Sholom Bayis and important life topics

not to hurt children with words; its permitted to defend yourself at the moment you are being verbally attacked, and in the face of real verbal abuse; one needs to protect himself/herself from that abuse;   Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

About the "power of words series"   Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

 (Zelig Pliskin) recognizing the greatness Hashem put in you; YOSHER DIVREI EMES - PRI TZADDIK - OHEV YISROEL,TORAS AVOS ; ( http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/YDEmes-PriTzadik-OhevYisroel.pdf )   Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

Rabbi Ben Tzion Shafier 'The 10 Really Dumb Mistakes that Very Smart Couples Make: A Torah-Based Guide to a Successful Marriage' Part 16. 9th Real Dumb Mistake in Marriage:  forgetting that you are best friends; neither of you are a boss; you are not your spouses's teacher;   Amazon -  https://www.amazon.com/Really-Dumb-Mistakes-Smart-Couples/dp/1680251767   Email address for feedback, questions,...

Shoftim (שֹׁפְטִים): lessons on the possuk that a person is compared to a tree; inner work; the guards watching the "gates" in our bodies; trust Hashem;   Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com  

appreciation between husband and wife is a great gift and life lesson for your children; behaving as friends;    Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is  sholombayis777@gmail.com

grounding in truth; two-way street; marriage is on the job training;   "Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

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 (Zelig Pliskin) increasing self-confidence by embracing post traumatic growth;   Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

appreciation is the key to a beautiful marriage, and a way to heal, restore marriages in the most powerful way;    Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is  sholombayis777@gmail.com

Re'eh (רְאֵה): negative aspects of the chazer having 1 tahor siman of taharah; divine "cruelty" bring forth true compassion and mercy; choosing "clean pipes"; being a vessel to receive Hashem's Goodness;   Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com  

a person can shape their desires in a healthy way; importance to look attractive; perspectives on physical beauty;    Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is  sholombayis777@gmail.com

Eikev: Hashem gives you the strength, the advice, the thoughts, the skills that give you your wealth and success. Avoid arrogance. Arizal on Rav Akiva. How private Mezuzos on each individual home effect the klall to be aware of Hashem.   Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com  

 Veschanan: every one of the 515 tefillos Moshe prayed were answered; nothing was in vain; keeping the mitzvah as instructed;   Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com  

taking a step back and looking at the bigger picture; being kind and loving even when feeling distance; the incredible power of acceptance;   "Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

 (Zelig Pliskin) maintaining self-confidence when challenged by pessimists; go beyond your past with acceptance; physical self care will help your overall self-esteem;   Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

how physical intimacy creates healing; importance of physical touch, hugging, kissing in marriage, and importance of healthy desire to look physically attractive;    Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is  sholombayis777@gmail.com

physical intimacy and the inherent difference between husbands and wives in this regard; how each one takes those courageous first steps towards each others inherent desires and needs;    Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is  sholombayis777@gmail.com

embracing the change of marriage and its great potential; emunah that it's the best decision; acknowledge being overwhelmed and working through it;   "Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

 (Zelig Pliskin) developing a positive mind will help your self-confidence; move from "why" to "what's next"; growing from your regrets; taking baby steps in practical action and growth;   Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

physical intimacy and the Niddah period;    Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is  sholombayis777@gmail.com

the opposite natures of husband and wife creates a profound oneness; understanding dynamic between body and soul; to create a unity with the soul in the drivers seat, but not neglecting bodily needs; elevation of physical intimacy and its enjoyment;     Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is  sholombayis777@gmail.com

it's ok to ask and express to spouse to fulfill your needs, and to respond in healthy ways when the answer is "no"; knowing how to receive a need; marriage is a constant flow of giving and receiving;   "Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

 (Zelig Pliskin) the power of "just for today, just for now"; transforming unproductive regrets into productive regrets;   Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com

acknowledging that 'I am a difficult person to live with'; truly accepting your spouse internally in your mind and heart; accepting that Hashem knows what He is doing when He put you together;     Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is  sholombayis777@gmail.com