Speak Honest Podcast: Real Talk on Relationships, Attachment Styles & the Work of Healing Childhood Trauma

Have you ever wondered how your attachment style might be shaping the way you give and receive love?   In this episode of Speak Honest, Jenn dives into the fascinating connection between attachment styles and love languages. Whether you're familiar with these concepts or just getting started, Jenn explores how understanding both can lead to healthier, more fulfilling relationships. She breaks...

 Ever wondered what it takes to land a TEDx talk and own that red dot 🔴 ? In this episode, Jenn Noble dives into her TEDx journey alongside her friend, Jordan Harmon. They share their unique experiences from the initial application to the aftermath of their talks, highlighting how Toastmasters played a crucial role in their preparation. Whether you're dreaming of giving your own TEDx talk or...

Have you ever felt a knot in your stomach because you fear you've upset someone? In this episode of Speak Honest, I have a heartfelt conversation with Jo, a long-time client, about her ongoing struggle with the fear of upsetting others. Despite doing extensive work on her self-worth and understanding her core wounds, Jo still finds herself trapped in cycles of overthinking and anxiety. We del...

Have you ever felt overwhelmed by your emotions and struggled to manage intense feelings? In today's short episode of Speak Honest, we dive into the fascinating world of somatic experiencing. Discover the history behind this powerful technique, why it works, and how you can start practicing it to better manage your emotions. You might want to listen if: You find it challenging to control your...

Have you ever wondered if your relationship struggles are due to your attachment style or your partner's behavior? In today's episode, we dive deep into this complex issue with Kim, who is grappling with whether her triggers stem from her attachment style or her partner's actions. Join us as we explore the nuances of attachment styles, communication, and somatic experiencing. You mi...

Are you struggling to figure out if you lean more anxious or dismissive in your attachment style? In this episode of Speak Honest, I’m answering a listener’s question about Disorganized Attachment, also known as Fearful Avoidant attachment. We'll explore how this attachment style can cause you to swing between anxious and dismissive tendencies based on your relationship dynamics. With persona...

Are you ready to uncover how attachment styles can transform your personal growth and relationships?  On this week's podcast, I chat with Bev Mitelman, a certified integrated attachment coach. Bev takes us through her fascinating journey from professional development to becoming an attachment coach.  This podcast might be for you if... You want to understand how attachment styles affect perso...

Have you ever wondered how much your life can change in a decade? In this special episode of Speak Honest, I reflect on my journey from a tumultuous time at 30 to celebrating my 40th birthday with newfound wisdom and strength. Join me as I share the pivotal moments and lessons learned along the way. Discover the power of embracing change and how drastically your life can transform within just 10 y...

Are you curious about what a relationship coach does and how they can help you build fulfilling relationships? Do you want to understand the difference between therapy and coaching and why you might choose one over the other? If so, this podcast might be for you. This podcast might be for you if: You struggle with setting boundaries in relationships. You are interested in emotional self-care and p...

Have you ever struggled with ending a relationship gracefully, torn between your care for the person and your need for self-respect? In this episode, I have a heartfelt conversation with Jisselle about her on-again-off-again relationship. We explore how to end such relationships with grace and compassion, focusing on setting clear boundaries, understanding emotional responsibility, and prioritizin...

Have you ever felt conflicted about your feelings towards your parents, loving them deeply while also recognizing the pain they may have caused? In this episode, I share personal stories about my relationship with my father and explore how our attachment styles, formed by our primary caregivers, influence our current emotional well-being and relationships. We discuss the importance of acknowledgin...

Have you ever found yourself in a heated argument with your partner, only to realize later that it was all a big misunderstanding? In this episode, I have a heartfelt coaching call with Christine, who is struggling with communication issues in her marriage. We dive deep into a recent conflict she had with her husband and explore the underlying issues that have been building up over time. You might...

