Created by Kervin K. Searles, LPC

Speaking with Gravity

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Speaking with Gravity is a bi-weekly mental health and culture podcast created to break stigma and open doors to healing in the Black community. Hosted by mental health professionals and real people living real life, we have honest, down-to-earth conversations about what we’re carrying and how to cope with stress, anxiety, trauma, identity, relationships, grief, purpose, and more. Our mission is simple: spark conversations that help you think, feel, and do what’s best for you, because everything affects everything. This podcast is educational and inspirational. It does not replace therapy.

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Created by Kervin K. Searles, LPC

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Health

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Jul 2, 2026

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Episodes

Blocking Negativity: Episode 84 02.02.2025

Welcome to Speaking with Gravity podcast, on this episode we discuss an essential topic that affects us all: blocking negativity. From negative energy and toxic people to unwanted expectations and discouraging experiences, negativity can weigh heavily on our minds and hearts. In this episode, we’ll explore effective strategies to recognize and mitigate these harmful influences in our lives. We’ll...

Understanding the Reality of ADHD: Episode 83 31.12.2024

Welcome to Speaking with Gravity, the podcast where we connect mental health to everyday life while making you think, feel, and act. In today’s episode, we dive into the world of ADHD—Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder—and what it truly means to live with this neurodevelopmental condition. ADHD is often a buzzword in media and pop culture, but how accurately is it portrayed? From exaggerated...

Turning Frustration into Your Ally: Episode 82 12.12.2024

In this episode, we take a closer look at frustration, an emotion often seen as negative and overwhelming. But what if frustration could actually be a powerful ally for growth and change? We explore: - The deeper causes of frustration - How to reframe your perspective to embrace this emotion - Practical strategies to channel frustration into positive action ✨ **Why Listen?** Frustration doesn’t h...

Grieving Holistically Through Loss: Episode 81 14.11.2024

In Episode 81, Grieving Holistically Through Loss, we explore the deep journey of navigating grief while striving to maintain self-care and everyday routines. Join us as we sit down with grief counselor Tamara Houston, who shares her powerful story and expertise. Together, we delve into the critical role of creating and sustaining self-care strategies that foster moments of peace and stability in...

Roots of Resilience, Nurturing Emotional Regulation in Our Children: Episode 80 31.10.2024

In this episode of Speaking with Gravity , we dive into a fundamental aspect of mental wellness for the next generation: emotional regulation in children. Raising resilient children starts with equipping them to understand, express, and manage their emotions effectively. As parents, educators, and caregivers in the African American community, fostering resilience isn’t just a goal—it’s a gift we c...

Understanding Your Why: Episode 79 17.10.2024

Welcome back to Speaking with Gravity! In this enlightening episode, we dive deep into the fascinating world of Emotional Intelligence (EQ). What exactly is emotional intelligence, and why has it become a cornerstone of success in both our personal and professional lives? Join us as we explore: - The key components of emotional intelligence - How EQ influences our relationships and interactions -...

Avoid Self Sabotage (Fail at Failing): Episode 78 03.10.2024

In this insightful episode of Speaking with Gravity, Joshua, Hannah, Terance, and special guest Kiewanna Hills dive deep into the topic of self-sabotage. Ever wonder why we sometimes stand in our own way? This episode uncovers what self-sabotage really is, why we do it, and—most importantly—how to break free from this self-destructive cycle. With a mix of personal stories, expert insights, and pra...

Building Your Coping Kit: Episode 77 19.09.2024

The best coping skills are the ones we do regularly or periodically throughout the day or week. Although a weeklong getaway sounds fun, there can be more benefit from regular, frequent stress management activities. 00:01 Intro 01:04 the people want to know 05:38 putting your needs before your wants 08:42 stress management activities 11:00 having a coping kit 15:53 Terance's bike rides 17:09 am...

Setting The Record Straight: Episode 76 05.09.2024

Personality disorders are complex mental health conditions but unfortunately they are also surrounded by a cloud of myths and misconceptions that can prevent people from seeking help and understanding those who are affected. In this episode we shed light on the truth about personality disorders. From separating fact from fiction to challenging stigma and promoting empathy.

Mental Health Health Tips for Students: Episode 75 22.08.2024

Its another episode of Speaking with Gravity where we discuss mental health and how everything affects everything. Hosted by Terance, Hannah, and Joshua...this podcast aim to have meaningful conversations and difficult dialogue on various topics. This episode, a special guest, Kervin Searles join the hosts to discuss mental health among our college students. Kervin Searles is the original host of...

Resilience vs Survival: Episode 74 27.06.2024

In this thought-provoking episode, we discuss the contrasting yet interconnected concepts of resilience and survival. While survival often evokes images of mere endurance and getting by in the face of challenges, resilience speaks to the ability to bounce back, adapt, and thrive in the midst of adversity. From personal anecdotes to expert insights, this episode challenges us to reflect on our own...

Choosing The Right People: Episode 73 13.06.2024

We explore the topic of choosing the right people in your life. From understanding your values to setting boundaries and fostering supportive connections, we discuss key strategies to cultivate a positive and enriching social circle. Join us as we navigate the intricate dance of relationships and mental health. 00:00 excerpt clip 01:57 credits and introduction 04:31 make sure you evaluate the peop...

