Spit or Swallow Podcast

On this riveting episode your fave Hausa Chocolate is joined by two Erotic Writers Ore Badmus and sexfluencer Ola AKA Lavezzed Out. They talk about erotica, sex writing and sexual fantasies. They also discuss multipartnered sexual relationships and share some real life and slightly garnished sex stories. Enjoyyy!! Themes: Erotica, Sexual Fantasy, Pornography Don’t forget to rate us and share!...

As mental health awareness month draws to a close your favorite host Hausa Chocolate touches on the nexus between mental health and sex. How they are connected and all moving parts of the same system. She discusses the psychological benefits of a good Sex Life, some sexual dysfunctions and the importance of sexual self-actualization, and more. Enjoyy! Themes: Mental Health, Anxiety, Sexual Wellnes...

On this exciting episode of the pod, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by queer activist, creative, and writer, Kayode Ani. They dive into a multifaceted discussion about the politics and realities of queerness in Nigeria. Kayode shares his experiences being an activist, they discuss his journey, facing violence as well as the various nuances of masculinity and how heteronormative nor...

On today’s episode, your fave host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by visual artist, Alexis and they discuss bad sexual communication during sex. We always go on about ‘communication’ being the bedrock of good sex but what are the wrong ways to do it in and out of the bedroom? Enjoy! Themes: Sexual Communication, Shame, Ghosting Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connected with us on: - Instagram:...

On this super interesting episode, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by an Adult Film Star and they take a glimpse into the Nigerian porn industry. Wunmin Savage shares her experiences being a porn actress and navigating the adult content scene in Nigeria. They talk about dealing with the attention, revenue and so much more! Themes Discussed: Adult Entertainment, Porn, Societal Norms...

On today’s episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Lotanna Don and they discuss Oral Sex, its importance, societal and gender attitudes towards giving and receiving oral sex and share some of their experiences. They also discuss tips for better head and Hausa Chocolate whips at some interesting tools so don’t forget to catch the episode on YouTube too! Themes Discussed: Oral Sex, Foreplay, Sex Toys...

This week on the pod Hausa Chocolate is joined by @the_mansu, CEO of HerRyde and they have an insightful conversation about reconciling sex and sexuality with religion. A lot of societal attitudes and views on sex are shaped by religion and interpretations of it, so how do you express yourself sexually when some of your beliefs are inherently suppressive? Themes: Sexual Exploration, Religious Infl...

On this episode, your favorite host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by music consultant Folusho OG and they have a hilarious, informative episode about masturbation, early sex education, MMF threesomes, sexting, sex tapes, and the underground sex scene. Themes Discussed: Erotophobia, Morality, Monogamy Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connected with us on: - Instagram: @spitorswallowpod - Twitte...

On this week's episode, our delectable host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by TV presenter and fellow podcaster Valerie Ike. They dive into a riveting discussion about sexual communication and all the chaos in between. Why don’t people communicate with their partners easily about sex? How do you express your sexual needs? What happens if you throw up Egusi during head? Tap in to listen to all this and...

This week, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Coco and they have a super interesting discussion about the continuum of sexuality and attraction. If a bisexual woman can only have sex with women but will date and marry men could that be homophobia and social conditioning? How much of our preferences are not externally influenced? Tap in to listen to this conversation. Themes Discussed: Heteroromanticism,...

On this sizzling episode, our self-appointed orgasm gap eradicator is joined by Ashley Okoli where they discuss sexuality and sensuality, objectification, Living confidently as your truest self and so much more! Don't forget to like, subscribe and share! It allows more people to find and enjoy the podcast Themes discussed: Sexualization, Sexuality, Queerness Don’t forget rate us and Share! Stay co...

On today’s episode Hausa Chocolate is joined by Ashley Okoli and they discuss sexuality vs sensuality, how people often use them interchangeably, dealing with preconceived notions and certain types of energy when you’re perceived as a ‘sexual being’. They also touch on authenticity and living confidently as your truest self and much more. Themes Discussed: Sexuality, Visibility, Sexualization Don’...

Our delectable host, Hausa Chocolate is back and putting the ho in wholesome. On this episode, she’s joined by illustrious artist and photographer Anna Roberts and they discuss the intricacies and nuances of coming into oneself sexually, sexual expectations of men and overall ways to have a more fulfilling sex life. Themes Discussed Stereotypes, Pleasure, Morality  Don’t forget to rate us and...

