Talk Sex with Annette

Send us Fan Mail My guest, family and relationship therapist Kristal DeSantis is the author of STRONG: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man. She walks my listeners through how self-defined masculine men can gain the skills that modern women are looking for in a partner, find a healthy partner, and create a relationship that is healthy, fulfilling and can stand the test of time. In this ep...

Send us Fan Mail Do you want to have better sex with your partner? Connect on a deeper level? Do you want to awaken your sensuality, and experience more pleasure? Or are you looking to process emotions and heal from trauma and grief? If so, receiving a Yoni Massage (AKA pussy massage) might be exactly what you need. In this episode, I walk listeners through what a Yoni massage is, how people can b...

Send us Fan Mail Erectile Dysfunction affects half of men ages 40 to 70 years old. It takes a toll on their mental and physical health as well as their relationships. My guest, Sexpert Susan Bratton walks listeners through all of the solutions that are available and maps out options for treatment at a variety of prices. Men and people with penises who aren’t currently suffering from ED need to lis...

Send us Fan Mail Whether you are a woman or a person with a vulva just embarking on your own self-pleasure journey or you are in a sexual relationship with a woman or a vulva owner, this episode is for you. I walk you through 15 fingering tips and techniques that build pleasure, eroticism, and offer the possibility of incredible orgasmic satisfaction. In this episode you will learn: The fingering...

Send us Fan Mail Deanna (AKA Ruby) joins me to talk about how to have boob sex. It was a hot topic in the 80s, but are people still doing it? Turns out Mammory intercourse is a thing. Ruby, known for her giant boobs, happens to be an expert on the topic and walks us through who is doing it, how to do it, and why the hell you'd want to! Find me on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/@annetteben...

Send us Fan Mail By listener request, I’m covering 20 reasons why women don’t want to have sex. Last week on Masturbation Monday, I covered the top reasons women do want to have sex but a listener wrote in telling me the question I was asking was the wrong one to be focusing on. He had some very specific ideas about why women don’t want sex. Listen in to hear what he had to say and what a communit...

Send us Fan Mail If you’ve been thinking about exploring BDSM, but aren’t sure where to start, or if you’ve dabbled, but want to next-level your exploration, this is the podcast episode for you. Dominatrix Lucy joins me to share 10 ways you can explore BDSM and add a whole bunch of spice to your sex life. This list of 10 play ideas is designed to help you explore different types of BDSM play with...

Send us Fan Mail There's a lot of misinformation about why women want to have sex. Today I'm sharing what the research AND real women have to say about the matter. I share 5 top myths about why women want to have sex, the 5 top reasons women want to have sex according to research. My top 3 reasons for wanting to have sex and then I read what women have to say on the matter in their own w...

Send us Fan Mail Most of us have had to deal with infidelity at some point in our lives. Sometimes, but not always cheating leads to the end of the relationship. My guest today, Dr. Alsaleem The Father of Modern Infidelity Counseling helps listeners better understand how to know when to stay and when to leave after your partner cheats. Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.pag...

Send us Fan Mail Do you think your fear of intimacy might be ruining your dating life? Do you keep finding yourself in relationships with people who are afraid of intimacy and commitment? If either of these applies to you, then you are going to want to listen in for the top 10 signs that you are someone you are dating is afraid of intimacy. Stop ruining your chances at finding love or falling for...

Send us Fan Mail The Truth About Glory Holes and Adult Theaters might shock you.  Get the low down on what it's like to be a woman in the world of glory holes and adult theaters. In this episode, you will find out where they are, who is going to them (you are gonna be surprised), and what really goes on in both.  Did you know the BC CDC actually recommended glory holes for a COVID-safe sex op...

Send us Fan Mail Grab your coffee and hop in bed with me for a lesson on what NOT to do when you go down on a woman. I'm sharing 10 things men get wrong during oral sex. But don't worry. I also share at least 10 tips on what you can do to make orgasm during oral sex. Don't forget to check out the episodes I mentioned below: Sex Talk 101: https://youtu.be/KPtFCy2BvIQ Erotic Blue Prin...

