Tales of a Well Established Lesbian

The Well Established Lesbian is back to celebrate her 10th anniversary with her fiancé. Rome is on the cards and a weekend of celebrations. But can a cheeky city break really help these two get back on track? Or will they be derailed? And when it comes down to it, who really is the problem here? The WEL can’t help but get the sinking feeling that she might be the bad guy in this tale. This chapter...

The Well Established Lesbian’s life is getting busy. There are new faces, new places but she can’t help but make some familiar mistakes. Just as the WEL is busy making much ado about nothing, life hands her a reminder that no-one gets out alive. The Well Established Lesbian finds comfort in music, fake beards, and the people in her life. She also finds more than she expects when she cracks a book...

It’s summertime and the living is sort of easy, could be easier. The Well Established Lesbian faces down her mid thirties with Bank Holiday boozing, coaching & patriotic pride. Idols are met, football is cried over and what summer is complete without a festival? The Roller Derby season ends with an epic road trip. Let’s just say we won’t be allowed back in that B&B anytime soon, maybe even...

The Well Established Lesbian wants to take you back to 2016, yes, that unspeakable year. Life is moving rapidly, and this chapter is back to the rafters. From anniversary battles to corporate battles to team politics, there is nothing that isn’t coming the Well Established Lesbian’s way. She just wants to spend some quality time with her fiancé. A nice relaxing break perhaps? Barcelona you say. Wh...

Making friends as a supposed grown up is hard and the Well Established Lesbian is finding out that some people just make it more difficult. The WEL finds herself learning to deal with rivalries both on and off the track, raising questions about the team and her relationship. Between the latest drama and her concerns about substance abuse, the Well Established Lesbian talks openly the impact on the...

Welcome to another chapter of Tales of a Well Established Lesbian. It’s all change for the WEL and it’s the good kind of change for once. Unintended positive outcomes lead to Butch delight. The Well Established Lesbian’s new favourite hobby – Roller Derby – is getting very real and it’s time for her first game, or cherry popper as they called it. Will the WEL come up with a pun-tastic derby name?...

The Well Established Lesbian is livid about women’s pockets and that’s no euphemism. The Dentist has a plan and she’s not going to like it. In this chapter, the WEL will need to lean on Ashleigh but is that possible? How much is too much to ask? In the meantime, this lesbian couple need a Halloween costume to impress their new friends and they discover just how stressful adulting can be. Everyone...

The Well Established Lesbian is learning to adapt to her new life in the countryside and is becoming quite the housewife, only she wouldn’t call it that, obviously. The WEL has a little too much time on her hands and the pursuit of hobbies continues...if you count arguing with people on the internet as a hobby. And if you’re afraid of the Dentist, you’re in good gay company. The Well Established L...

Welcome back to another chapter in the life of the Well Established Lesbian. It’s all change for the couple as they embark on a new adventure. But why does nobody mention how much work u-hauling actually is? And is Butchness a superpower? How hard is it to find a new Barber? Why do we collect the things we do? Why won’t that sofa fit through that door? And who are "those lesbians"?  Listen no...

In this chapter it’s all change for the Well Established Lesbian. She shares another glimpse into the housemate trials as well as taking up a new sport and hitting the high street in search of a wardrobe update. But where does a Butch shop? And how does she avoid unwanted attention while doing it? And how on earth do you even find your style?! For the online shoppers amongst you, this chapter cont...

In this chapter the Well Established Lesbian goes all out to throw a surprise spectacular burlesque themed birthday bash for her fiancé, discovering in the process, a tiny bit of sympathy for the average bloke. She negotiates the big brother who makes an appearance and then deals with the drama that always seems to happen. Only this time, it’s the Well Established Lesbian’s best mate who is causin...

The Well Established Lesbian is midway through her New York adventure, she thinks it’s going great, but does her fiancé? Is it living up to the hype? No matter how the fairy-tale trip ends, the Butch will go to the Ball. In this chapter, the Well Established Lesbian discusses the vulnerability of her feminine side and how she tries to balances this with the masculine. It’s an action packed chapter...

