She's Probably Talking to Other Guys - (SPTTOG)

what do women say that men completely overthink? we’re breaking down the texts, dating conversations, mixed signals, and innocent comments that can leave a guy questioning what she really meant. if you’ve ever wondered “does she like me?” or “is she mad at me?” this episode is for you.

what assumptions do we make about women who book boudoir photography? and what does the experience actually mean for the woman behind the camera? in this episode of she’s probably talking to other guys, annie sits down with boudoir photographer, tina wesley, to unpack the biggest misconceptions surrounding boudoir photography, confidence, body image, and women feeling comfortable in their own skin...

what do men say that women immediately overthink? we’re breaking down the texts, dating conversations, mixed signals, and innocent comments women can turn into an entire investigation and what men may actually mean by them. if you’ve ever wondered “does he like me?” or “why would he say that?” this episode is for you.

what does it actually take to succeed at live selling? annie sits down with maddy the hot sauce girl, founder and ceo of homesteads hot sauce, to break down the business of live streaming, tiktok shop, entrepreneurship, and building a loyal community through live selling. maddy shares how live streaming helped save her small business, why personality and connection can matter more than the product...

being called “high maintenance” doesn’t have to be an insult. in this episode of she’s probably talking to other guys, annie rockhill breaks down the assumptions behind being high maintenance, from being selfish and superficial to being hard to date or obsessed with money. she shares why having routines, standards, boundaries, self-respect, and confidence can actually mean you’re being intentional...

you look at someone who seems confident, successful, and like they have everything figured out…but you rarely see the moments that got them there. this week, i’m sitting down with candi thibodeaux to talk about the assumption that she’s got it all figured out. from the outside, it can be easy to think someone has a perfect plan, an effortless journey, or all the answers...but the reality is usuall...

what if the goal was never to be liked by everyone? we spend so much time trying to make sure everyone understands us, approves of us, and sees us the way we want to be seen. but the truth is…no matter how kind, genuine, or intentional you are, you’re still not going to be everyone’s cup of tea. in this episode, i’m talking about what happens when we stop shrinking ourselves to be more comfortable...

you see her on stage. you hear the songs. you sing along. but there’s a lot more behind the microphone than most people ever see. this week, i’m sitting down with singer-songwriter kristin trotta to talk about what it’s really like to chase a dream in music. because while people may only see the few hours she spends performing, they don’t always see the years of work, vulnerability, rejection, cre...

can we talk about how weird adulthood is? at some point, we all started pretending we knew exactly what we were doing…but does anyone actually have it figured out?in this episode, annie talks about the pressure to have a perfect plan, the comparison trap of social media, and why saying “i don’t know yet” might actually be one of the most confident things you can say. because maybe we’re not behind...

in this episode of she's probably talking to other guys, annie sits down with the creator behind food of ct to talk about what it's really like being a food creator in connecticut. from restaurant recommendations and content creation to building an online community and turning a passion for food into a brand, this conversation goes far beyond taking pictures of your meal. we dive into the...

can we just collectively agree that adulthood is weird? one day you’re a kid playing outside, just existing, and the next, you’re handed an invisible checklist of arbitrary milestones you’re "supposed" to hit before you're 30. get the degree, buy the house, climb the career ladder, secure the relationship, maintain your mental health, stay physically fit...and somehow, don't lose your mind. but......

on this episode of she's probably talking to other guys, annie sits down with tatiana ramos, a 13-year industry veteran, salon owner, and freelance stylist who is completely changing how we look at beauty. after battling a severe autoimmune response to traditional salon chemicals, tatiana had to make a choice: quit the career she loved, or pioneer a cleaner, non-toxic, holistic approach to hai...

ever felt completely anonymous in a crowded airport terminal? in this raw and reflective installment of the banannie diaries, annie dives deep into the world of transitional spaces...airports, train stations, and hotel rooms and how leaving everything behind forces you to confront who you truly are when no one expects anything of you. from the secret comfort of wearing hoodies in a sea of stranger...

we’re really good at assuming we understand someone’s life from just one context, but most people’s lives are layered way deeper than what we see on a social media grid.in this episode, annie sits down with sophia scinto, a connecticut-based fashion designer, artist, and full-time marketing professional, to discuss the realities of balancing a demanding 9-to-5 while quietly building a dream caree...

