Spit or Swallow Podcast

Welcome back to another episode of Spit or Swallow! This week, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Damian to talk about sex in relationships, what happens when desire fades, and things start to feel routine or unsatisfying. They unpack the Madonna-Whore complex, the impact of predictability on libido, and how a lack of sexual satisfaction can affect emotional connection. It’s an honest conversation about...

Welcome back to another episode of Spit or Swallow! This week, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Valerie for a conversation about non-sexual turn-ons and the power of sensory triggers. They explore how things like scent, sound, gaze, and energy can spark desire, even when it’s not tied to physical touch or sex. From deep eye contact to the texture of a voice, to the intimacy of tattoos and the allure o...

Welcome back to another episode of Spit or Swallow! This week, Hausa Chocolate is joined by certified fat loss coach and wellness educator Gbemi Giwa to talk about fitness, nutrition and how it all ties into our sex lives. They chat about how what we eat can influence desire, why moving our bodies can boost confidence, and how that confidence can show up in the bedroom, sometimes in the form of be...

On this new episode of the Spit or Swallow Podcast, Hausa Chocolate sits down with the brilliant Dr. Onyii to break down the very necessary conversation around sexual health. From regular checkups to STIs, contraceptives, pleasure, and myths we really need to unlearn.  They get into what safe sex actually looks like, why shame should have no place in your sexual health journey, and how to adv...

 We didn’t mean to ghost you, but we’re back! In this episode of the Spit or Swallow Podcast, Hausa Chocolate is joined by creator and artiste Sheila as they explore the deeper, spiritual side of sexual connection. From the merging of bodies to the merging of energies, and no, we don’t mean soul ties, they talk about how sex can be a tool for healing, awakening and transformation. Enjoyy! The...

Welcome to another special episode of the Spit or Swallow podcast! Today, Hausa Chocolate is joined by talented creatives, William and Ayo Lawal. Together they discuss marriage, infidelity, assumptions and misconceptions about monogamous marriages, Madonna-Whore Complex, sexual safety, contraceptives, keeping sex spicy and so much more. Themes: Long Term Relationships, Infidelity, Madonna-Whore Co...

Welcome back to Spit or Swallow, where we dive deep into the juiciest topics around sex, relationships and intimacy. In this episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by our favourite guest, amazing journalist, critic and Sex Sensei, Ed Gothboy. Join them as they delve into the concept of "dickmatization," explore the allure of having that unexplainable "Sauce,", unpack the complexities of casual yet eve...

Welcome back to another episode of Spit or Swallow! On this special episode, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by a gender non-conformist Gozie who is a model and creative powerhouse. They share their experience navigating being a minority in Nigeria, shed light on their journey and coming into their own identity while tackling the social challenges of non-conformity head-on and so m...

Welcome back to Spit or Swallow Podcast! Joining your favourite host Hausa Chocolate today is Licensed Clinical Psychologist Aanu and they discuss trauma and sex. What trauma really means, how it manifests, cause and effect and what healing can look like. Aanu shares her insights on how inclusive therapy can be a game-changer in healing and growth, the importance of safe and affirming spaces for a...

What’s the difference between love and crack? Today on this special episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Dark Chocolate Amiola and they talk about our favourite chemical reaction in the brain, love. They examine the relationship between sex and love. From the complexities of developing strong emotional attachments to the delicate balance between desire and vulnerability. Does love make bad sex fe...

On the latest episode of Spit or Swallow your favorite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by Tolu, a married, queer-identifying Nigerian. She shares her becoming story. They talk about her first pride event after moving, navigating queer sexual identities in a heterosexual marriage, discovering community abroad, how relocating changes how a person views and expresses their sexual identity and much m...

In today’s episode Hausa Chocolate is joined by Olori Coitus, a brilliant Sex Educator, Intimacy Director and Public Health Expert.  They unpack the exciting world of spreading accurate information on sex in Nigeria's sexually ‘repressed’ society. Olori Coitus shares how she got into Sexual Health, her journey so far, the road blocks she’s experienced in Nigeria being a sex educator and much...

Hausa Chocolate is joined by a male stripper extraordinaire, Sugar Ken! Together they dive into the exciting world of stripping! While Sugar Ken might not be giving away free lap dances, he's certainly serving up some piping hot truths! They discuss the highs and lows of stepping into the spotlight, tips for successful marketing and branding in the industry, and the delicate dance of managing clie...

