Sex Upgraded

My entire perspective on women’s sexuality recently shifted — especially around the idea of containment. In this episode I share a personal realization that changed how I understand arousal, dominance, submission, deep pleasure, and the layers of shame many of us carry around sexuality. This is NOT meant to be a teaching episode. It’s more of a reflection on my own personal revelations and new pra...

I just completed the “Tantra Meets BDSM” 7-day training with Om Rupani and Laurie Handlers. And wow... This episode is a personal integration — what I experienced, what blew me away, and what I’m still unpacking. If you listened to my previous episode before attending, this is the follow-up. And if you’re new here, this is a candid look into my own personal growth as a sexual human. Welcome. *NOTE...

This is my personal update just before diving into 7-day BDSM retreat taught by Laurie Handlers & Om Rupani. It’s called “Tantra Meets BDSM” - and I’m 90% excited and 10% feeling edgy. Seems like the perfect ratio. Let me know your thoughts & questions if you have any.  CONNECT WITH ME: 🔸 Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life 🔸 Insta: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson Suppor...

The Orgasmic Mastery Course is now open for self-study enrollment. This short episode is a clear, grounded overview of the course - what it actually is, who it’s for, and how it works - so you can feel into whether this is the right next step for you. This is a 10-week sexual self-mastery training for men who want: Deeply embodied sexual confidence The ability to last as long as they want during s...

This episode is for any man who is interested in learning about my upcoming Orgasmic Mastery Course that starts on October 16th.  It's a recording of a live Q&A call I led on October 8th - for anyone to ask me anything about the course. We got into some great conversation, and if you're considering joining the course, this should be a helpful listen. If you have any questions about t...

Get my free guided practice here: https://learn.taylorjohnson.life/embodiment - and know this: Most men trying to improve their sex lives are missing one crucial ingredient: embodiment. And this is one of the main reasons why so many men have "tried all the techniques" but still struggle with premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction and sexual performance anxiety... To overcome these...

This episode is a very personal story from a workshop I attended 6 weeks ago... During the workshop, I had an experience that broke me open in profound ways that have changed my life for the better. *(Important note below)* And I'm definitely still integrating what happened, but at this point I've spent enough time in integration to feel excited to share the story with you. **IMPORTANT N...

What if the reason you keep choosing the wrong partner… is a belief you picked up at five years old? Much of our adult life we're actually acting from unconscious patterns that shape who we’re drawn to, how we show up in relationship, and why many men feel stuck chasing chemistry instead of building conscious connection... THIS is a moment when the boy or the prince within us has to grow up i...

Dave Asprey is controversial figure who says semen retention helped him make hundreds of millions of dollars... and I'm inclined to believe him. It's not a black and white situation though, and I'd like to explore that with you today... 🔴 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube. In this unique episode, WE are going to listen to an interview between Dave & Caitlin V - toget...

Why are so many men feeling lost when it comes to sex & dating? From porn, performance pressure, social isolation, fear of rejection, lack of good role models, a hyper-sexualized society and the lingering impacts of MeToo - modern men are facing a perfect storm of challenges that are very difficult to navigate - and are rarely talked about... 🔴 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube. To...

What if the sexual polarity practices meant to ignite your sex life are actually killing your connection? In today's episode we explore the shadow side of polarity work - and how you can move beyond it to build incredible charge in your relationship. 🔴 - You can also watch this episode in Youtube. You'll hear about how Londin and her partner almost ruined their relationship by practicin...

In this episode: ✅ Why embodiment is the real key to sexual mastery, deep love, and trustworthy leadership. There's a reason most men aren't having the sex, impact, or depth of connection they truly want in life — and it's probably not what you think. In this episode with John Wineland, we'll explore something far more powerful than any mainstream sex technique — something tha...

Most men don’t realize what porn is actually costing them… until it’s already showing up in their sex life, motivation, or relationships. *(And, you're not alone, I struggled with this too). I highly recommend listening if you've EVER questioned your use of or relationship with porn... 🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube here. In today's episode, Jeremy (who is a full...

