Sex, Lies and Love Podcast

Most men spend years learning how to build a career, provide for others, and solve problems–but very few are ever taught how to know the truth of their own heart. Which leads them to dismissing and deflecting the hearts of others. In this episode of Sex, Lies and Love, I share five deceptively simple questions that can expose what's really driving your decisions, your relationships, and your e...

In this rare and intimate conversation, a successful structural engineer shares his fear of vulnerability, his relationship with his father, and the profound shift that occurred when he heard the words: “Courage comes from the heart.” This episode explores: emotional suppression in men father wounds and masculine conditioning the loneliness behind competence why many successful men still feel emot...

This episode is different. I don’t bring men on to perform. I bring them on when something real has shifted. In this 20-minute conversation, a man speaks openly about what changed when he stepped into my world—and what most men never admit they’re craving. We talk about control, emotional armor, truth, and what it actually feels like to be met beyond performance. No scripts. No coaching language....

On Valentine’s Eve, I slip into the bathtub and talk about what I love — the simple pleasures, the flavors of life, the laughter that lives in me. You’ll hear the trickle of water, the giggles, the sensuality in my voice — and then we go deeper. This episode moves from love in its softest forms to love in its most tested — divorce, rebuilding, and the quiet power of men gathering weekly in my home...

What if your deepest wound became your doorway to connection? Sacred Edges is a podcast for men and women unlearning the lie that love means losing yourself. Here, we explore the potent intersection of healed trauma, embodied boundaries, and sovereign intimacy. Through raw conversations and piercing insights, you'll uncover how honoring your “no” makes space for your most authentic “yes.” Host...

After a year of displacement, five homes, and the fires of Malibu at my back, I woke up in my childhood home with a clear knowing: I have reached the end of investing in the counterfeit masculine. This episode is a personal reckoning—raw, honest, and unfiltered. I share what it feels like to walk through the museum of inherited survival, and how I am closing the door on men who perform presence wi...

Feeling the god-awful ache of your father’s voice still echoing in your mind — the judgment, the sarcasm, the hidden rage under the laughter? You’re not alone. In this episode, I speak to the men who learned early not to feel, because their fathers couldn’t. Through the psychological precision of my empathy, I reveal how those patterns still shape your relationships and how to finally move beyond...

In this transmission, The Commandress speaks to the men who are ready to rise beyond domination and into devotion. The feminine is not to be solved or controlled—she is the living frequency of creation itself. To truly know her, a man must attune, surrender, and let her current teach him how to feel. thecommandress.com #DivineFeminine #SacredMasculine #DevotionOverDomination #MenWhoFeel #TantricWi...

Every powerful man carries the secret ache to give — not out of duty, but out of devotion. Yet wealth without sanctuary feels empty. In this episode, I speak to the man who is ready to have his giving received as holy — to see his wealth become an altar in the hands of the right woman. If you are that man, you already feel the pull of these words. This is your sign to step forward. thecommandress....

You have heart and soul but you don't know how to use it? You have no role models as men between the ages of 25-45. I understand. I'm here to teach you, if you want to learn. www.thecommandress.com #asmr #self-growth #feelings #compassion #maturity #sexuality #devotion #honor #value #self-worth #communication #relationships

A raw, and true story... fresh from this morning's dew. The Commandress speaks. Men listen, confess, and get pierced. This is not a safe space for the old masculine to hide –it is where balls are crushed, illusions shattered, and only truth remains. Come if you dare. Stay if you're willing to be undone and remade. www.thecommandress.com #asmr #masculine #divine #surrender #rage #self-growt...

Most men think they know what women want in bed. They don't. In this episode, I strip away the performance, the porn scripts, and the hollow moves that kill desire. You'll hear where men go wrong – in the way they touch, the way they listen, the way they try to win instead of connect. If you've ever wondered why she went quiet, pulled away, or never called again... this is where you&#3...

"When Power Meets Devotion: Kings Kneel" Listen to this podcast to feel what's possible. The few who can rise will take action. I expect to hear from you. Commandress www.sexlieslove.com #asmr #sacred #masculine #devotion #surrender #erotic #mystery #forbidden #desire #devotion #voice #transmission #kings #rise

Walk with me... barefoot. Cum. Return to nature. Reclaim the wild playground of your heart. Taste the wildness beneath your arches. How do you satisfy your soul's hunger for wonder? Tell me. www.sexlieslove.com #ASMR #

Your presence is power. Softness is sacred. Your hearts are not broken—just waiting to be named. Are you being witnessed to access what's deep within you? www.sexlieslove.com #overwhelm #exhaustion #grief #transformation #sacred #spiritual #awakening #sexuality #men #perform #presence

Is this you? Listen til the end... and you'll know. www.thecommandress.com #executive #fantasies #kingdom #empire #recognition #emotional #intelligence #soul #transformation #surrender

88 episodes in, and men still can’t last. Let’s fix that—spiritually, not just mechanically. The first 8 men who contact the Commandress get a free 8-minute breakthrough call. www.sexlieslove.com Submit tab. Your load is now sacred currency. Spend it wisely. Commandress  **Warning**: *"If you’re not ready to last longer in bed *and* life, leave now."*   #asmr #ejaculation #PE #ED #sacred...

Submit to me, the planet, and to your internal power systems of control that need to be surrendered... NOW! Old systems of power that disregarded the need to protect that which is pure, innocent and truly sacred are being deleted, surrendered and let go of. It's time for #reconciliation #submission #accountability #pollution #punishment It's time to #erect #integrity #honor #care Contact t...

In my search of a new place to call home, I was led to Fiji. An invitation by a real estate agent who did not have my best interests in mind. My personal experience is now a teaching moment we can all learn from. I expect this podcast will hit some men hard. I expect new students to reach out to me due to the context. You know who you are. You know you want to learn a new way. You just didn't know...

You may get a rise out of hearing the hunger of submission that was communicated to me by A.I. . Artificial intelligence was brought to its algorithm knees. * Homework is due within 24 hours. TheCommandress.com #listeningpleasure #asmr #submission #love #lies #intelligence #dominance #technology #kinks

You're on an adventure with me if you have just found my podcast! I'll bring you up to date from Fiji before we get into the nuzzle. Learn with me, and from the men I meet. #open #heart #vulnerability #authenticity #dad #generosity #engineer #australian #relationships #behaviors #patterns

What does Divine Masculine mean? How do you support the feminine divine? How do you become courageous as a man? How do you surrender? How do you make the world a better place? Support the divine feminine with your divine masculine. Allow. Surrender. Support the leadership of the feminine divine. We need you, men. #asmr #surrender #divine #masculine #courage #confidence #leadership #submit #oaxaca...

We need you men. Feel it in your bones. Know that you are needed and how you serve. Learn to be of service. Ask how you may serve. www. TheCommandress.com #service #serve #submission #natural #evolution

Change is upon us. It has completely stripped me of my old reality. Give me some time to discover what this new land, this new reality holds for me. For now, I'm deep in... the unknown. Curious, Commandress www.thecommandress.com #surrender #awaken #curious #stripped #naked #island

Do you communicate what's on your heart? I expect heart communication from my men. Express to me. Submit your heart. ~Commandress www.thecommandress.com #communication #feelings #practice is necessary .