Sex Stories: How To Do You

Kimberly (20s, Actor, Bisexual, Virgin, Midwest) & Wyoh discuss: anxiety virginity smashing vibrators on clits being quiet for roommates her lightsaber fan fiction/porn & smut hugging orgasmic pooping and butt sex woman crushes cute kitties (Muse) body stuff & Kimberly asks Wyoh about getting into BDSM.   Kimberly’s Update from May 2023 | Jet Plane-Level Stimulation     🔥 PARTNERS | M...

Phillip (61 Mexican Californian cis het m  / works in show business / former military) shares about: his dad’s bad advice on masturbation, losing his virginity at 18 to a woman twice his age, seeing her again years later, choking (Wyoh mentions episode 659 of the Savage Lovecast with Mistress Matisse and the discussion of choking), porn as (a poor kind of) sex ed, a 24-year-long marriage from ages...

Amanda has a nesting partner, two other partners that are also partners with each other (but they’re not a triad… so far), and her girlfriend lives with her own triad. Confused? Listen to Amanda talk about her polycule, and what it was like to come out to her super-Christian midwestern family. She also shares the wisdom of radar check-ins (learned from the multiamory podcast), talks about her supe...

Couch-fucking, conservative church culture, post-divorce kink, and orgasm aftershocks—Ron shares how clarity, enthusiasm, and a pleaser’s heart shaped his sex life. 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod! ÜBERLUBE: the BEST personal lubricant LORALS: FDA-cleared latex lingerie | Use the code LOVER for 10% off FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | U...

Morgan and Wyoh talk about awkward sex convos with no escape, birth control, talks with partners about safe sex, enthusiastic consent, and what it’s like to come out as a queer lady after being identified as a straight ally for so long. They also talk directing a short with queer themes (and being wildly supported by Midwestern Moms), new partnership, supportive partnership, current fantasies and...

Raquel and Wyoh sprinkle their amazingly explicit sex drives with astrological observations. They talk road head, swallowing, crazy-good sex and turn-ons, Jaiya’s Sexual Blueprint, the concept of “the husband hole,” HPV, turning yourself on (in the mirror), what it’s like to feel turned off, and Wyoh gives details of her “most outrageous” sex night.   🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—g...

Leah and Wyoh love sex, and Leah tells Wyoh about her work in consent education. They talk about what makes blowjobs good, compare feelings about facials, and they get into details on specific sexual things. Leah shares early memories of her first-ever porn experience… at her dad’s office, on “bring your daughter to work day,” and talks about asking her (very uncomfortable) mom to drive her to buy...

Sex Therapist Tim Norton is host of the (SUPER-awesome, go listen) podcast Hard Conversations, and takes the time to discuss penis-related issues with Wyoh. They talk about why it’s so difficult to talk about penises, size, the actual definition of “dysfunction,” whether or not sex and porn addiction are actually a thing, and how guys experiencing erectile issues can treat them without drugs, and...

Rope bondage, anal orgasms, and dark porn confessions—CC shares about reclaiming her sexuality after shame, embracing submission, and finding healing through kink.  🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod! ÜBERLUBE: the BEST personal lubricant LORALS: FDA-cleared latex lingerie | Use the code LOVER for 10% off FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock ring...

Olivia tells Wyoh what it was like to grow up in a California Mission town, and her own journey of the last two years that has led her to be more and more in touch with her own body and desires. They talk about great high school sex ed, what it takes to feel comfortable with a partner, lazy Sundays full of self-touch, discuss butt plugs and compare experiences around the ease of keeping them in, a...

Chanel and the Circus shares their sexual evolution with Wyoh in this episode, starting with the super-duper repressed Catholic school upbringing that kept them from touching themselves at ALL until college. They share a series of amazing sexual adventures that include: beautiful group sex stories, navigating jealousy in a foursome in real time, a foot job in a car outside a club, discussions of a...

Nikki and Wyoh talk about Nikki’s work as a sex educator before getting into more personal stuff: giving partners feedback post-sex, dry spells, being topless, loving touch, difficult cumming and mental blocks, talking about sex with parents, a cool Grandma, a first time in a boyfriend’s mum’s bed, sex parties, two-dude threesomes (or, kinda, mostly), and Wyoh pitches that Nikki should go by “F. B...

