Tea Bags & JoystiXXX

a.k.a. The Bumper Show with Leads This week's show features Handler EU Quincy (they/them)! We talk about their journey through to being a title holder and their next steps, what it is about being a handler, various different forms of pet play, and every kinkster's favourite topic during pride month: kink at pride. Tea this week we talk about a mischievous mod for Microsoft Flight Simulator . And f...

a.k.a. When Pride Become Hubris a.k.a. A Sense of Pride (and Accomplishment?)  It's Pride Month 2022 and with pride month comes the rainbow tidal wave. With that in mind we dive in and look at some of the ridiculous pride washed merchandise they try and trick us into buying.  For Tea this week, we discuss the UK's only openly gay footballer Jake Daniels coming out and the sadness that is...

a.k.a. Sir, Yes Sir This week we broadcast a long overdue conversation with Adam about the military fetish. We talk about the origins of such a fetish, the dos and don'ts when exploring, what to be aware of when acquiring more specialist militaria gear and the ethical considerations when playing with military gear. Tea this week we talk about a gay dog adopted by a gay couple, and the casting of t...

a.k.a. Tangent Queen This episode we are joined by Jonathan from South West Fetish Men, where we had a hilarious conversation about the social side of kink and gear, organising events and the upcoming South West Fetish Weekend 2022 in Bristol, England. Contains lots of tangents. Tea this week includes Elon Musk's takeover of Twitter and user authentication for vulnerable groups, and how Jon made h...

a.k.a. A Cuck in His Hand, Two in the Bed Content warning: At the start of this episode we are discussing the UK Governments U-Turn on Trans Conversion Therapy Ban. Listeners who are sensitive to this may wish to skip the episode to the 17:30 mark.  This week we talk about cuckolding, how we define it and how many people may find themselves into it without realising that might be the case.&nb...

a.k.a. Ruff ruff ruff awoooo! We continue our conversation with Pups Titan and Trakken about pups! We talk about how to not get yourself injured when pupping out, and some seriously bad faith arguments against pup play. We also talk about expectations about the Moon Knight series. Joysticks this week we have Kirby and the Forgotten Land , the Rim Effect mod for RimWorld and some chats about Dungeo...

a.k.a. Ruff ruff ruff awoooo! We're joined by Pup Titan and Trakken this week as we let the pups off their leashes to talk about Puppy Play. Unusually were splitting this episode into two parts because we talked for a VERY long time. In this part you'll find Discussion on; What is it, why our guests love it, what Pup Headspace is, and discussion on degredation Vs praise in the kink.  Tea this...

a.k.a. Self-Express Yourself! This week we tackle the subject of how kink and self expression can overlap. Discussing "kinksters" as a subculture akin to bears or twinks within the LGBTQ+ spaces. How we personally approach our self expression with our kinkster culture in mind, and some of the considerations that we take in account both in LGBTQ+ spaces and in day to day life.  For tea this we...

a.k.a. Google Translate Does Kink Warning : This episode contains brief discussions around the conflict in Ukraine and breathing difficulties due to a host’s ongoing health issues, listener discretion is advised.  This week we throw out the show we had planned for something to lighten the mood and dive into some light-hearted Google translating as Chris challenges Si to figure out what words,...

a.k.a. Kinking the Bucket Warning : This epsiodes contains discussions of acts in a fantasy setting that should not be attempted. Do not try these things at home.  This episode we discuss some of our more out there fantasies and items on our Kinky Bucket Lists and set our kinky new year resolutions.  For Tea this week we discuss inclusion of pronouns and neo pronouns in The sims and that...

TBnJ is back for 2022 and, as per tradition, we bring back the TBnJ Game of the Rear awards for 2022. This week were joined by Mr Ian and Dio A.K. as we determine the winner of this years awards finding what we feel the best and worst of gaming in 2021 was for us.   (Note: This is a video game heavy episode that doesn't have a kink topic. We will return next week to our usual kinky selve...

Because we can't wait till the new year to talk about Spider-Man: No Way Home. Obvious spoilers. Involves us completely ignoring the five minute countdown clock.

