Sex Stories: How To Do You

Wes (early 30s, white straight midwestern male) talks about exploring his sexuality alongside his wife 15 years into their relationship, mojoupgrade.com , and the safety and security that comes from being deeply committed to another person. He and Wyoh talk about the efficiency of monogamy, and revisit his early years, finding his dad’s pornos, secretly watching VHS tapes with his friends, losing...

Wyoh and Kaz (36, she/her, queer, pansexual poly-hearted kinky submissive sex educator based in Nairobi, Kenya) have a thoughtful subby-poly-kink-filled sex talk-fest. Kaz talks about her work with The Spread podcast (go listen!), and shares what it was like to be super horny as a kid (including grabbing a dude’s junk as a toddler), exploring polyamory and sex parties and swingers parties during h...

Steve (67, bi, homophobic, poly, NY-based, from the Midwest originally, works in the arts, former marijuana dealer) and Wyoh talk about early memories about a sexual experience with other boys that he’s still unpacking, lingering fear around relationships with men, his exhibitionist streak and public sex experiences, his BDSM underwhelm, what it is to be a “healing lover” and favorite cruising spo...

Monica (28, Doctor, NYC-based, originally from New Jersey, first generation Indian-American and oldest child) is in the midst of a sexual awakening, AND does not masturbate. She and Wyoh talk about her pleasure unfolding in recent years, how growing up with such little awareness around sex influenced her experiences, internal orgasms (!), exploring her clit, learning about squirting by doing it, h...

Locky (M, hetero-figuring it out, 23) & Clarice (F, 26, she/her) are a couple visiting from Darwin, Australia and share delicious sex stories! They talk anal explorations, how they use toys to prep, keeping a long distance relationship sexy (and they teach Wyoh what a we-vibe is!), they share future fantasies of kink and possible piss play, laugh about cream pies, and give the details of going...

Emalee (21, cis fem she/her; from rural NY, now lives in the Midwest part time) tells Wyoh about: Growing up in a conservative 7th Day Adventist household, a family of medical professionals Her mom reading “Every Woman’s Battle” – which includes anti-masturbation messages Going to an Adventist boarding school (no shoulders, no knees showing!) Dating her brother’s best friend when she was in high s...

Mormon missions, gay awakenings, and erogenous ears—Carson shares his journey from closeted perfectionism to open sexual exploration after a spinal cord injury reshaped his body, identity, and path to pleasure. 📈 STATS | 28 gay cis male, he/him pronouns, LGBTQ/Disability advocate, conservative Mormon upbringing in Salt Lake City, based in NYC. ⏰ TIME CODE 00:00 Growing up Mormon in a military fa...

Jack (54, straight male, he/him, married for the second time, engineer, Californian) and Wyoh talk about: how he’s always been fascinated with the opposite sex walking in on people having sex: his mom, his brother, and his first wife his amazing first time, guided by a woman we’re sure must be a Sex Angel Variance in sexual attraction turn-ons & toys & the duffel bag of goodies he and his...

Wyoh shares delicious deep-throating details and interviews a therapist ( ryanjacobstherapy.com ), a soon-to-be doctor, and a sex worker as she unpacks her very recent experience discovering that the HSV-2 virus now lives in her throat. Yes, it is an STI episode, and yes there are excellent sex stories as usual, along with a lot of really useful information for anyone who is sexually active or, uh...

Eve (20s F, she/her, pansexual, British, life model/performer/workshop Domme) & Wyoh laugh through: discovering her dad was a stripper, how sex seemed impossible when we were kids, the naked-friendly camp she went to growing up, dream orgasms and her ongoing masturbation journey, a swingers club four stories high, teaching Domme classes for bachelorette parties (but actually being more submiss...

Ginny (28, LA-based, writer,  comedian, sexually active) & Wyoh talk about masturbation fantasies, trying to have a sex life when you work at night, what it’s like to get wet from kissing, being a tough cum, bringing a vibrator to sex, gag reflexes, blowjobs, thinking non-painful sex was orgasming, and her new book: Toxic Femininity in the Workplace. Ginny Hogan is an LA-based writer and stand...

Joey (30s, W Cis Hetero Male, NYC-based, Polyamorous) and Wyoh talk about what it’s like to have two girlfriends, how he became (but kind of always was) poly, what it’s like being partially out but not with family, his positive association with words like “pervert” and “slut,” The Virgin Threesome that appeared to him out of thin air, and he shares a *fantastic* AirBnb threesome story.   🔥 PARTNE...