Send us Fan Mail Returning guest Russian Dominatrix Lucy walks listeners through a guide to How to Dominate Your Man. in Bed. From how either a man or woman can introduce the topic to their partner to how to get started and graduate to any Dom/Sub dynamic you desire, this episode has it all. In this episode, we discuss: Myths & misconceptions Getting started Best beginner scenes Impact play Ro...

Send us Fan Mail I've noticed some pretty big shifts in how I interact with the world around me and with people I'm connected to in particular. These changes got me wondering if regular masturbation changes women's personalities. I dug into the research and found 6 ways that a regular masturbation practice influences and changes how women interact with the world around them. Grab yo...

Send us Fan Mail Dr. Kate Balestrieri walks us through Female Led Relationships and what they look like inside and outside of the bedroom. She clearly outlines the 4 levels of Female Led Relationships , reveals how they benefit both men and women and offer couples the opportunity to connect on a deeper level than conventional relationships might allow. If you and your partner are struggling to cre...

Send us Fan Mail Today  Sarahca Peterson creator of the Kegel Krew on Tik Tok joins me to talk about why Coochie Conversations are important and why creating safe spaces for Black Women to speak about and lead the conversations about women's sexuality and sexual health is vital. Don't forget to subscribe to my e newsletter so that you can receive information on her upcoming live stream c...

Send us Fan Mail Unlock the truth about vaginal dimensions and their influence on sexual fulfillment with the guidance of Dr. Milhouse , a renowned urologist in female pelvic medicine. Prepare to have your misconceptions challenged and your understanding deepened, as we illuminate the adaptive nature of the vagina, much akin to its male counterpart during arousal. This episode promises an empoweri...

Send us Fan Mail Did you know that the key to optimal vaginal health could be hiding in your own hands? That's right, today's episode is about empowering women with 20 science-backed reasons to make masturbation a regular part of their routine. During today's masturbation monday conversation, I will share how self-pleasure goes beyond mere satisfaction; it's a vital component o...

Send us Fan Mail After I dropped The Truth About Sex with Small Penises episode, the questions and requests came rolling in so I reached out to the Your favorite Urologist the incredible Dr. Milhouse she sat down with me to talk about how men and people with p*nises can increase their size. She walks viewers through all of their options and you'll be surprised at what you learn. I was! In thi...

Send us Fan Mail Happy Masturbation Monday! I have a dicey relationship with men, yet I keep finding myself fantasizing about them when I'm taking care of myself. So I decided to do some research and self-discovery and uncover what traits cis men possess that keep women (and myself) coming back for more. What I found out surprised the f*ck out of me. Listen in to find out what I desire most i...

Send us Fan Mail What is Pegging & How to Do It Safely. In this Locker Room Talk & Shots Podcast episode, I talk to Dominatrix Lucy and Ruby about what pegging is and how to do it with your partner safely. We answer listener questions and put together a guide for pleasure seekers everywhere. In this episode, we cover the following: What is pegging Men's G-Spot Myths about men’s sexual...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome to Masturbation Monday. I'm sharing the most important things you need to know about foreplay. These tips come from the sexperts I've interviewed over the past five years as well as the many women and vulva owners who have shared their views on what gets them wet. Prepare to find out the following: 1. Find out what is and is NOT foreplay.  2. Discover how to make...

Send us Fan Mail Happy Valentine's Day! Today, I'm going to walk you through the 10 types of Orgasms that Females (Women and Vulva Owners) can have. I'll tell you where the erotic spots (think G-Spot, A-Spot, O-Spot, and more) are and how you can activate and pleasure them.  In this episode, we explore:   Clitoral    U-Spot  G-Spot  A-Spot   O-Spot   Anal & O-Spot    Blended   ...

Send us Fan Mail If you've ever wondered if your sexual fantasies were strange or meant that you were a total kinkster freak, I encourage you to tune into this episode. I go over the top 5 sexual fantasies that women have and then read your fantasies submitted by women. I think you may be surprised to find that your fantasies are more common than you thought. Subscribe to my e-newsletter: htt...

Send us Fan Mail Making Love Vs. Having Sex: The Difference Explained This episode addressed the truth behind the difference between Making Love and Having Sex.  Listeners will be able to make the distinction by the end and know why it's important and how to ensure you and your partners are on the same page.  The following are some of the topics we address in this episode: Making love as a ki...