Sex Upgraded

Want to boost your testosterone naturally? This episode of the Sex Upgraded Podcast will tell you how. Join Taylor & male hormone expert Dr. Tracy Gapin for a practical & motivating conversation about how YOU can be the best version of yourself by optimizing all of your male hormone levels. Hormone optimization is key to overall vitality, with insights into libido, peak performance, mental...

This episode is a look into my personal life - because I want to be transparent with you around my professional & life development as a teacher. You'll hear about the 3 big trainings I'm personally enrolled in for 2024 (and why)... and you'll also hear my 3 main personal growth areas I want to work on too. 🔴 🎥 You can watch this episode on Youtube here. The best way to ask me...

Have you ever thought about becoming a sex coach for men? What does it take? Are there any requirements or certifications? Perhaps more importantly, what's it actually like to be a sex coach for men? In this episode you'll hear some behind the scenes stories and experiences from both Cam Fraser and I (we're both certified sexologists and full time sex coaches for men), and you'...

If you're a Christian, or if you've ever been impacted by Christianity in any way, this episode should be next on your list. Dr. Kevin Jenson believes that it's possible for Christians to have amazing, sacred sex - and that these experiences are also supported by the bible. Kind of mind blowing stuff... 🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube. Some topics we cover: Is sex...

This is a serious and sensitive episode... for any man who has ever hurt a woman - accidentally or otherwise. Specifically, for any man who has caused harm (myself included), and who wants to do better... Who wants to heal, offer repair, get humble, grow and become a better version of themselves. There's no shaming in this episode... Papillon and I wanted to create this for all of the men who...

What is the difference between Neo Tantra and Classical Tantra? What do they have in common, and what can we learn from them both, to implement into our own lives?    In this episode, Taylor explores tantric wisdom and history with Hema; a gifted mentor and teacher offering unique perspective from her upbringing and life full of experience with tantric traditions.  Press play to learn about the hi...

Tantra is a spiritual system that invites you to experience sex and life in a more powerful way. Your sexual energy can be rocket fuel for your entire life, but most men waste it - and waste their lives away in the process. In this episode you'll learn how to harness it so you can truly thrive in sex AND life. Shawn Roop is an expert on both classical and modern Tantra (Neo Tantra), and he fo...

Have you ever watched porn on psychedelics? Tyson has, and he has some VERY interesting things to say about it. This is one of my favorite episodes so far, and I think you'll get a lot out of it IF you've ever watched porn or if you're in relationship with someone who has watched porn. Check out the episode topics below, and please share this episode with a friend if you get somethi...

If you're a man who likes women, the online dating world NOT easy. The odds are heavily stacked against you. You have to stand out. You have to market yourself. And this episode will show you how. ⚠️ The GOOD NEWS is that so few men actually put effort into their dating profiles, that IF you do, you will almost certainly stand out. Join Koen Goren and I as we dive into how you can optimize yo...

Is sexual polarity bullshit? Masculine VS Feminine conversations are huge these days, but in the context of sexual polarity, is it actually helpful to use these terms? Is there a better option? That's what we'll talk about today 🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube . IN THIS EPISODE 00:00 Welcome 02:07 Yuval Introduced 04:04 Traditional Sexual Polarity Questioned 07:46 Embr...

"There aren't enough good men!" said the woman after ecstatic dance... She couldn't find any at the cacao ceremony or didgeridoo sound healing either... why? What makes a man actually DESIRABLE? That's  the real question here... And in this episode you'll hear some of the steps both Jasper and I took to change our lives from being sensitive, and ultimately undesirable...

What is the healthy masculine? What is a healthy sexual man? How can men thrive sexually in a way that improves the lives of ALL people? These are the kinds of questions we'll dive into in season 3 of this podcast. Why? Because it's both important AND it will help you become a better lover, partner, friend and overall human. We can't become our best selves just by learning technique...

Is Semen Retention legit or fake? In this episode you'll hear Dr. Jonathan Brajtbord's perspectives on the crossover of western medicine and esoteric wisdom (semen retention from a western medical perspective). In the second half of this interview (around the 30-minute mark), we get into an really inspiring conversation about conscious monogamy too. It's definitely worth your time i...