Billy explains why he hates the word "creepy," talks about a lack of sex ed, feeling like an outsider in high school and having a dad who feels like his son should find ladies instead of masturbating, talking to the first woman he ever slept with about how pressured he felt to have sex with her, naked comedy, how he decided to start The Manwhore Podcast, public sex, play parties, craigslist bukkak...

Mia and Wyoh talk about what it’s like to grow up curious (and horny) in a family where sex is not talked about, getting dragged out of a guy’s apartment as a teen, being introduced to BDSM in a real-life stable (yep, an actual riding crop was used), disconnected married sex and connected, hot separation sex pre-divorce, connecting with new lovers, practicing communication, and having aggressive s...

Wyoh talks to a couple, Sam and Alice, in this bonus episode! They cover all kinds of things: using squiggle pens as early vibrators, discovering masturbation using a vibrator — as a dude! Dry humping, energy buildup, making out, spiritual and body connection, open throat chakras and polite neighbors, and some shared details back & forth of what they love about each other and their shared sex...

Leah and Wyoh talk about all the pop culture stuff that made early understandings of sexuality cringey, college hookups, and misfires in attempts to be a "modern" woman and forwardly express sexual desires and/or romantic interest. They talk about going down on women, inviting thirds (or being invited as a third) into a relationship, being in one's own body, and finding ways to diminish anxiety. T...

Zoo (FKA Susan) and Wyoh talk about hot dogs and hairbrushes and early (and later) sexual explorations; teenage sex and getting caught, how casual partnership can feel different permission-wise—Zoo shares stories about going to poly meetups, dating multiple partners and strap-ons. They also touch on navigating sexual trauma PTSD and knife play.   Zoo’s Update from September 2022 | Phantomgasms and...

Steve tells Wyoh about sneaking porno magazines as a teen, details of his masturbation habits (they've both masturbated on long road trips) and Steve tells *incredibly* awesomely detailed stories of various experiences: losing his virginity (and gaining chlamydia), sleeping with dudes for the first time, sex toys, open relationships, a girlfriend pretending to be asleep, deep-throating, power play...

Walking in on sex, teenage confusion around desire, and discovering what pleasure actually feels like—Barrie shares how early experiences and curiosity shaped her evolving relationship to intimacy. 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod! ÜBERLUBE: the BEST personal lubricant LORALS: FDA-cleared latex lingerie | Use the code LOVER for 10% off FIRMTECH: Per...

NOTE: This episode includes talking about sexual assault. Alison and Wyoh talk about sex at a young age, turn-offs, a LOT: how not-okay it is for dates to assume their sexual expectations will be met, how boring it is to have someone do their 1-2-3 moves, and they discuss the idea that it's okay to reassess and revoke consent and just peace out if you're no longer into it. Alison tells a couple am...

Shaina recalls early memories feeling underwhelmed dating dudes before they realized they were queer and preferred making out with female-bodied and non-binary people. They talk about sneak-watching Degrassi behind the couch, and they also tell Wyoh about their amazing first time with a woman at a summer camp where they were both working. Shaina and Wyoh talk a lot about how obvious the signs of i...

TK talks about the effects of being raised in a very Christian household on her sex life, her (recent!) first time orgasming with a partner, a terrible first time in general, her explorations into the land of kink, fantasies around group sex, and how she bruises easily. She and Wyoh talk toys, small penises, and switching back & forth between kinky & vanilla relationships.   🔥 PARTNERS |...

Weed-whacker tongues, rough sex, and unexpected watersports—Brenda shares hilariously candid stories about oral sex preferences, sexual compatibility, and the importance of consent in kinky exploration. 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod! ÜBERLUBE: the BEST personal lubricant LORALS: FDA-cleared latex lingerie | Use the code LOVER for 10% off FIRMTECH...

Kate and Wyoh go super in-depth on desires and how to directly ask for things. Kate tells amazing blowjob and first-sex-with-another-person stories, talks about the specific types of touches she prefers, gives an AMAZING rendition of an orgasm description she gave to one of her best friends, a virgin bride-to-be who was curious about what to expect. And they talk a lot about talking about butt sex...

Quinn tells Wyoh about her virginity GAIN (we decide "loss" is a dumb way to put it) in... a bouncy house, talks about discovering masturbation at an early age, and discusses her discovered love of phone sex. They talk about how consensual rough sex is awesome, Quinn shares stories about scandalous public sex (including a work story), what it's like to be partway through a self-chosen year-of-abst...