Swinger University® The Swinger Podcast for Education, Lifestyle & Travel

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com Premature ejaculation gets the commercials and the jokes. Delayed ejaculation? Crickets. Yet this condition affects millions of men and their partners—and it matters more than you think. In this episode, we're breaking the stigma around delayed ejaculation. We explore the medical causes (medications, injuries, c...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com When you finally find your voice in the lifestyle, everything changes. In this episode, Ed and Phoebe explore one of the most transformational shifts couples make in ethical non-monogamy: moving from "going along to keep the peace" to confidently advocating for what you actually want. If you've ever sa...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com There's a real debate happening in the lifestyle community: Are "dirty vanillas" (people showing up to swinger events but not actually swinging) ruining the experience? Or is the real problem something we've completely misunderstood? In this episode, Ed and Phoebe dig into the data, share surprisi...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com How often are you really supposed to be having sex? Spoiler alert: You've been asking the wrong question. Society pushes a "magic number" for sexual frequency that's causing more harm than good. The truth? There is no normal. We're diving deep into why the three-times-a-week standard is BS, h...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com Why does a piece of chocolate trigger the same brain chemical as meeting someone new at a swinger party? This episode reveals the surprising neuroscience behind New Relationship Energy, dopamine addiction, and why the swinging lifestyle can feel impossible to walk away from. Ed and Phoebe break down the science of pl...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com Is swinging just a lighthearted hobby… or a defining lifestyle choice? In this episode of our swinger lifestyle podcast, we dive into the hobby vs lifestyle debate that’s sparking conversations across the swinger community and beyond. We explore why some couples embrace swinging as a fun, occasional activity — a play...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com Is "reclaiming" in the swinging lifestyle sexy ritual or possessive play? Ed and Phoebe unpack this controversial term, sharing their real experiences and perspectives from within the community. In this episode, we cover: The origins and controversy around the term "reclaiming" How language like &...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com Get real answers to burning questions about STI safety in the swinging lifestyle. Ed and Phoebe break down common myths, honest risks, and practical tips for safer sex at parties, events, and orgies. Why standard STI tests and "full panels" don't cover everything The dangers of a false sense of securit...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com Curious about what diversity really means in the swinger lifestyle? In this episode, Ed and Phoebe break down the surprising variety you’ll find—and why it’s not what you might expect. The wide range of body types, ages, and preferences within swinger communities Different styles of parties, play, and consent practic...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com Ever wondered what red flags you should watch for in the swinging lifestyle? In this episode of Swinger University , Ed and Phoebe dive deep into real-life stories of dates gone wrong, rude behavior, mismatched expectations, and questionable consent. From couples who show a totally different side on a second date, to...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com 00:00 - Start 01:01 - Tip 1: Pace It Out 03:31 - Tip 2: Fears and Expectations 06:17 - Tip 3: Get Uncomfortable 09:05 - Tip 4: Grow and Change 12:40 - Tip 5: Trust 21:34 - Lets talk about cheating... 22:47 - Wrap Up! Support the show Want More? 👀 Watch on YouTube : YouTube Show Full video versions and interactive li...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com Feeling like the lifestyle doesn’t light you up anymore? You’re not alone—and this episode is for you. In this powerful conversation, Ed and Phoebe from Swinger University sit down with Kel to talk about what it really means when your desires evolve and swinging starts to feel... different. 🌶️Get extra episodes and e...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com Have you ever had a night that changed everything? 🤯 We did. One minute we were a normal couple, listening to a podcast... the next, we were plunging headfirst into a secret swinger party we found on Craigslist! 😳 Join us as we reveal the shocking, raw, and completely unexpected story of how we became swingers. We...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com Are you curious about the swinger lifestyle but don't know where to start? This video is for you! We'll take you on a journey to unlock the secrets of this exciting and often misunderstood world, no experience required. From understanding what happens at parties to navigating the rules and etiquette, we&apo...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com With the current political climate taking aim at diversity, equity, and inclusion... Is the swinger lifestyle in the crosshairs? Are decisions being made that will affect our community? In this episode of Swinger University, we sit down with Brett Chamberlain, Executive Director at OPEN—a nonprofit dedicated to advoc...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com You're in the moment—the music is sexy, the lighting is perfect, and your partner is ready. But suddenly… nothing happens. Your mind races, and the pressure builds. Sound familiar? You’re not alone! In this episode of Swinger University , Ed and Phoebe dive deep into performance anxiety and erectile dysfunction...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com In this episode of Swinger University, we sit down with Alex Liu, the writer, director, and star of "A Sexplanation", a groundbreaking documentary that dives into sexual stigma, shame, and the lack of comprehensive sex education. Alex shares his journey from molecular biology to filmmaking, tackling taboos...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com In this eye-opening episode of Swinger University, Phoebe and Ed dive into the surprising connection between alcohol, swinging, and health risks. Explore how the social and uninhibited nature of alcohol impacts swingers, from parties to resorts and cruises, and why it’s everywhere in the lifestyle. Learn about alcoho...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com In this episode of Swinger University, we take a deep dive into our first full-swap experience and address insightful listener questions about the psychological and emotional dynamics that come with breaking traditional boundaries. From the thrill of connection to the surprising emotions that emerged, we explore how...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com Navigate New Relationship Energy (NRE) – Without Breaking Your Marriage! | Swinger University Can New Relationship Energy (NRE) bring excitement and passion to your life, or is it a risky road for your marriage? In this episode, Ed and Phoebe explore the highs and lows of NRE, offering science-backed insights and pra...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com Discover the secrets to becoming the lover everyone dreams of with Ashley Manta, an award-winning sex educator and certified sexologist. In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe explore transformative topics like mindfulness in intimacy, the role of cannabis in enhancing connection, consent, STI preventio...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com Have you ever been confused about a couple's interest after a party or dinner? Well no more, you'll be masters at approaching, connecting & sealing the deal. In this episode, we dive into the art of reading signals and confidently navigating how to close the deal with new partners. Whether you're n...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com Are terms like "DTF" or "friends with benefits" shaping the swinger lifestyle, or are they masking deeper dynamics?  Are swinger just hiding behind the safety of the "friends" label? In this video, we explore the complexities of forming friendships within the lifestyle, discuss the chall...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive into the nuances of "kissing and telling" within the swinger lifestyle. Explore the origins of this concept and how it contrasts between "vanilla" and lifestyle communities. We discuss social expectations, double standards, and when sharing...

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: contact@swingeruniversity.com Ever wondered what happens when swingers take their first big leap? In this episode, we dive into our unforgettable night at an Alice-in-Wonderland-themed swinger party hosted on a sprawling ranch, complete with a private theater, hot tub, and intimate encounters. Join us as we share the highs, the awkward moments, a...