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This week Chris and Si are playing the TB&J Dungeon Master Draft – Video Game Characters Edition. A game inspired by drafts in American sports, Chris and Si pick video game characters to complete their fantasy dungeon. Who would be the perfect urinal? Which character is the ultimate pain pig? And who on the fantasy lands would be able and willing to host such a cast of kinksters? Find out what...

TB&J Podcast is back with a new format and Schedule! We're now running shorter but more frequent episodes alternating between “Tea episodes” (where we talk about what’s been happening in the world) and “Bag episodes” (where we talk about the kink scene or play kink-related games). Each week the boys will also take it in turns to play with their Joysticks! So in Tea today, why we were off f...

This week were delving into the realms of what if and asking, what if our favourite (mostly) video game brands made adult toys or other such equipment? We work out what style of toys different borderlands brands might make, what each console platform might be related to and even some game studios and how they would definitely monetise things. Meanwhile in Tea Chris quizzes us on the most common Dn...

a.k.a. Fun Hurty Stuff This week Si and Chris talk about corporal punishment, or maybe it's canes and paddles. But there's definitely nothing corporate about it (listen to the episode to find out what on earth I'm talking about here). So what's so fun about pain? In tea, Chris has a gripe about the German football team's new kit now, and Si shouts out to Mercury and Jory's...

This week Chris and Si are talking about some ... Movies. Videos. Ok we're definitely not turning into a movie podcast. But we are talking about the consumption of porn and maybe some unrealistic aspects of it. What do we think could be the best way out? Some disagreements? Maybe! For tea, Si covers the England football shirt "flag" controversy, while Chris reports on scientists remo...

This week Chris has got his voice back so we're able to continue with the animals of the scene where we look at if The Advocates definitions of the types of people you might encounter on the LGBTQ+ scene are still accurate For the 5 minute Marvel this week we're discussing Echo the latest Marvel TV series on Disney Plus For Tea this week Si gets really frustrated with Tinder Chris talks ab...

No kink this week, Chris and Si catch up on the Marvel stuff they've missed talking about in the last half a year and also on the Doctor Who specials. It's geekery all around! For tea, Si wants you to have a look at his side-project "For Whom It May Concern" . And for joysticks, Chris is on his road to Baldur's Gate and Si plays Mario Kart: Double Dash on an old console.

This week Chris and Si take a look at the "Origin of Bears" (as claimed by The Advocate) and some of the other so-called "animals" found within the LGBT scene. Are they really a thing? How outdated are they? There's still no Five Minute Marvel this week because at time of recording Marvel titles were still struck works, we plan to have a catch up session at the start of the new year! For tea, Si i...

a.k.a. What About No Nut November? This week Si and Chris are chatting about the past month, which they spent locked up in chastity. The highs and lows, the benefits and disadvantages, some things they have observed, and what they discovered about themselves. For tea, Chris celebrates Cyril Leroy, the founder and captain of the first gay French rugby team, who was honoured by World Rugby and Land...

This week Si and Chris are joined by Craig for The TB&J List : Chastity Special! Where we generate two random* pop culture characters and decide between them who is going to be locked for Locktober and who gets to keep the key! *(random-ish) For tea this week, Chris wonders why the British media has suddenly picked up on the term "situationship", and Si joins the chorus of complains...

This week Si and Chris sit down and talk about protocols within kink, why they find them important, what they get out of them, some examples of how they can be used both in private and in subtle ways day to day for a kinky couple. In Tea this week Si talks about FOMO around the women's world cup whilst Chris discusses the Somerset Gimp. In Joysticks, Chris dives down the Giant Blue Hole as Dav...

a.k.a. Britain's Number 9 Favourite Fetish This week Si and Chris talk about piss, golden showers, watersports, whatever you want to call it (or urolagnia if you want to be really medical). We talk about the degredation and objectivication aspects of it, the health risks, the gear and set up and any prep work! And then we go to the story books and talk about our own embarrasing experiences. In...

a.k.a. The History of Pride, Part II This week Chris and Si do another whistle stop tour in honour of LGBTQ+ Pride Month (and we came late). We look at the umbrella acronym itself; various forms of self-expression including clothing, norms and codes, as well as more explicit forms like badges and patches; before finally discussing the history of the AIDS Quilt. For tea, Chris gets confounded by a...

