Sholom Bayis and important life topics

key points on your children; what damages your marriage damages your children; flaw of being an expert at what your spouse does wrong instead of looking at yourself in the mirror for self correction;     Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is  sholombayis777@gmail.com

intensity vs. intimacy; caring vs. taking care of; balancing your needs and the needs of your marriage;   "Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

 (Zelig Pliskin) powerful tool of looking through the lens of self confidence; using power of changing lenses in all areas of life; using "stop signs" on negative thoughts; the healing power of forgiveness;   Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

marriage is the true key in learning to accept differences and to live together, and is the true test to your character and to who you really are;   Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is  sholombayis777@gmail.com

slowing down to listen; giving benefit of the doubt; mutual awareness; we all have the ability to develop the skills to become better husbands and wives; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Rabbi Ben Tzion Shafier 'The 10 Really Dumb Mistakes that Very Smart Couples Make: A Torah-Based Guide to a Successful Marriage' Part 15. 8th Real Dumb Mistake in Marriage:  judging your spouse based on your experience; learning to live together;   Amazon -  https://www.amazon.com/Really-Dumb-Mistakes-Smart-Couples/dp/1680251767   Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is  sholombayis...

the Power of Speech and Silence; Real Listening; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

 (Zelig Pliskin) practice visualizing seeing yourself accomplishing great things; TOLDOS YAAKOV YITZCHOK and KEDUSHAS LEVI on avoiding misplaced humility, and that YOUR good deeds are PRECIOUS in the eyes of Hashem; http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/TOLDOS-KEDUSHAS-LEVI.pdf   Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

  The Gift and Skill of Validation   Amazon -  https://www.amazon.com/Really-Dumb-Mistakes-Smart-Couples/dp/1680251767   Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is  sholombayis777@gmail.com

Rabbi Ben Tzion Shafier 'The 10 Really Dumb Mistakes that Very Smart Couples Make: A Torah-Based Guide to a Successful Marriage' Part 14. 7th Real Dumb Mistake in Marriage:  forgetting that talk means something different to women;   Amazon -  https://www.amazon.com/Really-Dumb-Mistakes-Smart-Couples/dp/1680251767   Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is  sholombayis777@gmail.com

creating a safe space to communicate; davening and working on the right timing for everything; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

 (Zelig Pliskin) reaching your potential; eliminating automatic negative thoughts; replacing criticism with encouragement; http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/BEER_MAYIM_CHAYIM.pdf   Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Rabbi Ben Tzion Shafier 'The 10 Really Dumb Mistakes that Very Smart Couples Make: A Torah-Based Guide to a Successful Marriage' Part 13. women are more sensitive treating her with respect; avoid arguing; to avoid mindreading: "if he really cared about me, he would know whats bothering me", but rather it needs to be expressed;   Amazon -  https://www.amazon.com/Really-Dumb-Mistakes-Smart-Couples/d...

Rabbi Ben Tzion Shafier 'The 10 Really Dumb Mistakes that Very Smart Couples Make: A Torah-Based Guide to a Successful Marriage' Part 12. 6th Real Dumb Mistake in Marriage:  trying to change your spouse: Part #2. the one way you CAN change your spouse, (and a great parable to explain this);   Amazon -  https://www.amazon.com/Really-Dumb-Mistakes-Smart-Couples/dp/1680251767   Email address for feed...

separating understanding from solving; empathy; allowing your spouse to go first in speaking; the teamwork of brainstorming together; when discussing problems promote an even deeper love and joy eparating understanding from solving; empathy; allowing your; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

(Zelig Pliskin)  you don't need to feel self-confident to speak and act self-confidently; http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/BEER_MAYIM_CHAYIM.pdf   Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Rabbi Ben Tzion Shafier 'The 10 Really Dumb Mistakes that Very Smart Couples Make: A Torah-Based Guide to a Successful Marriage' Part 11. 6th Real Dumb Mistake in Marriage:  trying to change your spouse: Part #1.   Amazon -  https://www.amazon.com/Really-Dumb-Mistakes-Smart-Couples/dp/1680251767   Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Rabbi Ben Tzion Shafier 'The 10 Really Dumb Mistakes that Very Smart Couples Make: A Torah-Based Guide to a Successful Marriage' Part 10. 5th Real Dumb Mistake in Marriage:  forgetting that a woman needs to be cherished: Part #2 a wise man persues his wife; letting her know again and again that he cherishes her; Amazon -  https://www.amazon.com/Really-Dumb-Mistakes-Smart-Couples/dp/1680251767   Em...

our difference is our greatest gift in marriage; accessing the deep hidden treasures in your spouse; naming challenges, accepting them; feeling Hashem is holding your hand; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

People don't want to talk about this, but they REALLY should (URGENT) Rabbi Manis Friedman   Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via whatsapp at +1 347 578 0669.

(Zelig Pliskin) don't let more knowledgeable, skillful, or successful people lower your self confidence; reframing cognitive distortions; http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/BEER_MAYIM_CHAYIM.pdf   Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Rabbi Ben Tzion Shafier 'The 10 Really Dumb Mistakes that Very Smart Couples Make: A Torah-Based Guide to a Successful Marriage' Part 9. 5th Real Dumb Mistake in Marriage:  forgetting that a woman needs to be cherished: Part #1 Happy Wife - Happy Life; "opposite" also means facing each other; undertanding deep difference between men and women helps marriages; if a wife is cherished ,the marriage w...

Rabbi Ben Tzion Shafier 'The 10 Really Dumb Mistakes that Very Smart Couples Make: A Torah-Based Guide to a Successful Marriage' Part 8. 4th Real Dumb Mistake in Marriage: forgetting that respect comes first; Amazon -  https://www.amazon.com/Really-Dumb-Mistakes-Smart-Couples/dp/1680251767   Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Way #27: Happiness - Rabbi Noah Weinberg - 48 Ways to Wisdom Ilya Friedman   Rabbi Noah Weinberg @ torahanytime - https://www.torahanytime.com/#/speaker?l=840 Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via whatsapp at +1 347 578 0669.

My Father’s Best Marriage Advice & the Power of Purim AishJewish   Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via whatsapp at +1 347 578 0669.