If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything “right” but still not getting the sex, connection, or fulfillment you want ⚠️ - this conversation might blow something wide open for you. 🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this interview on Youtube . In today’s episode, I interview Traver Boehm about the Nice Guy archetype — where it comes from, how it messes with your sex life, and what it really takes to...

So many men get it wrong in the bedroom... Trying to be nice... Unsure of how to take the lead... And even ashamed of their own desire... If you've ever felt these ways, you’re not alone (and I have to regularly work on this too). In this episode, Layla Martin and I dive deep into how you can sexually unleash your primal masculine energy - in a way that’s bold, conscious, attuned, and deeply...

Ever felt stuck in your sexual self-mastery journey? Have you tried all kinds of techniques but feel like you’re still missing something? If so, this episode is for you. You'll learn the #1 reason most men struggle to see real progress in their sexual growth - and how you can overcome it. HINT: techniques alone won’t get you there. You've got to dive into the deeper emotional and psychol...

As a man, if you want incredible sexual experiences, you MUST learn how to embody alpha consciousness - so you can sexually lead from that place. In this episode you'll learn practical ways to do that - in sex, in dating, and in solo-cultivation practices too. 🔴 🎥 You can also watch this episode on Youtube . ❤️‍🔥 This episode is part 2 of the Sexual Polarity episodes with Justin Patrick Pi...

If you want to have amazing sex in a long-term relationship (consistently), you've got to understand HOW TO BUILD SEXUAL POLARITY. ❤️‍🔥 This interview is part 1 of a 2-part series to teach you a new model of sexual polarity, that you can start using today to build sexual charge in your relationship. Part 2 will come out in a couple of weeks. 🔴 🎥 You can watch the video version of this epis...

Have you ever felt a primal stirring within - a draw to the wild that seems at odds with our digital, modern world? If so, this episode is for you. The wild man archetype is important, and together we'll explore HOW TO INTEGRATE THE WILD MAN into our every day life. Including sex, business, relationship, community, etc... 🔴 🎥 You can watch the youtube version here. EPISODE TIMES & TOPIC...

This episode is a deep journey into the PRACTICE of sexual integrity. It's one of the most important episodes on this podcast so far, so please take your time with it - and note the chapters below too. Also, please read the important note below before you finish the episode. ⚠️ IMPORTANT NOTE: While this conversation is in-depth and provides great options for moving forward in healthy ways, i...

Most of us (as men) aren't living at our full potential. And breaking free of this - of being shut down - takes work... So most men stay stuck... In this episode you'll learn tools to work through your blocks, and you'll hear personal stories (from Thomas and I (Taylor) about how we both worked through MAJOR blockages in our lives. 🔴 🎥   You can watch the Youtube version here . An...

These could use some refinement: 00:00 - Intro 01:29 - Opening 02:08 - Ricky’s Background 02:29 - Relationship Issues Mistaken for Hormonal Issues 05:10 - The Correlation Between Long-Term Healthy Relationships and Happiness  09:58 - Prioritising Sex As A Parent & The Importance of Intimacy 17:10 - Biggest Struggles in Raising Children Today 22:19 - Comparing Today’s Parenting to Previous Gene...

My partner Naema and I recorded this episode to teach you how to SKILLFULLY penetrate a woman in a truly pleasure-filled & connective way - informed by Naema's profession as a pelvic bodyworker & sex coach for Women, and from our own personal sexual practices too. In this episode you'll learn juicy & HIGHLY pleasurable sexual penetration techniques, you'll learn importan...

Discover the unexpected ways pleasure and kink intertwine with human psychology as we navigate the often-misunderstood waters of BDSM, consent, and sexual liberation. Joined by the insightful Ashley and the experienced Kyle, we tackle the fallacy that kink is strictly a trauma response and instead reveal its potential for healing and empowerment. Through candid conversations, we explore the fluid...

Sex transmutation is one of the most important skills men can learn. Napoleon Hill, author of Think and Grow Rich - dedicated a full chapter of his book to "The Mystery of Sexual Transmutation" as a step to greater riches in life - but he failed to explain the real techniques for how he and other successful men have used sexual transmutation in their lives... In this episode, I'll s...