“one of the hardest things to accept is that you can genuinely be trying your best and still end up becoming the villain in someone else's story.” in this episode of she’s probably talking to other guys, we are diving into why people project, make assumptions, and create versions of you in their own heads. if you have spent your life overexplaining yourself, trying to prevent misunderstanding...

concert culture, sobriety, dating standards, and why women who don’t drink are constantly misunderstood 🍸✨ in this episode of “she’s probably talking to other guys,” annie sits down with toronto-based content creator and ”concert queen” ashley to talk about life three years sober, navigating friendships and dating without alcohol, and the assumptions people make when women choose not to drink. f...

she’s probably…unpacking everything she's learned this week’s episode looks a little different . i’m diving back into recent solo episodes and game-changing guest conversations to unpack a common theme that has completely stayed with me: boundaries, growth, trusting your gut, and becoming fiercely honest with yourself. growth doesn't always come from one giant life-changing moment...sometimes it’s...

you've given him the benefit of the doubt, you've made up the excuses, you've told yourself it wasn't that bad, and then six months later you're looking back like, how did i not see that sooner?! maryann is back for round two, and this time we're getting into all of it. red flags, green flags, and the ones we saw coming but chose to explain away because we wanted to believe the version of them we...

she’s probably choosing approval over authenticity and it’s costing her more than she realizes. in this episode of she’s probably talking to other guys (spttog), annie breaks down the quiet ways people trade authenticity for approval, and why it’s so easy to lose yourself without even noticing. from people-pleasing habits to the pressure of being liked, this episode challenges the idea that extern...

she’s probably redefining what ambition looks like this episode of  she’s probably talking to other guys  features guest rylin rossano in a conversation about ambition, identity, and the pressure to fit a single definition of success. ambition doesn’t look one way—and this episode breaks down exactly why. rylin shares her story of graduating high school at 15, becoming a two-time author, and conti...

we love a simple relationship rule like “if they wanted to, they would”…until real life doesn’t actually work that neatly. in this episode, we’re breaking down the assumptions we make in dating, relationships, attachment styles, emotional availability, and communication. because the internet loves clear-cut advice, but human behavior is rarely that simple. she probably wanted to text back. she pro...

in a world where healing is trending and “glow ups” are everywhere, why do so many people still feel stuck? in this episode, we sit down with jessica ella, creator of aaruka therapy, to unpack what real healing actually looks like...beyond the surface-level conversations dominating social media. this is an honest, unfiltered conversation about trauma, emotional patterns, and the difference between...

in a previous episode, we broke down what men say… and what women actually hear. this time, we’re flipping it. because let’s be honest, women don’t always say exactly what we mean either. from “i’m fine” to “do whatever you want” to “it’s nothing”…what men hear vs what women actually mean can be two completely different conversations. in this episode, we’re getting into: – the usual meaning behind...

she’s probably the strongest woman in the room…and you’d never know what it took to get there. in this episode, becky shares her experience with abuse, the patterns that kept her stuck, and what it actually looks like to rebuild your relationship with yourself after everything. we talk about the s***** assumptions people make like “if you stayed, it wasn’t that bad” or “strong women don’t end up i...

ever notice how men have their own language? after enough dating, situationships, and late-night group chat debriefs, you start to realize something: certain phrases almost always mean the same thing. in this episode of she’s probably talking to other guys , we’re decoding the most common phrases men say and what they actually mean. from the classic “i’m just really busy” to “i’m not ready for a r...