On today’s episode, Hausa Chocolate sits with an erotic goddess, a reiki healer, companion and guide, Joy. They talk about the connection between sex and spirituality, helping men access deeper intimacy and their inner eros. Joy’s journey as a medium and a creator and also exploring unconventional love and relationship styles. Enjoyy! Themes: Spirituality , Polyamory, Eros Don’t forget to rate us...

On this amazing episode of the podcast, Hausa Chocolate gets into silver sex with Cheron. K. Griffin an dating concierge, author, matchmaker and relationship coach together with her husband Mr. Hunni Bunni. They discuss her journey transitioning out of purity culture as an ex preacher’s wife, her various marriages, finding herself and true love with her new partner. They also discuss misconception...

Love is in the air! Isn’t it? On this special episode of the Spit or Swallow podcast, Hausa Chocolate, Luciano and Torera talk about love, romance and everything Valentine’s Day! What do you do when your situationship airs you on Love Day? They also discuss their hate languages, share funny stories, past experiences and talk about what love means to them. Themes: Love, Valentine’s, Relationships D...

On this amazing episode, your favourite host is joined by Teso, a model, writer and podcaster and creative. They discuss their sexual liberation journeys. The impact of visible voices going against the grain. They also talk about partnerships, community and finding alignment into today’s society. Enjoyy Themes: Sexual Liberation, Feminism, SocietyDon’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connected w...

On this amazing episode of the pod, Hausa Chocolate gets into holistic wellness with Oyin Talabi. They discuss New Year Resolutions, the Mind-Body-Spirit connection mindful living practices, becoming in tune with one’s self and general tips on improving our mental health and sex lives. Themes: Mindfulness, Meditation, Wellness Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connected with us on: - Instagr...

On this interesting episode, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Play Smith and his wife Wade who are in an open marriage. They discuss how they met, the easy and hard parts of being in an open marriage, navigating it with friends, family and the dating pool, trust, honesty and so much more! Enjoyy! Themes: Open Relationships, Polyamory, Sexual Wellness Don’t forget to rate us and sh...

Welcome back to another amazing season of the Spit Or Swallow Pod with your favourite host Hausa Chocolate! On today’s slightly chaotic episode, Hausa Chocolate and the multifaceted Dr SID discuss intimacy differences in men and women, how logic and emotion feed love, analyze what makes long term relationships last, sexual liberalism, communication and so much more! Themes: Non Exclusive Partnersh...

It’s another Season Finale! Thank you so much for sticking with us this season! On this episode, Hausa Chocolate and Tushar talk labels, gender and queer s-x! They have an insightful conversation about what it’s like to be questioning while actively exploring your identity in the tumultuous yet exciting city of Lagos!   Themes: Gender, Sexuality, Labels Enjoyy! Themes: Mental Health, Anxiety,...

On this episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Nengi Adoki and they discuss going from the streets to the sheets and the messiness that happens in between. They also talk open relationships, cheating, what to do when you’re propositioned by a couple and more! Themes: Casual Sex, Polyamory, Power Dynamics Enjoyy! Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connected with us on: - Instagram: @spitorswall...

On this episode Hausa Chocolate holds an insightful conversation about sexual safety with award winning writer and activist , Tayo Bero. they talk about psychological and emotional safety and sex, sexual agency, power dynamics and the radicalisation of pleasure. Themes: Safe Sex, Sexual Agency, Gender Norms Enjoyy Themes: Mental Health, Anxiety, Sexual Wellness Don’t forget to rate us and share! S...

On today's important episode, your favorite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by storyteller Valerie Ekpo and the girls talk red! They discuss Periods, PMS, PMDD, and other conditions like PCOS and Endometriosis. They also talk about period sex and period shame. Enjoy! Themes: Periods, Period Sex, PCOS Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connected with us on: - Instagram: @spitorswallowpod - Tw...

On this juicy episode, your fave host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by an SOS favorite Ed Goth Boy and they get into a loaded and informative conversation about what gets us in the mood for sex. How media influences the kind of sex we have, they also go into sex playlists and the differences between Ritual and Ego Sex Music. Dive in and enjoy! Themes: Sex In Media, Sex Playlists, Sensory Stimulation...