Swinger University® The Swinger Podcast for Education, Lifestyle & Travel

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com  In this episode we respond to a listener email about loud orgasms and squirting at swinger events. Along with some of our tips, pros and cons we threw in a few stories. We want all our listeners to become more comfortable if you're a little vocal in the orgasm department, or you like it when sex gets wetter. Su...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com The 3 C's of Swinging: Connecting/Courting, Communicating, and Courtesy. These 3 social elements play a large part in your swinger game whether you are hosting or attending a party. SHOW NOTES: Connecting / Courting Home Swinger Party Hotel - Planned v. Spontaneous Rules / Preferences Communicating Courtesy Supp...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com  Well, ladies, this is your episode. Phoebe challenged me to put my money where my mouth is so here it is…  The Swinger University guide to Oral Sex for the ladies. Gentleman, get out your pencils and notebooks, it's time to brush up on your licking technique.  SHOW NOTES:  Why Have Oral Sex?  Risks of Oral Sex...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com In this episode we discuss some of the pros and cons to the two approaches of finding play partners: FWB and DTF.  Friends With Benefits (FWB) Down To Foxy (DTF) The Nirvana of the Lifestyle Pros and Cons of FWB v. DTF Support the show Want More? 👀 Watch on YouTube : YouTube Show Full video versions and interactive...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com  In this episode we discuss a few questions sent to us by a listener about stamina expectations in the lifestyle. It can be a tricky situation, but we've got a few tips to keep your "head" in the game… We address stamina expectations in the lifestyle, how to lengthen your stamina and how to take a brea...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com How do you come back from an experience where one partner feels the other crossed the line in the lifestyle? We share a personal story, why it can occur and how you come back together after.  SHOW NOTES:  Why Does It Happen?  Uninhibited: chemical, libations, hormones  Miscommunication: verbal, non-verbal, codes  Not...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com How do you get a second swinger date with a couple?  We talk about how to reach out to that other couple without sounding desperate or creepy, yet confident! SHOW NOTES: Post Game Wrap-Up Timing Formula: Texting & IRL Examples:  IRL, Cruise, Hotel Takeover Follow Up Support the show Want More? 👀 Watch on YouTube...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com Not all condoms are safe for every BODY.  We discuss how condoms are different in regards to: additives, chemicals, latex sensitivities, lubricants, flavors, colors, and sharing!  Condoms in the lifestyle tend to be plentiful, and sometimes free, but are they right for you! SHOW NOTES: Types of Condoms Female Male Sp...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com Everyone likes to rave about single life, especially after getting out of a long-term relationship. We decided to flip this around and offer 15 reasons why staying together, but swinging is better than a single life.   Support the show Want More? 👀 Watch on YouTube : YouTube Show Full video versions and interactive...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com A review on Swinger Resorts: Temptations, Desire Riviera Maya and Desire Pearl.  This review compares and contrasts the differences between the resorts by: demographic, food, entertainment, cost, resort size and percentage of swinger opportunity. SHOW NOTES: Temptations Desire - Riviera Maya Desire - Pearl Support th...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com Masturbation is normal, natural and integral to our health and well-being.  This episode covers the importance of masturbation, sharing it with your partner and addressing some of the negative perspectives in society.  We also share some interesting stories of masturbation while swinging and historical facts you will...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com Clothes make the swinger... Swingers love to dress up and dress sexy!  We discuss the why swingers love it,  where to get it, and how to get comfortable wearing nothing but tape or paint! SHOW NOTES: Sexy Outfits Are Necessary Comfort Level Where to Shop  https://www.venus.com/default.aspx https://www.yandy.com/ http...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com Learning how to perform fellatio that both people enjoy depends on good communication with your partner, body comfort, education, techniques, an open mind, and enthusiasm!  We have combined years of experience, notes, books, research, blogs and chatroom information here for your listening pleasure.  Just remember…. A...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com How to keep the secret you are a swinger from your co-workers, friends and family. Lying is impossible to maintain, you're bound to trip up, and there's a better way. We help you come up with an alibi and share our 5 tips on talking about your adventures in swinging without outing yourself. SHOW NOTES: Peop...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com The benefits of kissing…not only is it good for your health, increase connection with your partner, kick things off in the bedroom, it may also help you pick your next swing partner!  We cover fun facts, why people kiss and 5 kissing techniques. SHOW NOTES Fun Facts Health Aspects Techniques Reasons We Kiss Book: The...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com Swinging can be defined as non-monogamy, specifically "ethical" or "consensual" non-monogamy.  We define all types of non-monogamy and explore the mental hurdles and judgements in the swinging lifestyle due to this label.  In addition, we will cover four things you can practice to be successful as...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com Swinging can bring up all kinds of feelings and jealousy and envy are definitely two of them.  What is Jealousy?  What is Envy?  You may find yourself experiencing these emotions in the lifestyle and not know how to interpret or resolve them.  Both emotions have positive and negative effects with jealousy having some...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com Lubes, Lubes, Lubes.  Women….which one do you choose?  We review all the base type of lubes for your safe swinging pleasure: water, glycerin, silicone, petroleum, and oil.  You will learn about the ingredients, pH, and how this plays a VERY important role for the female vagina.  Quality ingredients will reduce your S...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com Practicing safe sex may not be something you have done for awhile but if you are starting out in the swinger lifestyle, or are little rusty on your facts, this is definitely the podcast to listen to.  We are covering STIs, HIV, oral sex, and testing.  Swingers tend to be big on testing and we are going to break that...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com Finding the right fit in the swinging lifestyle can be challenging. Swinging with others involves compatibility, attraction, confidence and preferences.  It is very much like dating but waaaaay more complicated.  You may have found that the swinging lifestyle can get very challenging to coordinate all four interests...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com   We share our adventure in Reno with some new friends we met at the 2019 New Years event. We also discuss how important communication , and expectation can be in making any Swinger connection successful. Hope you enjoy… We sure did.  SHOW NOTES: Communication  Keep The Fire Burnin'! Don't Burn The Forest H...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com Are you ready to go when you get the call for fun?  A little pre-planning can make the evening go more smoothly. We discuss what's in our "Ho" bag, some extras, and the bare necessities for all swingers. Show Notes  Ed & Phoebe's Ho Bag Essentials For Your Ho Bag Full Ho or Semi-Ho! Support th...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com Overindulging on your drug of choice can have an impact on your interactions while swinging. We recall some of our experiences, and provide examples of how moderation is an important strategy for navigating social, and sexual interactions at lifestyle events. If you are looking for a guide on how to use drugs in the...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com Join Ed and Phoebe for New Year's 2019 at the largest Northern California Swinger Party.  Swing into 2020 with the lows and highs of each night.  We met some sexy friends then rang their bell and set the tone for 2020! Show Notes NYE PreParty Blues NYE Glam, Clits and Tits  NYE Blues 2 NY DAY Post Party Panned O...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com Another elective course reviewing a local house party! This party was hosted by one of the local unicorns, and it was fabulous... Join us to hear all the delectable details. Show Notes Sexy House Party & Buffet! More Than Just an Appetizer - Oh My! Mystery Meal Main Course - Sloppy but Not Seconds! Dessert Review...