Sholom Bayis and important life topics

Ask Yourself What Your Spouse Needs and What Can I Give to Him/Her Without Them Having to Ask; Service With a Smile; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Life Transforming Advice #65. Learn From Your Mistakes; Dealing With Vague Feelings of Guilt; Positive Aspects of Teshuva After a Sin; Repentance Should Be With Joy; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

The Almighty Decides What You Should Work On; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Undoing the Misconceptions That Will Help Motivate and Promote Doing Chesed for Your Own Wife and Husband; (Thinking in Error That an Obligatory Chesed Is a Weaker Chesed, or Not Being Motivated Because You're Receiving Less Appreciation); Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Rav Pam ZT"L Regarding Mishkal HaChasidus; Weighing His Actions; Caring for Wife (and Husband) Takes Precedence Over Caring for One's Children; The Powerful Chesed of a Listening Ear; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Life Transforming Advice #64. Have Realistic Expectations of Yourself; Reacting With Guilt Is at Times Laziness; When Working on Improving Yourself, Do Not Make Yourself Sad; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Power of words series #114. Not Hurting People With Humor; Don't Look Down at People Even as You Are Striving and Becoming Better in Your Own Avodas Hashem; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Chesed Primarily at Home; Setting Chesed for One's Spouse as the Main Priority With One's Body, Speech, and Money; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Life Transforming Advice #63. Excessive Guilt Feelings Cause You Harm; Accept That We Are Flawed and Encourage Ourselves With Joy to Get Ourselves Up Again; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Motivating Yourself to Do What You Want to Do; How to Reach Your Goals; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Compliment Sincerely and Not by Rote; Maintain a Cheerful Atmosphere at Home; Accept the Self-Correction Your Spouse Makes Gracefully; Avoid Repulsive Behaviors; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

A Husband Needs to Praise and Compliment His Wife Always With True Sincerity, Including Praising Her for Her Cooking, Baking, and Nice Appearance When She Dresses Nicely for Him; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Love Sense: from Infant to Adult (Sue Johnson and Ed Tronick) (Dr. Sue Johnson) Two experts in bonding look at key responses in love relationships. Science tells us clearly that bonding goes from the cradle to the grave. Staying close to a protective loved one is the main survival strategy of our species. But bonding is more than protection, it is a necessary ingredient for our emotional wellbeing...

Life Transforming Advice #62. Calming an Angry Person Is an Act of Kindness; Guilt Can Be Productive or Counterproductive; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Yitro; Ahavas Yisroel Is the Prerequisite for Kabbolas HaTorah; True Humility Brings Ahavah; Thought and Sensitivity When Giving Advice; Watching Health in Keeping the Torah; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Responding With Impact to Verbal Abuse - 3; Responding to Abuse Disguised as a Joke; Responding to Blocking, Diverting, Accusations, Blame, Judging, Criticizing, Undermining, Threatening, Name-Calling, Ordering, Denial, and Abusive Anger; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Importance of a Wife Looking Attractive for Her Husband; Appreciation, Verbally Expressing Hakarat HaTov; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Navigating Family Minhagim and Chumrot; Importance of Good Middos in Creating a Healthy Marriage; Greeting Each Other Pleasantly; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Life Transforming Advice #61. Avoid Wrong Rationalizations About Anger; Be Careful Not to Correct Others in Anger; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Bitachon Lesson; 1. Divrei Yisrael by the First Modzitzer Rebbe, Rav Yisrael Taub ZT"L (https://www.nehora.com/divrei-yisroel-al-hatorah-rabbi-yisrael-of-modsitz-3-vol/); 2. Emunah and Bitachon by Rav David Chai Abuchatzeira (https://www.artscroll.com/Details.aspx?itemNo=9781422644522); http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/Divrei Yisroel-Bechalash.jpeg http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/RavDavidCh...

The Harm of Saying You're Lazy; Building Your Self-Image; The Courage to Take Action Even if You Are Afraid; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Importance of Confidentiality, Not Sharing Your Personal Marriage Issues With Parents, Relatives, Co-Workers, or Close Friends; Choose a Healthy Rav/Mentor to Guide You in Your Marriage; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Responsibilities of a Successful Spouse: A Spouse Has the Obligation From Hashem to Continue to Fulfill His/Her Responsibilities Even When the Other Spouse Isn't Doing Their Share of the Main Work; Primary Work in Marriage Is Inner Work; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Life Transforming Advice #60. Techniques to Overcome Anger. Part 2. Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Responding With Impact to Verbal Abuse - 2; What You Should Think as You Respond to Verbal Abuse; Responding to Withholding, Countering, and Discounting; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.