In this chapter (Part I sort of) the Well Established Lesbian briefly relives her glory days and gets ready for the big trip to the big apple, to the city that never sleeps. But not everyone travels the same, as the WEL is going to find out. Full tourist mode is activated and we celebrate New Year's Eve in New York City, what more could you ask for? Want to keep the show ad-free? Consider subscrib...

Welcome back to another chapter of the life of the Well Established Lesbian and this week it's all about coming out, however and whenever you do it. The WEL discusses the lesbian love of IKEA and P!NK while trans atlantic adventures become a very real possibility. But it's not all about adulting, there's always time for a little fun... Enjoy the lack of ads? Help keep the show ad-free by subscribi...

In this chapter the Well Established Lesbian turns 30. It's a summer of celebrations, new job, Olympics on the doorstep and an escape to the sun. The Well Established Lesbian discusses how a Butch can navigate a summer wardrobe, poolside or not and plots a return to the glory of her youth. This chapter contains some colourful language and discussions of an lgbtqia+ nature. Want to keep the podcast...

Thanks for your patience, the Well Established Lesbian is back with another chapter, aged 29 and a half. From Christmas plans and parties ending in an unexpected fashion to the a new housemate is who is categorically not facebook friend material. The Well Established Lesbian has some assumptions challenged and shares a little of her wisdom she didn't know she was lucky to have. And the mystery of...

In this chapter the Well Established Lesbian considers a life in leathers and wonders how to deal with helmet hair. From motorbikes to stolen cars and anniversary/Valentines celebrations being ruined by the government, it's another tale of twists and turns. This chapter contains some colourful language. Follow on insta @wellestablishedlesbian Support via ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian Website we...

In the chapter the WEL takes a good look at the aftermath of the affair and herself. And then it's all about shopping trips, power trips and how to deal with Parents and Christmas when you're the "really good friend" and "housemate".  This chapter contains some colourful language. kofiwidget2.init('Support Me on Ko-fi', '#29abe0', 'V7V85LA1J');kofiwidget2.draw();

A chapter devoted to the eclectic mix of characters the Well Established Lesbian has lived with over the years. Giving a little background to what happens when 2 lesbians try to be landladies. Or just try to help the heartbroken. The devil, as always, is in the details. Love the show? Show your support at https://ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian This chapter does contain colourful language and ref...

The Well Established Lesbian cares not for your heteronormative rules, she wants a pretty shiny engagement ring. Will she get one? Or will she get far more than she bargained for? Turns out lesbians are not immune from the effects of a global financial crash - newly engaged and facing all the troubles of adulting, can the WEL and her fiancé find a way through it all? This chapter contains some col...

Join the Well Established Lesbian as she charts her path through the world of open relationships and a holiday brings focus and clarity on what's really important.  CW: Mentions of sexual assault. There is some colourful language in this chapter. Don't forget to follow on instagram or facebook!

In this chapter the Well Established Lesbian finds herself in the company of sheep, grateful for Pride and Femmes and with a few more career complications along the way. But wherever she looks, the WEL finds herself with options, including some she'd never considered. This episode contains some colourful language.

In this chapter the Well Established Lesbian ponders what it is that makes you a massive lesbian, the up and downs of stereotypes, her own mortality and navigating those "Meet the Parents" moments. She's made it through a quarter of a century, somewhat unexpectedly. Find out what comes next... This episode contains some mature themes and very little colourful language for once!

In this chapter the Well Established Lesbian bags herself a second date, makes things awkward and then tries really hard not to cry in front of her date. Throw in some Valentines Day pressure and an ex who's still a friend and things are as simple as ever for the WEL.

The Well Established Lesbian is back from her break with Chapter 20.  The year is 2007 and the WEL has a plan, which immediately goes out of the window.  This Butch has a first date and is out to impress, can she pull it off? Will it end with a kiss or in disaster? Let's face it, the Well Established Lesbian is due some good date karma... *There is some colourful language in this episode...