn Socials: Glitter: @QueenGlitter4 on twitter @ThatGlitterBaby on Instagram Loon: @KingLoonNYC on Twitter @KingLoonthe1st on Instagram Tahoe: @Tahoe_TV on twitter and Instagram Get the Convo and Chill Card Game on Amazon at https://www.amazon....

124a. Dickolas Cage (Part One) Feat @QueenGlitter4 18.10.2022

Welcome Back! This week we welcome the Queen Glitter to discuss her experiences with pegging and the misconception some people have about her and it, feeling like home with your partner, the misconceptions about the word submissive, love being the closest thing to insanity, the way she found out about an ex's kinks and that he was cheating on her, why she stayed, why Toro was right for not having...

123. Good D*ck Problems 12.10.2022

This weeks episode we shout out an interesting listener comment that we got, then we talk about needing several different methods of giving d*ck, having to give medium d*ck to chicks that you dont really want to get attached to you, proper male hygiene, women not settling with just anybody just to be in a relationship, being influenced by sexual behavior when young and and being affected by it whe...

122. D*ck Discernment and A$$ Accountability Feat Stephanie Lykes 04.10.2022

This week we welcome race play expert, Stephanie Likes, to talk about the race play genre of porn and kink and then we discuss the shame some men feel about being sexually attracted to other races and where that comes from. We also discuss men not being able to perform sexually because of being in a weird emotional place, is there such a thing as being TOO horny, and Loon asks..Is there anything w...

121b. Now Thats Pee! Part Two Feat @LolaJeanDotCom and @YesMissShayla 30.09.2022

Loon gets turned into a Foot Slut, The Hard, The Soft and Convo And Chill.. Enjoy!

121a. Now Thats Pee Feat @LolaJeanDotCom and @YesMissShayla (Part One) 27.09.2022

This week we welcome pro dommes Lola Jean and Shayla Lang to talk the ins and outs of water sports. (vomit, pee, blood, squirt, scat...) dating people much older than you, revenge porn, reactive squirting vs responsive squirting, and pregnant play??? oh yeh it went ALL the way there and back...Enjoy!!! Socials: Find Lola Jean on Instagram at @LolaJeanDotCom Find Shayla on Instagram at @YesMissShay...

120. Nutt on Demand Feat @TheRealKingNoire 20.09.2022

This week King Noire sits with us to discuss dick control, using male sex toys, being fake poly vs real poly, when your kinks dont match, being a creator of black porn as well as a musician and a parent, the history of degradation of women in porn and so much more.. Enjoy!!! Socials: King Noire: TheRealKingNoire on Instagram Check all of his products including his podcast and music in his LinkTree...

119. Steve Harvey Could Never! Feat @StellaBellaFonTay and @LamaBean 13.09.2022

This week Tahoe and Loon sit with @Stellabellafontay and @Lamabean to talk unhealthy expectations in dating, penis worship with a twist, dating as a cougar, men letting women who ask them out pay for dates and a new card game called Convo and Chill After Dark! Enjoy! Socials: Lama: @LamaBean on Instagram and Twitter Stella: @StellaBellaFonTay on Instagram Loon: @KingLoonNYC on Twitter @KingLoonthe...

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