Unseen Struggles: Episode 72 30.05.2024

In this episode of Speaking with Gravity , we explore the often unseen struggles that individuals face when dealing with mental health issues in the context of employment. We explore the challenges, stigmas, and barriers that can impact a person's ability to thrive in the workplace and provide insights on how both individuals and organizations can better support mental health in the workplace.

Transcending Trauma: Episode 71 16.05.2024

In this episode, we explore how individuals can move beyond their past experiences to embrace healing and growth. We discuss the powerful role of forgiveness—not just of others, but of oneself—in releasing the hold of trauma. Our hosts share inspiring dialogue of reframing negative beliefs, turning pain into purpose, and finding strength in vulnerability. Learn practical strategies for cultivating...

Addressing Culture in Therapy: Episode 70 02.05.2024

Join hosts Hannah, Joshua, and Terance on this 70th episode of Speaking with Gravity as they share their insight on how culture influence our minds. Discover how the traditions and beliefs of culture can shape the way we think and act. From the way we work to the way we communicate, explore the subtle yet powerful ways culture impacts our daily lives. Whether you're a curious listener or a psy...

The New Healthy Relationships: Episode 69 18.04.2024

In our current society, healthy relationships involve embracing new roles for men and women that are not constrained by traditional gender roles and expectations. (00:01) Introduction (05:32) Are we keeping any old traditional gender roles? (10:12) Friendship is the foundation of a great relationship (16:47) Reciprocate each other's love language (24:28) Be okay with friends of the opposite sex (2...

Strengthening Family Bonds: Episode 68 04.04.2024

Join us as we explore insightful tips, heartwarming stories, and expert advice on how to nurture and enhance your family relationships. Whether you're a parent, sibling, grandparent, or simply someone who values the importance of family, this episode is for you. Don't miss out on this enriching discussion that will inspire you to prioritize your family and cultivate a sense of unity and love withi...

How To Deal With Anger: Episode 67 21.03.2024

Dealing with anger involves recognizing and managing the emotion in healthy ways. So how do we deal with the inevitable? Today we take a a moment to identify the triggers and underlying feelings that are associated with anger. While it is definitely okay to feel angry, it is more important to respond to it in a constructive and healthy manner. (00:20) Introducing the new hosts Joshua (@garvey4pres...

Overcoming Adversity: Episode 66 07.03.2024

Overcoming adversity is the process of successfully navigating and transcending significant challenges, hardships, or obstacles in one's life. This concept encompasses the capacity to adapt, grow, and thrive in the face of adversity, despite the presence of difficult circumstances. Whether you're facing personal struggles, professional setbacks, or unexpected roadblocks, this episode will provide...

Healing is Your Responsibility: Episode 65 22.02.2024

In this episode of Speaking with Gravity, hosts Joshua (@garvey4pres), Hannah (@hannahelyse__), and Terance (@terance_dawkins) discuss the concept of healing and its pivotal role in personal growth and empowerment. Through engaging discussion and insightful anecdotes, they explore what it truly means to take responsibility for one's healing journey. Listeners will connect with the host as they...

What About Now: Episode 64 15.12.2023

In this episode of Speaking with Gravity, we explore the psychology of instant gratification, investigating its profound impact on our daily lives. We begin by defining the term and unraveling the dopamine-driven reward system that fuels our desire for immediate satisfaction. Our expert hosts dissect the cognitive biases at play, illustrating how the quest for instant rewards shapes decision-makin...

Getting The Most Out of Our Kids through Restorative Practices: Episode 63 30.11.2023

Join host Kervin K. Searles, LPC, in a profound episode of Speaking with Gravity as he explores restorative practices with Dr. Tawio Barksdale. In this compelling conversation, Kervin and Dr. Barksdale explore the intricacies of building and fortifying relationships with our children through the lens of restorative practices. No matter if you're a parent, guardian, teacher, or anyone playing a...

Trauma Impact on Relationship: Episode 62 30.11.2023

In this enlightening episode we explore how trauma affects relationships. Speaking with Gravity, welcomes guest host, Terance Dawkins, as he shares profound ways traumatic experiences can shape our capacity to connect, trust, and engage in healthy relationships.

Finding Hope in Despair, Strategies for Staying Positive: Episode 61 02.11.2023

We explore the topic that hits close to home for many of us: the struggle to find hope and stay positive in a world that often feels overwhelming and disheartening. With news of conflict, suffering, and injustice bombarding us daily, it's no wonder that maintaining our mental health can be such a challenge. But giving in to despair is not the answer. In this episode, we're going to explore...

However the Cards May Fall, Hold Space: Episode 60 19.10.2023

Welcome to Speaking with Gravity, a podcast all about mental health and how different things can impact each other. In this episode, we'll show you how special cards can help people talk and share their feelings. When we use these cards to help people talk, it's important to make sure we support and keep the conversations going. SUBSCRIBE & LIKE! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/spe...

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