The Hard Or Soft Show

This week we are joined by Hope Giselle, The Naked Trumpeter and LekuroKami, to talk how many times a week they would like to have sex, making the sex completely about your partner, what to do when your partner is horny but you aren't, and then we ask what the community wants us to do with black cisgender hetero men that havent done "the work"...this one got really intense but we wanted to represe...

Whew! This episode was alot 😩! We invited pleasure enthusiast Sage The Flame, and podcasters Funsize T and Iamemez from the Empty Thoughts Podcast to talk the most inappropriate places they've had sex, women's fascination with getting head from guys and never actually having intercourse, what foreplay looks like to them and how important it is...or isn't, and what trash sex means to them. This on...

On This episode @MouseJones, @DomMeSteph, and @IamPapafrfrtho talk a little skat play, why Mouse and Steph arent into 3sums, comparing toxic masculinity to racism, fisting bootyholes, and then we ask the question...can polyamory kill the main relationship? This episode was absolutely NUTS. Enjoy!!

On This Episode Tahoe welcomes @PvssyPoet__TheGoddess @TheOGBlackman and @iAmPopula to discuss what exactly a good sex life entails to them, ppl making too much noise in the bedroom, trying to get too freaky with a massage therapist, and we get some amazing poetry from The goddess herself...Enjoy!

What an Episode!! This week Tahoe welcomes @SkipFromBK, @DontCallMeMargee and @TheComedian._ to talk feeling sexually violated by a woman as a man, the first time a woman took it to the nether region, what to do in a 3sum if you climax too fast and then Tahoe reads some submissions from the guys former lovers in a new segment called Dick Yelp. @DontCallMeMargee demonstrates how to slap a man sexua...

Aw Man! This episode @KingLoonThe1st joins Tahoe to welcome back @TheNakedTrumpeter, and Courtney of @TheSpicyStudios to talk about the most fun times they've had during sex, circle jerking, bukkakees and how to bag a girl at the next pool party. Courtney tells us a few stories from her show and then we ask what can we all do to make our sex lives better. Enjoy!! Follow the show on Twitter and Ins...

Welcome Back! On this weeks episode we welcome @LamaBean @LekuroKami and sexpert Michelle Hope (@Mhsexpert) to talk common misconceptions men and women have about each other regarding sex, the wildest porn categories we've never told anybody we have watched, sex being mental and the impact of the Roe Vs Wade decision on the country. This one felt like home! We are back baby!! Follow the show on Tw...

This week we have our first live studio audience join us with @BondageQueenTana, Tahoe and Tane to talk masturbation month, bondage, race and slave play, Male contraception, code switching, and wait a minute...is tahoe becoming a closet cuck? Tune in and make sure to watch the youtube for the full episode and behind the scenes footage!!! Enjoy! Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir touchingbodymindands...

Whew! What an episode! This week we welcome sex-pert @DirtyLola and sex creative @OmariTheRebel and ask about their most unexpected sexual experiences, having too many partners at a play party, dating app etiquette for couples, and then Tahoe challenges Omari to a game for the Sex God crown. So many gems in this, so many laughs..we hope you enjoy what we are doing on this one...Enjoy! Find DirtyLo...

This Week we welcome Bear and Fifi (@Bear. N.Fifi) a polyamorous couple that does intimacy coaching to talk about their experience being poly with Tahoe and Tané (Tahoes Girlfriend). Tahoe voices many frustrations going on in his relationship and the two reveal some differences they are having that could prove to be relationship ending for them.. Find Bear and Fifi on instagram at @Bear. N.Fifi or...

This week we welcome back @KingLoonThe1st and Marley Moore (@MarleyDaBootyy) to talk Tahoe's new app idea Uber-Beats, our most embarrassing sexual moments, our sex languages, being denied sex and Marley wants to know if men are ready to accept the fact that women like sex too. It's been a long couple of weeks I hope you guys are ready to laugh! Enjoy! Find Loon on Instagram at @KingLoonThe1st Twit...

Welcome back you guys...this episode is a deep one as Tahoe speaks about the future of the pod and then talks to a relationship coach for men (@AskMsCassandra) about his feelings revolving a breakup he is going thru with his cohost. Then he and his girlfriend sit with intimacy coach @WickedSirNik/@Lusty. Boi. Sir to discuss how to bring the fire back into the bedroom after such a traumatic experie...

The legend herself Miss B Nasty joins the guys for an awesome episode of laughs after laughs. Tahoe presents a brand new sex god game & somebody tries on a brand new face toy. Hearing the life & stories of Miss B Nasty really makes this episode one of the best. Enjoy!! Miss B Nasty - @Themissbnasty Tahoe - @Tahoe_tv ADs: Native - Nativedeo.com/hardorsoft (Use Code Hardorsoft) Dipsea Stories - www....

Well what can we say. The wonderful Niema Cream brought us some great entertainment this episode. Pregnancy sex mixed with some anal play, and Tahoe being shocked watching Niema in Miami. Enjoy!! Niema Cream - @Missniemacream Tahoe - @Tahoe_tv ADs: Native - Nativedeo.com/hardorsoft (Use Code Hardorsoft) Dipsea Stories - www.dipseastories.com/hardorsoft (Use Code Hardorsoft) Like A Kitten - www. Li...

