She's Probably Talking to Other Guys - (SPTTOG)

on this episode of she's probably talking to other guys, annie sits down with tatiana ramos, a 13-year industry veteran, salon owner, and freelance stylist who is completely changing how we look at beauty. after battling a severe autoimmune response to traditional salon chemicals, tatiana had to make a choice: quit the career she loved, or pioneer a cleaner, non-toxic, holistic approach to hai...

ever felt completely anonymous in a crowded airport terminal? in this raw and reflective installment of the banannie diaries, annie dives deep into the world of transitional spaces...airports, train stations, and hotel rooms and how leaving everything behind forces you to confront who you truly are when no one expects anything of you. from the secret comfort of wearing hoodies in a sea of stranger...

we’re really good at assuming we understand someone’s life from just one context, but most people’s lives are layered way deeper than what we see on a social media grid.in this episode, annie sits down with sophia scinto, a connecticut-based fashion designer, artist, and full-time marketing professional, to discuss the realities of balancing a demanding 9-to-5 while quietly building a dream caree...

“one of the hardest things to accept is that you can genuinely be trying your best and still end up becoming the villain in someone else's story.” in this episode of she’s probably talking to other guys, we are diving into why people project, make assumptions, and create versions of you in their own heads. if you have spent your life overexplaining yourself, trying to prevent misunderstanding...

concert culture, sobriety, dating standards, and why women who don’t drink are constantly misunderstood 🍸✨ in this episode of “she’s probably talking to other guys,” annie sits down with toronto-based content creator and ”concert queen” ashley to talk about life three years sober, navigating friendships and dating without alcohol, and the assumptions people make when women choose not to drink. f...

she’s probably…unpacking everything she's learned this week’s episode looks a little different . i’m diving back into recent solo episodes and game-changing guest conversations to unpack a common theme that has completely stayed with me: boundaries, growth, trusting your gut, and becoming fiercely honest with yourself. growth doesn't always come from one giant life-changing moment...sometimes it’s...

you've given him the benefit of the doubt, you've made up the excuses, you've told yourself it wasn't that bad, and then six months later you're looking back like, how did i not see that sooner?! maryann is back for round two, and this time we're getting into all of it. red flags, green flags, and the ones we saw coming but chose to explain away because we wanted to believe the version of them we...

she’s probably choosing approval over authenticity and it’s costing her more than she realizes. in this episode of she’s probably talking to other guys (spttog), annie breaks down the quiet ways people trade authenticity for approval, and why it’s so easy to lose yourself without even noticing. from people-pleasing habits to the pressure of being liked, this episode challenges the idea that extern...

she’s probably redefining what ambition looks like this episode of  she’s probably talking to other guys  features guest rylin rossano in a conversation about ambition, identity, and the pressure to fit a single definition of success. ambition doesn’t look one way—and this episode breaks down exactly why. rylin shares her story of graduating high school at 15, becoming a two-time author, and conti...

we love a simple relationship rule like “if they wanted to, they would”…until real life doesn’t actually work that neatly. in this episode, we’re breaking down the assumptions we make in dating, relationships, attachment styles, emotional availability, and communication. because the internet loves clear-cut advice, but human behavior is rarely that simple. she probably wanted to text back. she pro...

in a world where healing is trending and “glow ups” are everywhere, why do so many people still feel stuck? in this episode, we sit down with jessica ella, creator of aaruka therapy, to unpack what real healing actually looks like...beyond the surface-level conversations dominating social media. this is an honest, unfiltered conversation about trauma, emotional patterns, and the difference between...

in a previous episode, we broke down what men say… and what women actually hear. this time, we’re flipping it. because let’s be honest, women don’t always say exactly what we mean either. from “i’m fine” to “do whatever you want” to “it’s nothing”…what men hear vs what women actually mean can be two completely different conversations. in this episode, we’re getting into: – the usual meaning behind...

she’s probably the strongest woman in the room…and you’d never know what it took to get there. in this episode, becky shares her experience with abuse, the patterns that kept her stuck, and what it actually looks like to rebuild your relationship with yourself after everything. we talk about the s***** assumptions people make like “if you stayed, it wasn’t that bad” or “strong women don’t end up i...