20s, F, she/her, gray ace (asexual), hetero-romantic, actress/artist, hostess at Denny’s, huge nerd, originally from Florida, LA-based. Wyoh and Madie talk about asexuality, what it means to be ace, gray ace, aro (aromantic). Madie shares what it feels like in her body when things get physical, and how problematic that is being a pretty straight woman. They touch upon demi-sexuality, Come As You A...

In honor of Scorpio season and her half birthday, we had to do a sex-in-the-stars episode. Wyoh shares her very dear friend and collaborator, a poet, teacher, and astrologer: Heidi Rose Robbins. Together, they go through each sign of the zodiac and talk about sex, love, partnership and kinks. Wyoh shares her observations around astrological combinations when it comes to kinky people, and they read...

Jay (27, Latino, he/him, trans, queer, vanilla to knife play, handyman, Virginia-based, grew up Catholic in Bolivia) and Wyoh talk about: growing up queer in Bolivia observations of gender disparity as a F-M  his own transition sexting!!!  wet dreams disney porn . com porn as a kid accidentally framing his dad for a porn virus learning to orgasm in his mid-20’s testosterone & extreme horniness...

Pregnancy sex, postpartum healing, and rough play—Medusa gets candid about desire through every stage of partnership and the fantasies that keep things exciting after twelve years together. 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod! ÜBERLUBE: the BEST personal lubricant LORALS: FDA-cleared latex lingerie | Use the code LOVER for 10% off FIRMTECH: Performance...

Wyoh solicits Sex Stories from listeners and humans in the wild in Los Angeles, San Francisco and New York. Topics include: thoughts on other couples’ sex lives the worst kind of biting lighthouse sex partners with different levels of desire for sex submissiveness and men losing focus during sex the aesthetic of bondage discovering kink in college sexing middle school crushes thirty years later th...

Sarrah Rose (Millennial, single, bi, sex coach) and Wyoh talk about: her work as a men’s sex coach growing up Evangelical discovering tantric yoga learning to be IN her body helping men have sexual breakthroughs  & amazing sex strengthening PC muscle, edging, how to improve your sex life having more fulfilling sex how to eat pussy tantric practices and breath work  guys who can’t stop talking...

Stephanie (20’s, straight-ish/open to anything cis female, NYC-born, stylist, lingerie designer, sex-activist) and Wyoh talk about: working in a sex shop as a teenager sex-positive mom discovering BDSM porn in 4th grade masturbation specifics blowjob technique specifics and favorite positions and *CUMING* from giving a blowjob requests for using teeth assgasms are real!!! fucking up against some s...

Tam (40 cis female, bi, kinky submissive) and Wyoh talk about: All things (or at least a lot of em) kinky & submissive: BDSM! Meanings of collars. What to do post-First Master, D/s dynamics, jealousy, ethics, discovering your submissive self, latex & boob harnesses. experimenting w tampons pre-period losing virginity w another person conscious (and supportive!) in the room…and on a waterbe...

Wyoh and Bekah talk about: growing up in the Birther movement & being told that masturbating was sex with the Devil (and thinking that’s kinda… hot) working through psychological religious trauma  getting kicked out at 18 for having sex with her boyfriend she was only supposed to be “courting” understanding sexuality beyond the physical act of sex open marriage at 21 her collection of playboy...

(22, female, Wisconsin, engaged to her partner of 5 years, wants to explore her pansexual identity)   NOTE: we talk about heavy stuff including: abusive partners, mental health struggles & eating disorders.   Lo & Wyoh talk about: discovering VHS porn under her parent’s dresser with “two large-breasted females” porn on her iPod touch bad relationships meeting people through social media sl...

Adam (38, friends know as gay male, exploring pansexual non-binary possibly trans individual) and Wyoh talk about: truth or dare & wrestling as early forms of play (that could lead to things like dry humping) rubbing on friends to the point of ejaculation dating women until college coming out mid-20s in spite of having a supportive family filmmaking to process trauma strippers in church consen...

Nichole (30, recently married, monogamous, kinky submissive, bi-curious, works in the corporate world) and Wyoh talk about: Growing up in Ohio Meeting Mistress Devlynn DeSade What it’s like to be in a monogamous relationship for seven years & their bedroom-only D/s relationship and the energy they give to one another (that sex is a huge part of) Her intro to butt stuff, and how it used to make...

B (30s, photographer, pansexual, male-bodied, submissive-leaning, NYC) and Wyoh talk about: growing up with six siblings sex ed via a book identifying first as gay and later as pansexual where to masturbate at a boarding school feeling defeated with early orgasms his super romantic first time with a woman that didn’t go quite as expected a hand job friend love of body sensations  kink & male s...