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This week we look at the history of pride. From what was happening before the legend of Stonewall, to the passing of Marriage Equality in the UK we take you on a whistlestop tour of pride in the second of our pride month specials. But not before spilling Tea why Ebay's Adult Content Ban spells trouble for LGBT+ Archival work and Youtube's take down of Australian comedy channel Ding Dong I'm Gay. W...

If Pride is "Gay Christmas", then E3 is probably the Gamers' Christmas. In this bonus episode we talk about what we each got excited about during the E3 season. No teas or joysticks, just a near unedited conversation between us with our random thoughts on the game companies' presentations.

It's pride month and we'd be missing a beat as LGBT Kinksters not to talk about pride this month so this week we're talking about what pride means to us. From our first prides to some of our fun experainces from pride! We also have some community members talk about what pride means to them including guests from other podcasts (Kinky Boys Podcast, Shut the WOOF up, & Master Slave Lifestyle podcast)...

With the UK opening form lockdown, we discuss our attitudes towards hooking up, going to bars and being cautious about moving forward after the pandemic lockdowns and also we talk about how its ok to not be ok with everything right away. We also spill Tea as we talk about the concept of "Smart" device sex toys and that UK Eurovision entry whilst over on our JoystiXXX we have Mass Effect and Dorfro...

This week were getting to the sole of the issue as we delve into the intricacies of foot play. We talk about how we perceive the fetish as someone who is into it (Chris) and someone who isn't (Si) and what it is that turns people on about it. Tea this week comes in the form of LGBT+ Sports History in Cricket as the Birmingham Unicorns takes on the London Graces from Chris and Performative Corporat...

We like tea, but we don’t like it when someone forces it down our throats. Same when it comes to sex and kink. We talk about why consent is so important, what you should do as both dom and sub, and what we find useful when it comes to scene negotiation. We spill tea this week on the Oscars (and the award season in general). And on our joysticks, we talk about Dungeons and Dragons as well as video...

Would you do Watersports with Pac-Man? How about Cuckolding with Agent-47? Or maybe SPH with Iron Man? This week we put a kinky twist on a party game and see which ones we would and wouldn't do. In Tea this week we talk lockdown fatigue, the passing of HRH The Duke of Edinburgh & a potential HIV Vaccine Candidate. Meanwhile our JoystiXXX this week are Sentinels of Freedom and The Touryst.   -- Fin...

This week we get all tied up as we discuss bondage for the first time. What it is? What we like about it? What are some of the safety aspects to consider? What different types of bondage are there? and more in this "Bondage 101" type session. We also spill tea this week on getting STD tested during the pandemic. On our Joysticks this week we discuss our thoughts on Pokemon Cafe (Moible/Ninteno Swi...

Rubber, Leather, Suits, Sportswear, Pups, Scally. Kink Gear comes in many forms and this week, we take a look at what gear means to us in what were calling a "Gear 101" episode. What it is, Why we wear it, whats some of the do's and don'ts and why you should get to know boot blacks. We look at some of the misconceptions of wearing gear and how much colours really mean in the scene from a UK perspe...

Do you ever look at videogame franchise merchandise and wonder how it came to be? Well, so do we, but we decided to put a twist on it as we work out what sex toys and related goodies different videogame franchises might produce. Tea this week includes a look back into the world of Rugby inclusivity and some updates to HIV and coronavirus related healthcare in the UK and Joysticks this week sees us...

This week we find our way as we discuss long distance relationships, what's worked for us, some of the pitfalls and positives and some of the things you can do to keep the spark alive. Were also serving our Tea extra hot this week as we tackle a few divisive moves in the media and fashion industries and our Joystixxx include Shapes and Beats, Gears of War and Tetris Effect. Find us on Twitter at h...

This week, we're looking into Valentine's Day presents, in particular the reviews! Where we read some descriptive and suggestive reviews of sex toys and have to guess what the toy is. In other news, we remember the mother of gay rugby Alice Hoagland, discuss the tea on Disney Plus Marvel Studio releases, as well as discussing the curious games of “Robin Morningwood Adventures” and “Monster Train”....

This week we answer a question left on our answer machine by a listener about the power dynamics of kink and in our relationship. We talk about how chastity fits into polyamory, if we have a TPE relationship, how we view titles such as Sir & Master, and what protocols are how we employ them in our relationship. We also spill the tea on Uncle Roger & how 2021 has started and discuss our experiences...

It's the turn of Year so it's time to reflect on the Videogames that we played in 2020 and hand out some awards. But it wouldn't be the TBnJ Podcast if the catagory names didn't have a kinky twist. We welcome our first ever guest Ian who shares some insights into game development as we decide on our awards and throws some interesting suggestions of his own into the mix. Audio Credits: Editing: TBn...

Twas the night before Kinkmas and all through the house. Not a Submissive was stirring, not even a pup. This week we get festive talking about how you can kink up your Christmas fun and adlib some kinky Christmas carols. We also discuss the big gaming and geekery news as part of our regular Tea and Joystixx sections touching on the now Infamous Cyberpunk 2077 launch, the Marvel MCU news and the ch...

This week we talk about Polyamory and how that works for us. We address some common questions and have some deep talks about what it meant to us to realise we were Poly and how that affected us. We also discuss Xbox Series S|X & PS5 console scalping, talk about what we've been playing this week (Animal Crossing and Paper Mario) and revisit our videogame character kink theories.   Si's Animal Cross...

We have a bumper show for you this week. We talk about; the problem with Sia's new movie project; The Destiny 2 Beyond Light DLC; Watch Dogs Legion's LGBT+ Representation (as well as the Curious case of the male dominatrix); and our main topic of the week is Chastity including our thoughts on the CB-6000, Holy trainer, Steelworxx Crossfire and the kink3d Cobra. (oh and we talk about why porn plumb...

Our first episode and it's all on the table: Awkward introductions, America's world record edging session, Ninja Assassin Grandma's, Greek Gods, Master Chief's Blue Balls and revelations about Darth Vader... Join us for our debut episode. Audio Credits: Editing: TBnJPodcast Si, Music credit:  Severe Tire Damage by Kevin MacLeod  Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5004-severe-tire-damage ...