Sex Upgraded

Today we're going to hear how semen retention helped Jeremy create a multi-million dollar business, and how this practice helps him get closer to the magic of life too. We explore: Semen retention as an integrative lifestyle The magic and beauty of intentional ejaculations Creating other forms of life besides human babies How sexual choices impact business success The practice of building sex...

This episode is for ANYONE who wants a successful relationship (monogamous or polyamorous). I've personally hired Kenya as a coach back when I was experiencing growth pains in a non-monogamous relationship. She's an expert in helping with that, AND she also helps anyone in any relationship style too... Kenya has multiple husbands, and her husbands have multiple partners too. They live to...

If you've ever looked into Semen Retention, you've probably come across videos from both Johnathan and I. We both teach semen retention as a lifestyle, we both teach sexual mastery for men, and now we both even live in the same city! (Asheville, NC, USA). So when we decided to make this episode, we wanted to make something unique for you. Not just another "how-to" guide... But...

One of the most important and underrated aspects of sexual mastery is COMMUNICATION. This is something you should focus on IF you want a thriving sex life and relationship. So in today's episode we're going to explore some very practical and powerful communication skills you can start using TODAY, to create the intimate reality you want. We're joined by David Chambers, who's an...

Do you believe it's possible to keep sexual charge alive in long term relationships? Do you believe that sex gets better with age? Turns out both things are possible, and in this episode with Laurie Handlers, you'll learn some great ways to do this. Laurie is an international sex educator, retreat leader, and overall badass woman who helps couples create and sustain thriving romantic &am...

ANNOUNCEMENT: The name of this podcast will change next week. It started off as "Eros Rising," and I do like that name because it's representative of my intentions for this podcast... But the problem is most people have no idea what "Eros Rising" actually means. From a marketing perspective, that's no good. The new name will be simple and clear, so whenever anyone see...

Today we're going to talk about sex and money! Specifically, how semen retention helped me make more money in my previous business (before I started teaching about sex and retention). In this episode you'll hear how I went from: struggling to start a business financial scarcity porn addiction premature ejaculation erectile dysfunction and sexual anxiety... To creating success in my busin...

My girlfriend and I have successfully prevented pregnancy using the Fertility Awareness Method and Semen Retention for almost three years now. We're both fertile (just confirmed with my own sperm analysis test), and I do occasionally ejaculate inside her. 🔱   IN THIS EPISODE YOU'LL LEARN: Why women are NOT fertile all the time (unlike men) How Naema and I practice natural birth control...

This is a followup conversation to episode 16, where Banks and I got real about his struggle with premature ejaculation - BEFORE he took my Orgasmic Mastery Course. Today you'll hear what his life is like now, after taking my course and after being in sex therapy too. If you're someone who wants to overcome premature ejaculation, this episode should give you some hope and inspiration. It...

About 5 years ago, I went to an anal sex party in Asheville. It was a wild experience that broke my brain, left me speechless and opened my eyes to things that I had never seen before. I think you'll like this story. :D After listening, check out my new anal sex course that'll give you everything you need to master the art of anal sex (both giving and receiving), including: anal anatomy...

Millions of women want to receive anal sex from a man, but most men make substantial mistakes with anal that result in pain, disconnection and a complete lack of pleasure. There's good news though. With the help of this episode, you can easily learn how to avoid these mistakes so you can have amazing, orgasmic, pain-free and deeply pleasurable anal sex with your lover. Check out my new anal s...

Millions of men struggle with premature ejaculation, but we RARELY talk about the reality of the struggle, and that's a problem. The impact on our lives and relationships can be massive and debilitating... For example, men who regularly struggle with premature ejaculation might also experience: Low self-worth Low self-confidence High sexual shame High sexual anxiety Isolation Hopelessness Dep...

It takes 66 days to form a habit...  and you'll need strong self-discipline and willpower to do it. The problem is most of us are killing our ability to have strong willpower. How? Willpower is a FINITE resource, and if we don't take good care of our physical, emotional and spiritual health, our willpower reserves disappear. Crappy lifestyle = low willpower. Low willpower = bad habits. B...

