Shades of Trauma Healing | Childhood Trauma, Trust Issues, Coping Skills, Growth Mindset, Trust God, Discernment, Purpose

Hey friend, This is a bittersweet announcement for the Shades of Trauma Healing podcast. The podcast will be pausing for a while as God calls me to a new season and a significant pivot in my journey. Serving you through this podcast has been an immense blessing, and I'm incredibly grateful for every one of you who has tuned in, shared your reviews, and embarked on your healing journey with me. My...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽 Have you ever found it challenging to connect with God, read your Bible, or just be still in His presence? Maybe you’re struggling with feeling close to God, and you don’t know why. What if your trauma is getting in the way? Trauma isn’t just emotional or psychological—it affects the brain, including the prefrontal cortex, which plays a key role in spiritual discernment and...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽 Today we’re diving into a topic that's important and highly relevant for many trauma survivors. We will shine a light on trauma dumping, what is it, why it happens, how to know if you are doing it, how to respond if it is happening to you, and how to be more mindful about our interactions in personal relationships. Let's dive into this topic with grace, love, and an open he...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽 When I began working with people to help them heal from difficult childhood experiences, I began having more and more conversations at work and with people in general about childhood trauma. We would talk about their struggles, hopes and wishes as it relates to healing from the effects of childhood trauma.   One thing I began to see was a pattern of women not understanding,...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽   My guest today is Annie Mayfield is a 4x Amazon best-seller, 6x author, and corporate account Executive who graduated from Wofford College with a BS in psychology. Annie is the host of the Made to Shine podcast, which has listeners in over 72 countries and was a top 10% globally streamed Spotify podcast in 2023. She has been featured in Forbes and the NYC Journal for her...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽 The idea of being in control can be intoxicating, especially for trauma survivors. At some point, many of us have tried to do God's job in running our own lives. And I totally understand why. The motive is often self-protection—we want to avoid feeling powerless again. It’s part of the hypervigilance that results from trauma. But have you ever considered that your need for...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽 My guest on the show is Katarzyna "Kasia" Dodd , the founder of Inherence LLC, through which she pioneered the introduction of Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) in Poland. With EFT Kasia helps people explore the heart of their Inner Child, resolve deep-seated trauma, and understand the pivotal role of the Inner Parent—the protector and guide through life’s challenges. On t...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽 Many survivors of childhood trauma focus on what was done to them and the people who hurt them. They believe the key to healing, feeling joy and love is to have the person who wronged them confess, ask for their forgiveness, and make amends. These actions certainly help with the healing process, and thankfully, it is not the only way. Today, I will share with you the Surpri...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽 Opening your heart to others can feel downright scary when you've been hurt in the past. The last thing you want to be is vulnerable, and this can impact your ability to show genuine empathy. Empathy isn't just about feeling someone else's pain; it's the bridge to a deeper connection, stronger friendships, and a more fulfilling life. Something that most trauma survivors cra...

Enjoy this replay. Today I have a special guest, Nanci Lamborn, who shares about her experience of childhood sexual abuse and the anger she felt towards her mother, who did not support her and even blamed her for what happened. Nancy will share the steps she took towards healing from her childhood trauma and her mother wound. Nancy also described what it took to move from being an Angry Daughter t...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽   Today we look at part 2 of the tips for better decision-making Overthinking is draining as it can consume a significant amount of time and energy, hindering your ability to focus on tasks. It can increase stress and anxiety, and cause Paralysis by analysis which prevents you from making timely decisions, leading to missed opportunities. Let’s explore the final 5 tips to h...