Few men have realized the true power of masturbation, and this episode will help you become one of those men. If you DO want to learn the best masturbation techniques possible, and how to masturbate in a way that will blow your mind, improve your sex life AND improve your entire life, this episode is for you. 🔸 You can also watch this episode on Youtube. When most guys masturbate, they just sit s...

Words are powerful, and the right words during SEX can massively improve the experience. In this episode you'll hear how YOU can use the power of words during sex to exponentially increase pleasure and connection for all. We also talk about porn, and whether or not friends should watch each other have sex (instead of watching porn). IF YOU HAVE EVER WATCHED PORN, you should listen to this epi...

After 3.5 years of NoFap, without porn, masturbation, sex or ejaculation, a man reached out to me last week after he realized NoFap was hurting him. He had been experiencing what is called the NoFap Flatline for years... 🔶 You can also watch this episode on Youtube here. Nofap flatline is a term used to describe when a man is feeling low, dull, lackluster, lethargic, bored and unmotivated - INSTE...

Most men limit their sex lives without knowing it... I've done this too... But the good news is that it IS possible to change, and if you change the 5 things mentioned in today's episode, your sex life will improve in massive ways.  🔱  SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES: 🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (Begins July 2023) 🔸 Semen Retention Mastery 🔱 FREE GUIDES: 🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Chall...

Andre recently taught a BDSM 101 class in Asheville (where I live), and I wanted to attend but couldn't because I was out of town. Some of my friends went though, and their feedback was great, so bringing Andre on the podcast seemed like the next best thing. 🔸 You can watch this episode on Youtube too. IN THIS EPISODE: An introduction to BDSM (Bondage, Dominance & Discipline, Submission...

In this episode you'll hear Juno's personal story of going from monogamy into polyamory.  We talk about the very real struggles of doing this (jealousy and lack of societal support), AND the benefits of this kind of relationship structure too. This episode is unique because Juno isn't a sex or relationship coach. She's not trying to "sell" you a concept or lifestyle....

Sexual trauma happens to men too, and it's important to talk about it. In this episode we're joined by licensed therapist Papillon DeBoer, who specializes in helping men work with and heal sexual trauma. You'll learn how trauma affects men, how women are a common cause of trauma in men, what trauma actually is, how generational trauma works, plus techniques and resources to help hea...

This episode is about the SECOND time I went to a sex party. I actually participated here, and it changed my life in a big way. We all took a micro dose of MDMA, and what happened might surprise you... 🔸 Watch this episode on Youtube here. 🔸 Watch the FIRST Sex Party episode here. 🎙️ View All Podcast Episodes Here 👇 (Free guides & resources below) THOUGHTS ON MDMA: Just to be clear - I&apos...

This episode is about the first time I went to a sex party. It happened over 10 years ago in Asheville, NC, USA, and it blew my mind - in ways I wasn't prepared for. 🔺 Watch the episode on Youtube here. People often ask me to share personal stories from the past, and this is one I've thought about sharing for a while. It's more of an edutainment episode, because there's not a...

This episode is a MUST LISTEN for anyone who wants to have a thriving long-term relationship. Why? Because creating this kind of relationship takes a certain set of skills that 99.7% of people didn't learn growing up. I certainly didn't... I've studied with Steve Torma for years, and practicing what I've learned from him has fundamentally changed EVERYTHING about my romantic an...

I didn't expect this episode to go the direction it did, but it ended up being perfect. Thank you Jeddy for getting real with me, and for having the awareness and intuition to pivot the conversation when something juicy came up. Jeddy is the host of the Rising Man Podcast, and he regularly leads in-person workshops for men too around rights of passage and vision quests in the desert. You can...

I just got back from an awesome workshop that changed my perspective on how to practice semen retention as a lifestyle. And in this video I'll first share some important key points about semen retention , and then you'll hear my own personal transformation story from the workshop. * My personal story begins at 13:12 in this episode. The workshop I went to was called Embodied Transformati...