What is semen retention and is it healthy? In today’s episode I’m joined by Jah Sun, founder of the 30-day Tantra Challenge, and we have a really down to earth conversation about semen retention, sex, and men’s sexual health in general. We talk about the benefits of semen retention, the dangers of semen retention, the power of intentional ejaculation, non-ejaculatory orgasms and prostate pleasure...

How do pornstars last so long?  Just how fake is porn? What happens behind the scenes? Join male pornstar Erik Everhard and I in a fascinating discussion about all things porn vs reality. Erik Everhard is a male porn star turned men’s coach, who has over 20 years of professional experience in the porn industry. He estimates that he has had sex with over 5000 women, which is absolutely mind-blowing...

If you’re curious about Conscious Kink & BDSM, and you want a simple set of tools to help you explore this with your partner, this episode is for you. Kimi Inch is a somatic therapist, professional Kink & BDSM expert, and professional dominatrix, who loves helping people explore and heal their sexuality. I first met Kimi at a Tantra festival last year where she taught a workshop on Conscio...

Mushrooms and plants can be our allies to help us thrive in a society that doesn’t support optimal health. The philosophy and magic of Daoist tonic herbalism is here to help - with herbs for better sex, and herbs for a better life in general.  This conversation is more of a casual hang out and discussion of life and sex, and I want to give you that heads up in case you’re coming here in search of...

If you want to understand male pelvic floor health, you’ll get a LOT out of this interview. It’s deeply informative and thought provoking, and I learned a lot during the interview too. Dr. Susie Gronski is a pelvic floor physical therapist who specializes in helping men overcome pelvic pain and other pelvic problems like erectile dysfunction, pelvic tightness, prostate inflammation, premature ejac...

This episode is a truly wild personal story that’s still hard to believe it actually happened. I chose sexual abundance over scarcity/anger, and it changed the entire outcome of my night.  This story really is one of the wildest dating experiences I’ve had. One night in Asheville, I had to decide how I would respond to a stimulus that was potentially very challenging/triggering. Part of my system...

This is the story of how I had my first amazing threesome. (I had many bad ones before this). In this episode you’ll learn how to have a threesome, how to avoid bad threesomes, how to talk about threesomes, AND you’ll get an awesome technique to actually begin a threesome too. YOU CAN HAVE AN AMAZING THREESOME TOO! You might think that because I’m a sex coach, I’ve had the most amazing sex life fo...

In this episode we’ll explore how to start, structure and maintain a successful men’s group (even if you’ve never been in one before). I’ve personally been in men’s groups for over 10 years, and they’ve improved literally every area of my life. In addition to learning how to start a group of your own, you'll also hear personal stories from my experiences in men's groups, and you'll...

Have you ever thought someone was hot, and then realized there was zero chemistry between you? In this episode we’ll explore the difference between sexual attraction and energetic attraction, how to notice energetic attraction, and why it’s important to pay attention to it. Energetic attraction can be your “radar” that you can use to improve all areas of your life, including business, family, roma...

In this episode, Lion and I explore how to be fully embodied, and why this is THE key to unlocking your wild, primal, sexual self. Unlocking this part of yourself allows you to create the kinds of relationships and sexual experiences you truly desire, in a safe way that builds connection and trust. You can’t just think your way into sexual and relationship success though, and this is where most pe...

This episode will give you an in-depth understanding of what causes premature ejaculation, plus how to fix it. We'll explore:  The most common causes of premature ejaculation How to cure premature ejaculation naturally Evolutionary reasons most men struggle with premature ejaculation How porn, stress, fear of intimacy, shallow breathing and more can all contribute to premature ejaculation How...

In this episode we'll explore: What is grief? How does grief affect relationships and our sex lives? What happens if we don’t integrate our grief? How to grieve in a healthy way, and why doing this can be beautiful What is a grief ceremony, and where can you find one? TOPICS & TIMES: 3:44 - What is grief? 9:08 - What happens if you don't deal with grief? 15:39 - How does grief affect...