Ho ho ho! It's Christmas and Si and Chris engage in a silly game involving the infamous "TB&J List", where we try to argue why a randomly selected kink with a randomly selected character should be considered Christmassy. None of this makes any sense, and that's the fun! Tea this week we congratulate France on banning LGBTQ+ "conversion therapy" and Keanu Reeves's take on NFTs. And for Joystick...

This week we're joined by Criag from Kinkyboys Podcast as we delve into the wonderfull world of leather. We talk about why we like it, the customisation available in leather, how to care for your leather and more.  Tea this week includes Inclusivity on the set of Hawkeye and how Crusing is causing problems for wildlife in Gran Canaria whilst on our Joysticks this week we talk about Forza Horizon 5...

Weather it's for a session or more permenant feature collars are a staple of the kink scene is the collar and this week we discuss our relationship with collars in our relationship and more broadly. What does it mean for a sub to earn their collar? What are the different types of collars? Why might a sub have more than one? What might cause a sub to loose their collar? We get into all this and mor...

*TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains the sound of fireworks throughout due to UK Bonfire Night Celebrations we apologise in advance for any distress this may cause* This episode marks the 1 year anniversary of TBnJ and so we thought we would have a bit of fun by diving into the internets treasure trove of questions otherwise known as quora for this bumper episode. We talk about everything from...

This show we are in for a spooktacular chat about witches. Oh, no! Switches? Not light switches, not Nintendo Switches, but BDSM switches. Both Si and Chris identify as switches to some degree, and some people on the scene find it weird. Why? How do we make a role-reversal scene work? And is playing with a switch that different to someone that only goes one way?  In Tea we talked about Marvel...

Si and Chris engage in a HEATed debate (not really) about bathhouses, or saunas as we call them in Blighty. We talk about what attract Si to saunas, what the basic etiquettes are and what sort of kinky fun you can get involved with.  Tea this week is the UK Conservative Party conference and Chris taking the mickey of Si’s locktober task. For Joysticks we have Hades (yet again) and Halo: Master Chi...

This week Si and Chris discuss the growing annual festival that is Locktober. We talk about how we got into it, and what it entails for kinksters with different levels of experience in chastity play.    Tea this week is about Si's cameo over at Kinkyboys Podcast and about over-doing yourself at the gym. In joystixxx, we have Forza Horizon 4, Microsoft Flight Simulator and the Halo Infini...

This week sees the first return of the TBnJ List as we generate a few rounds of a kink mix and match as your favourite pop culture characters and kinks come together to find which we think would be involved with each.  Tea this week involves being Gay on Time and that unusual ways podcasting crosses into real life whilst our joysticks this week consists of Hades, Lumines and Metal Gear Acid as wel...

This week were all about the TEA as we're joined by Only Fans content creator W.A.S.P Hunter to talk about the Only Fans Porn Ban 180, what affect it had on content creators and how content creators feel about the platform going forward. We also Spill Tea on an Si's recent health scare and Chris brings us an unfortuante article for discussion. Meanwhile the 5 Minute Marvel Returns and on Joysticks...

Tea Bags and Joystixxx is back for Season 2! This week we delve into the topic of degradation and humiliation. What does it involve? Why are people into them? How do we not get hurt while engaging with these kinks? For tea this week we talk about Manchester Pride's ongoing controversy. While for Joysticks, we cover Microsoft Flight Simulator and Minecraft. Edited by TBnJ Chris Music: Quarter Conun...

Si and Chris sit down this week and explain what happened that took us off air for a short while and mark the official "end" of season 1 of Tea Bags and Joystixx. Theres no Kink topic this week but we do have breif Tea about tech woes, The Olympics and local allyship, we also talk about Mini Motoroways and have a 5 Minute Marvel to cover some of what we missed. We will be back with Season 2 of the...

Just a PSA from Chris this week. Si is having technical difficulties that means we can't record this week. Hopefully we will be back on track and have an episode out next week!

This week Chris and Si "create" a role playing video game based on kink! From fighting the Vanilla Witch Karen, bondage skill trees, and dominant/submissive level ups, we let our imaginations run wild and write a pitch for our "game"! For tea this episode we talk about Pride flags-inspired sofas and the UEFA Euro 2020 kerfuffle (also about Pride flags). In joysticks, we have GolfTopia and A Pirate...