The guys are still out in LA and they get to have a convo with the one and only sex educator Shan Boody. They have some fun with somebodys sexy attire, Tahoe coming face to face with a toy, and what makes men attractive to Shan. Enjoy!! Shan - @Shanboody Tahoe - @Tahoe_tv ADs: Native - Nativedeo.com/hardorsoft (Use Code Hardorsoft) Dipsea Stories - www.dipseastories.com/hardorsoft (Use Code Hardor...

The guys knew this convo would be good, potentially amazing, but nothing like this. Tahoe and Mr. Marcus remember all the great adult stars of his time, remembering his video with Karine Steffans, being on of the few adult stars to work in the UK, a career altering mistake, and unintentionally making historic change not once, but twice. From the start to present this is the story of Mr. Marcus. En...

The guys take an interlude from L.A. and bring a guest that has lived many lives and has many personalities, London Bridges. In this 2 Year Anniversary episode it's all about London. We get to talk about age regression, sex trafficking, sexual dances, and broke sex. That's a lot of sex. Enjoy!! London Bridges - @Londonlevelup ; Website: LondonBridges.co Tahoe - @Tahoe_tv ADs: Native - Nativedeo.co...

What a collab or a clash. The guys are joined by... the guys of Dormtainment. Superman clit skills, leftover penis, same girl same house, and learning bout sounding. What and episode this was. Enjoy!! Cam - @Camfromdt Rome - @Iromealot Amanuel - @Amanuelrichards Dormtainment - @Dormtainment Chey - @Cheymillz Tahoe - @Tahoe_tv ADs: Native - Nativedeo.com/hardorsoft (Use Code Hardorsoft) Dipsea Stor...

The Boys are out in LA and kick off their tour with Miko Grimes & Aishia Deal. Miko gets into her short film HOE, while Aishia gets into teaching men to please her. Enjoy!! Miko Grimes Aishia Deal - @Aishiadeal Tahoe - @Tahoe_tv ADs: Native - Nativedeo.com/hardorsoft (Use Code Hardorsoft) Dipsea Stories - www.dipseastories.com/hardorsoft (Use Code Hardorsoft) Like A Kitten - www. LikeAKitten.com/H...

Before The boys head out to their L.A. tour they're talking about gaining weight, a few dick facts, & butt biting. Enjoy!! Tahoe - @Tahoe_tv ADs: Native - Nativedeo.com/hardorsoft (Use Code Hardorsoft) Dipsea Stories - www.dipseastories.com/hardorsoft (Use Code Hardorsoft) Like A Kitten - www. LikeAKitten.com/HardOrSoft (Use Code Hardorsoft for 20% off) Feeld - https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/hardor...

After a flurry of amazing guest the boys are back to solo. The guys talk about being up even when they're sleeping, men and celibacy, and a special surprise for their birthday from Carmelie. Enjoy!! Tahoe - @Tahoe_tv ADs: Native - Nativedeo.com/hardorsoft (Use Code Hardorsoft) Dipsea Stories - www.dipseastories.com/hardorsoft (Use Code Hardorsoft) Like A Kitten - www. LikeAKitten.com/HardOrSoft (U...

Tonight the guys sit down with the smiling and sparkling Glittersaurus Rex. Get a recap of the play parties as well as a constructed special b-day from Glittersaurus. Tahoe tells his way of watching porn, and WHEN WILL THIS GUY STOP LYING??!! Enjoy!! Tiana - @Glittersaurus.rex Tahoe - @Tahoe_tv ADs: Native - Nativedeo.com/hardorsoft (Use Code Hardorsoft) Dipsea Stories - www.dipseastories.com/hard...

The boys are joined by The Original. This episode is worth every second. Tahoe realizes theres more... inside you, and Reek tells his hilarious virgin story. Enjoy!! Reek - @Theogblackman Tahoe - @Tahoe_tv ADs: Dipsea Stories - www.dipseastories.com/hardorsoft (Use Code Hardorsoft) Like A Kitten - www. LikeAKitten.com/HardOrSoft (Use Code Hardorsoft for 20% off) Feeld - https://feeld.onelink.me/TR...

Get ready because we're starting 2022 in the man cave. The guys are joined by @CastroTrapMoney for a range of conversation. We're talking penguin fights, Devine 9 bucket of chicken, male kegels, and a lot more. Enjoy!! Castro - @CastroTrapMoney Tahoe - @Tahoe_tv ADs: Like A Kitten- www. LikeAKitten.com/HardOrSoft (Use Code Hardorsoft for 20% off) Feeld - https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/hardorsoft (U...

The King Noire & Queen Jet Setting Jasmine finally sit down with the guys to talk about sexual nerves, turning down scenes, the effects of religion, and great advice on getting men comfortable. Enjoy!! King Noire - @Therealkingnoire Jet Setting Jasmine - @Jetsetjasmine Tahoe - @Tahoe_tv ADs: Like A Kitten- http://www. LikeAKitten.com/HardOrSoft (Use Code HardOrSoft for 20% off) Erotic Boudoir- @Er...