ever notice how men have their own language? after enough dating, situationships, and late-night group chat debriefs, you start to realize something: certain phrases almost always mean the same thing. in this episode of she’s probably talking to other guys , we’re decoding the most common phrases men say and what they actually mean. from the classic “i’m just really busy” to “i’m not ready for a r...

dating in your 30s is chaotic, hilarious, and unapologetically selective. in this episode of she’s probably talking to other guys (spttog), we dive deep into the reality of adult dating…moving from the chaos of red flags and uncertainty to knowing exactly what we want in a relationship. we explore: why knowing what you want changes everything, and why settling for “potential” is no longer an optio...

dating in your 30s is chaotic, hilarious, and unapologetically selective. in this episode of she’s probably talking to other guys (spttog), we dive deep into the reality of adult dating…moving from the chaos of red flags and uncertainty to knowing exactly what we want in a relationship. we explore: why knowing what you want changes everything, and why settling for “potential” is no longer an optio...

have you ever noticed that the moment someone walks into a room confident…people get uncomfortable? in this episode of the banannie diaries, we’re breaking down why being “too confident” isn’t a flaw, it’s a mirror. a mirror for insecurity. a mirror for comparison. a mirror for people who were taught to shrink instead of shine. society labels confident women as “too much.” confident men as “arroga...

have you ever noticed that the moment someone walks into a room confident…people get uncomfortable? in this episode of the banannie diaries, we’re breaking down why being “too confident” isn’t a flaw, it’s a mirror. a mirror for insecurity. a mirror for comparison. a mirror for people who were taught to shrink instead of shine. society labels confident women as “too much.” confident men as “arroga...

pop culture assumptions, rom-coms, disney obsessions, and marvel debates. rachel lives at the intersection of fashion and film, and she’s here to break it all down. from rewatching notting hill for style inspo, recreating bridget jones moments on instagram, to ranking adam sandler classics like a pro, we’re diving into what people really think about fans of movies and why most of it is wrong. we’r...

she’s probably pausing the movie…for an outfit shot | she’s probably talking to other guys (spttog) | the banannie diaries by annie pop culture assumptions, rom-coms, disney obsessions, and marvel debates. rachel lives at the intersection of fashion and film, and she’s here to break it all down. from rewatching notting hill for style inspo, recreating bridget jones moments on instagram, to ranking...

if you’ve ever been told you’re “too emotional”,felt judged for reacting too strongly or not at all…this episode is for you. in this episode of she’s probably talking to other guys, we dive into what emotional maturity really looks like, beyond the internet memes, outdated advice, and everyone else’s expectations. we talk about spiraling, second-guessing yourself, and those moments when it feels l...

valentine’s, galentine’s, and all the songs that make you feel every feeling at once. in this episode, rylin and i share our sweet and sour music picks, laugh about love and heartbreak, and get real on why the most important relationship is the one you have with yourself. whether you’re celebrating with your gal squad, your boo, or just vibing solo, we’re serving tunes, honesty, and a reminder to...

your habits speak louder than words. in this episode, i sit down with jake and chloe from creating fit families to talk about what it really takes to build a fitness business together while balancing life, leadership, and marriage. we dive into how discipline, consistency, and healthy routines create influence not just in business, but in every part of your life. we talk about: • running a fitness...

not chaos. not gossip. not social media therapy. in this episode, i’m sharing honest, nuanced thoughts on mental health culture, avoidance, softness, and personal responsibility. we unpack why “soft life” culture doesn’t always serve us, how therapy language became a personality, why discomfort isn’t trauma, and how avoidance sometimes masquerades as self-care. we also talk about why discipline, s...

in this week’s solo episode, we’re getting honest about motivation vs discipline, not in a “just try harder” way, but in a understand-yourself-better way. most people think they’re inconsistent, lazy, or lacking willpower. in reality? they’ve just been taught the wrong things about how change actually works. we talk about why motivation always fades, why discipline isn’t a personality trait you’re...