This episode, Our host - The Orgasm Gap Eradicator' and The Pleasure Priest - Two women in the sexual wellness space link up for an exciting episode.  They discuss sensuality, sex education, teaching women how to connect with their bodies and how to live a more orgasmic life. And much more!  Themes discussed: Sensuality, Orgasms, Sexual Wellness, Sexuality Don’t forget rate us and Share!...

On this episode, our host is back for a new season with bigger, badder energy, still putting the ‘ho’ in wholesome and staying sexy while doing it. She is joined by musician and the podcast producer 'RnB Princess, they take a peek into Hausa Chocolate’s DMs, discuss interesting “Sex Lives Of’ submissions and share a few Sex Stories. Themes discussed: Relationships, Public sex, Sex Stories and the...

And for our last episode of the season, our host is joined by health professional, Dr. Nosa Jeff Oshodi (a.k.a Dr. Stallion) to discuss sexually transmitted infections, diseases and all other sexy time infections. In this episode, they discuss the distinction between STIs and STDS, unprotected sex, using over-the-counter relief options or self-medication, the importance of getting tested regularly...

This week our host is joined by one of the sexiest men in Nollywood, Eso Dike. In this episode, they discuss sexual stereotypes and ‘sexpectations’ of men alongside parental influence and sexual kinks. Eso also shares some tea on his experience as an attractive actor in Nollywood, being sexualized, ‘pretty privilege’ and more. Themes: Stereotypes, Pornography, Fluidity, Pretty-Privilege, Sexual Ki...

On this week’s special solo episode, our host takes us through an in-depth discussion into having better and more enjoyable sex. She dissects popular sexual myths, explores the importance of some key sexual concepts such as consent, communication (when & how), masturbation, performance anxiety, premature ejaculation, and more. She also speaks about various sexual preferences and how to be more...

On this episode, our host is joined by multifaceted artiste/rap goddess, SGawD to discuss Transactional Sex and how it differs from Sex Work. They also talk about the ‘Billings’ pandemic, Lagos streets and if there is true romance without finance. Themes discussed: Sex Work, Finances, Relationships, and more.  Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connected with us on: - Instagram: @spitors...

On this episode, our host is joined by Bespoke Designer & Writer and dependable fucks connoisseur, Ed. This fully-packed conversation spanned from Age Gaps in sex & relationships, gender performance and sexuality to dependable and ratchet fucks. We also touch on the primality of sex, your vestigial sex self and how your ultimate orgasm might lie in the hands of someone in the ‘trenches’. T...

This week, our host is joined by Enee (artist/creative) and they discuss Asexuality. Together, they dissect the sex life of an Asexual person within the African community and the performative culture of sex due to heteronormativity. Enee also shares her journey of self discovery and experiences amidst under-representation. Themes discussed: Sexuality, Relationships, Purity Culture, and more. ...

On this week’s episode, our host is joined by Mene (digital creator & entrepreneur) to discuss sexual relationships and friendships. Is having sex with your friends a big deal? Does it change the friendship for the worse or better? They discuss their experiences, preferences and boundaries. They also open the floor to a few men in the room to share personal experiences with sex in their friend...

On this week’s episode, our host is joined by Yazzavelli - rapper, singer and songwriter. They discuss the over-sexualization of women who are comfortable in their sexuality, being stereotyped when you have a ‘baddie’ persona and their general experiences in a conformist society.  Themes discussed: Over-Sexualisation, Nudity, Dressing, Patriachy, and more. Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay c...

On this week’s episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Writer and Founding member of the Feminist’s Coalition, Ozzy Etomi! They discuss relationships styles such as Polyamory and Consensual Non-Monogamy and why people would rather cheat than have Open Relationships. They also touch on living your best life amidst family and societal pressures. Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connected with u...

On this week’s episode, our host is joined by the girls of the TMT Podcast (Tomisin and Malobi) for an exciting episode on sexual preferences. They discuss sex with or without the lights, wigs, bonnets and the savagery of the Lagos dating scene. Don’t forget to rate us and share! Follow us on Instagram & TikTok: @spitorswallowpod & our host - @hausachocolate  Follow our new Twitter page: @...