Si sits down with Craig from Kinky Boys Podcast share stories and anecdotes from their own experiences being Autistic, ADHD and more to explore how it is possible to take advantage of the curb cut effect to make Kink and BDSM scenes inclusive of people with Neurodiversity and Disabilities. Before that however they kick of the show discussion the Apple Vision Pro and work out exactly who it is aime...

This week we sit down with the 2 man team behind the new " Switched " app that the kink community has been talking about to see who they are, what their plans are and what they're bringing to the table that's different to other offerings out there. We discuss everything from how they got started, their first couple of weeks live, community questions around why certain choices got...

a.k.a. APP-solutely Fabulous This week we have Louise to talk with us about dating apps. The three of us tend to use these apps looking for different things (surprisingly) and we talk about our experiences with these apps. Some of out histories with different platforms over the years and some golden rules for using them. In tea, Chris brings up some dubious reports on Coke and Pepsi's effect o...

a.k.a. Can't Take My Size Off You This week Chris and Si are talking about cocks. When do they not talk about cocks, I hear you ask. Nah it’s a bit more specific than that. Penis size fetishes are all over the scene. Small, big, long, short, thick, thin, you name it, someone has made a fetish of it. This week we have a look at what people get off on about dick sizes. For tea, Chris gets Si con...

a.k.a. Banjo the Bluie? Si finally moved house and we're back! and man do we have a lot to catch up on. This week friend of the show Mutt Banjo talks to us about Transformation as a kink concept and how that is played out both in the real world and online. Before that we spill Tea on hypocrisy around the Homophobic Chanting by Football Fans and share our opinions on the dragons dung that was t...

This week we're joining Santa in checking our Nighty List, otherwise known as the TBnJ List and seeing which Pop Culture Character/Kink combinations we prefer. In Tea we talk the how England crashed out of the FIFA World Cup in Qatar and how some teams tried to make their objections to Censorship of Human Rights and LGBT issues during the tournament known as well as the end of the Pokémon Franchis...

a.k.a. Tag, You're It Since we had been off air for a while, Si and Chris decided it was time to play a game of tiggy so we can catch up with our listeners about what has been happening. So it was mostly just tea this week. Chris starts off with a sportsball corner piece about Pride flags at the MLS Cup final. Then we talk about UK politics, the Queen's passing, the sauna, the Mario movie, Google...

a.k.a. Shiny Shiny Latex   We're starting Season 3 of Tea Bags & Joystixxx with a bang, no sorry, squeak! The topic today is latex, the most popular (no official data) kind of rubber play. Si and Chris talk about their experiences with rubber / latex, the various outfits we and other people have come up with and how kinksters should be treated while wearing gear.  Tea this week, we d...

a.k.a. What Else We Do in the Shadows It's our last show of the season as we take our (delayed) summer break of about a month, but that doesn't mean we don't have plenty to talk about before we go... This week we're talking all about the bits of Sex that don't usually get discussed. We touch on a little bit of everything from cuddling to douching, condom fit to losing your erection, and finding th...

a.k.a. Spider: It's Coming Home This week Si and Chris chat with Mr Superhero Europe 2022 Gareth ( Instagram )! We talk about his challenges (plural) to the title, his plans of being a title holder, his very special Spider suit and the growth of the superhero fetish. We also discuss incorporating superhero cosplay into a kink scene, and the fun and challenges of roleplaying a superhero (whether it...

a.k.a. We Are Getting Our Star Wars References Back to Front (Since We Have Already Done Return of the List ) This week Chris and Si are doing another game with the TB&J List . Take a random pop / geek culture character, add three kinky activities, and choose which one is the most fun (or just most "safe") to do. Would you get fisted by Wolverine? Get kidnapped by Bowser? Yes? No? Let us know...

a.k.a. How to Go to Events and not Die  This episode is dedicated to Tim Davidson, a friend of ours and a former member of Manchester Rubbermen team, who passed away suddenly recently.   This week Si and Chris talk about all the mistakes they have made going to kinky/pride events, and some friendly advice on how not to do the same as they did! Everything from booking, getting your g...