Hey Sister-Friend, How are you doing today? I hope you are well  Today, we will look at part 2 of the four pillars of trauma healing that every Christian woman should know. In part one (episode 140) I unpacked the first 2 pillars of trauma healing, which are: Relational safety and preparation, and Education and skills building In this episode, I will discuss the last two pillars: Desensitization...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽   Overthinking is essentially dwelling excessively on thoughts, ideas, or problems, often without reaching a conclusion. It causes people to replay situations over and over in their minds, analyzing every possible outcome, and getting stuck in a loop. Overthinking is draining and can increase stress and anxiety. Today’s quick tips will give you 5 tips for better decision-ma...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽 Enjoy this repeat of one of my favourite episodes: Today, I have a special guest, Margaret L. Conley, to help raise awareness of how to approach mental wellness in Christian BIPOC Communities. Margaret owns MLC Consulting, LLC, and is the President of Mending Life Concepts Empowerment Group, Inc., which focuses on serving marginalized populations at the intersection of spir...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽   Is it just me, or are you finding that life is becoming more distracting? There is always something to think about, do, or solve. I was finding that my mind was getting preoccupied with all the things in my day and world, and it was robbing my peace. At the end of the day, I felt like there were more things to do than I got done, and I did not like where my head was, so I...

Hey Sister-Friend,   Today we get to explore the foundations of trauma healing. In this episode, I will share the foundation that Christian women should base their healing on and how to build that foundation. I talk about the first 2 pillars of trauma healing so you know what to look for and what to expect as you take (or consider taking) your first step toward healing.   Knowing the psychoeducati...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽   Today, let's talk about something real, something maybe a little raw: trusting God when life feels…well, not so trusting. You've been hurt in the past, you’ve dealt with some heavy stuff, and now the idea of trusting anyone, let alone God, feels like a big, fat "NOPE!" Been there, believe me. But here's the thing: I believe the healing journey for women of faith includes...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽 Welcome back, my friend! If you listened to episode 134, you know I talked about losing yourself in a relationship and how differentiation is the key to staying true to who God created you to be while still maintaining deep and meaningful connections. But understanding differentiation is just the beginning. Today, I’m getting practical. I’m going to walk you through five ti...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽   I’m taking how to attune to your body for better stress management today. As Christian women, we're often called in a million directions – family, church, work, our passions. It's easy to get overwhelmed, right? But hear this: taking care of yourself isn't selfish; it's essential! Because when we're stressed and depleted, how can we truly live out our calling? I hope this...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽   My guest today is Mina Satori. Mina specializes in working with women entrepreneurs, creatives, and leaders who want to embrace their feminine power and thrive fearlessly in business.   Mina received her formal coach training as an Ontological Coach through Accomplishment Coaching, which is accredited by the International Coaching Federation (ICF). She is a former Preside...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽   Let’s talk about a topic that can leave us feeling drained and defeated: conflict.   Navigating disagreements can be tough, especially when you're carrying the baggage of childhood trauma and dealing with someone who likes a verbal tussle. It is worth learning how to deal with conflict as you go through life, and I will share more about the acronym JADE and how to avoid i...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽   Hey friend, have you ever felt like you’ve lost yourself in a relationship? Maybe you find yourself constantly prioritizing someone else’s needs over your own, making decisions based on what makes them happy rather than what aligns with your own values and desires. How can you break free from this cycle and live in the fullness of who God created you to be while appropria...

Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽   Why is it important to develop a growth mindset? The simple answer is - if you don’t believe your mind can change and grow, you won’t be as open to the life you can have beyond your trauma. Trauma has a way of making survivors believe that things won’t get better, circumstances won’t change, you will be this way for the rest of your life. That is a very discouraging way t...

Show Notes Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽   Nick Prefontaine is a 3x best-selling author and was named a top motivational speaker of 2022 in Yahoo Finance.  He’s a speaker, Founder and CEO of Common Goal. Using the S.T.E.P. system, Nick leads clients through their trauma, and once they make it through, that is where their limitless potential lies. At 14, Nick suffered a life-threatening snowboarding acci...

Show Notes Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽   Welcome to a Quick Tip Thursday Episode.   The four tips for today will focus on how to trust after you’ve been hurt, and they may not be what you think. After you’ve been hurt, the last thing you want to do is risk getting burned again. I get it, that is understandable, however you can choose to remain open to healthier relationships and these tips will help y...