Do you find yourself frustrated when people don't meet your expectations, even after you've made them clear? Perhaps it's not just about what's being said, but how it's being communicated. This episode of Speak Honest dives into the complexities of frustration in relationships, focusing on how miscommunications and unmet expectations can escalate conflicts. Learn how to ef...

Are you questioning whether your relationship expectations stem from your own desires or from societal pressures? Maybe it's time to dive into where these expectations really come from. This episode is a compelling exploration of one woman's journey to discern her true relationship needs and confront the challenging dynamics of a disorganized attachment style. Through a heart-to-heart wi...

Are you constantly sharing your "feelings" with your partner, but find they seem overwhelmed and shut down every time you do? Maybe it's not your feelings you're sharing—it could be your perceptions. This episode unravels the subtle yet significant differences between emotions and perceptions and their impact on communication. Discover how to clearly articulate true emotions an...

In this heartfelt episode, we dive into the emotional complexities of maintaining a friendship with an ex. Our guest, Grace, shares her personal struggles with deciding whether she can be just friends with someone she previously had romantic feelings for. After a tumultuous relationship marked by on-and-off communication and unresolved feelings, Grace and her ex attempt to forge a platonic relatio...

Are you caught in a cycle of conflict and misunderstanding in your relationships? This episode takes you through the Drama Triangle, a psychological model that highlights the roles of victim, persecutor, and rescuer that we often unconsciously adopt. Learn how these roles restrict us and discover a path to empowerment by transitioning into the roles of creator, challenger, and coach. By embracing...

Ever found yourself tangled in friendship drama that feels like a never-ending soap opera?  In today's episode of Speak Honest, we dive deep with Sarah into the murky waters of friendship conflicts, uncovering the roles we play in the drama triangle. With a sprinkle of laughter, a dash of wisdom, and a whole lot of heart, we explore the importance of treating our friendships with the same car...

On this episode of "Speak Honest," we explore the essential topic of grounding techniques and their significant impact on managing emotional triggers and stress. We discuss what triggers mean, how they can act as catalysts for personal growth, and the importance of grounding techniques in turning these moments from potential setbacks into opportunities for mindfulness and presence. Shari...

In this heart-to-heart episode, we dive deep with Sonja, a fellow coach who's navigating the tricky waters of perfectionism and the weight of responsibility in her coaching world. Together, we peel back the layers of Sonja's relationship with herself, her amazing clients, and the heartbeat of her business. It's all about finding that sweet spot between growing personally and shining...

Ever had a moment when something small made your emotions skyrocket? We all have, and it's not just about big, scary stuff from our pasts. Today, we're taking a cue from Gabor Maté, an awesome psychologist, to look at triggers in a cool new way. Think of it like finding secret messages from your emotions, showing you ways to grow and get better at handling tough moments. We're going...

Dive into the heart of love's ebbs and flows with our latest episode, with the wonderfully open and insightful Alex. We peel back the layers of her tumultuous on-again, off-again relationship, examining how this constant cycle is impacting her well-being and sense of self-worth. Our conversation delves deep into the importance of understanding personal desires and the power of recognizing one...

Today we're getting into the nitty-gritty of how our attachment styles—be it secure, anxious, avoidant, or even disorganized—shape the way we juggle needing others and standing on our own two feet in our relationships. We're talking about what it means to lean on someone just the right amount, how to spot when it's tipping into codependency, or when we're pulling away too much...

Conquering Perfectionism and Imposter Syndrome: A Journey into Casual Teaching In our latest episode, join me, Jennifer Noble, as we dive deep with Dee, a dedicated casual teacher navigating the choppy waters of perfectionism and imposter syndrome in the teaching world. Dee opens up about the high stakes of living up to full-time teacher standards, her relentless pursuit of improvement, and the we...

Today's 'Speak Honest' episode serves up a slice of wisdom on moving past breakups and the all-too-familiar rumination on exes. 🍕💔 Ever caught yourself idealizing past relationships, thinking it's love keeping you hooked? We dive into why it's often more about missing the feelings they brought into our lives, not the person themselves. We tackle a listener's query w...